i really like her and stuff, she is pretty cool and has a rockin bod. just wondering.
2007-05-19 15:29:19 · 18 answers · asked by Donovan O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats so stupid
do u love her?
2007-05-19 15:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Don't do her any favors. You "really like her and stuff". What about love? Are you willing to put her needs above yours? What about if she loses that "Rockin bod" because she gives birth to your children? Marriage is more than just the pretty white dress and Tuxedo, cake and people throwing whatever they throw at weddings today. Are you ready to love her through whatever life throws your way? Share in the responsibilites of having a household, job and kids? Forsaking all others? I am getting the jist that you have no idea what it is going to take. I think you have a few years before you should ask anyone to marry you.
2007-05-19 15:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this will help answer your question
Years of research have shown that most long-term marriages have some very common factors and that the failure of any two or more of this factors in high probability will cause an end to the marriage. (Long term –is defined as a marriage of more than 20 years)
1. Both parties married at age 25 or older.
2. Religious compatible (example: Jews + Hindu just do not work)
3. Common goals (someone likes a simple life, not chasing material wealth or career and some that is very goal minded for gaining as much material wealth as possible, together they do not make a lasting marriage. Another example, a conflict over having children).
4. Social economical compatible (poor + rich only works in the movies)
5. Financial responsible (debt is the number one cause of divorce)
6. Open Communications (agree that it is ok not to agree, tell each other your most hidden secrets, keeping the secrets from everyone, no name calling, and etc)
7. Both parties are very much alike (opposite may attract, but they do not make for a lasting marriage)
8. Sexual compatible (variety in sexual act + partner that finds some acts repulsive, does not make a lasting marriage
2007-05-19 15:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all you can come up with to describe her, you probably shouldn't consider marriage at this point in time.
Get to know each other very well, because marriage is not something to jump into lightly.
I only knew my now husband for about 8 months before we were married, and it set us back quite a bit as we had to use the first few years of married life getting to know each other as we hadn't when dating.
In our case it all worked out, but not without struggle. We have been married for five years on the 24th of this month, and though I don't have any regrets, I would take some extra time to get to know each other before marrying if I could do it over again.
Good Luck!
2007-05-19 15:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, marry michelle for her rockin bod since you really like her. Then, if she gets all boring, and, like, fat and ugly and stuff, you can totally throw her away and get a new wife, right? Loser.
2007-05-19 15:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if you actually want to marry her, or if you're just in it cause she's 'pretty cool' and has a 'rockin bod' i'd say no...
2007-05-19 15:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask forget about it, you don't marry someone because their cool, or because they have a great body. You marry someone because you love and respect them and like almost everything about them, remember your making a commitment to be with this person for the rest of her life, so you better like her too. Suppose she has a baby and puts on weight and grows up and isn't so cool anymore, would you still love her? I'm not putting you down saying this but you better wait awhile, even some grownups have trouble with marrage.
2007-05-19 15:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by chessmaster1018 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow and you really need the opinions of total cyber-strangers to make the most important decision of your life? I can tell she will be really happy with you. Let her know you posted a question on Yahoo! Answers, show her and then ask her if she'd still want to marry you. If yes, you have got yourself the greatest blonde in the world.
2007-05-19 15:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOLD THIK YES BUT IF YA DINT LIKE HER OR LOVE HER THEN DONT,ND IT SHOULD BE MORE THAN A ROCKIN BOD,I WOULDNT CAUSE IF YA ASKIN ONLINE U MUST NOT FEEL VERY CONFIDENT IN MARRINNG HER,ASK YA GUY FRIENDS BETTER,OR PRAY FOR GOD TO HEL P U!!!
2007-05-19 15:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by musthvebeenmyeviltwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donovan with all those ''assets'' you mentioned she has, if you don't marry her someone else will and they'll get to enjoy them instead of you. So...tell me do you really want that? I didn't think so. So marry her then! What are you waiting for?
2007-05-19 15:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really all up to you hun...if you really love her...go for it...but you gotta know...this isn't something you take lightly. if you are not sure that she loves you or not, you could get married to her and she could take all of your money in a divorce settlement. But, i'm not saying she doesn't...basically...if you love her, and could see yourself with her till you get old...ask her. Good luck.
2007-05-19 15:34:32 · answer #11 · answered by msrobinpeck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋