Marriage & Divorce - 20 May 2007

My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have one son together, and a daughter ( which is mine from a previous relationship) We were recently informed that I cant have any more kids. And now he wants a divorce. We both want more children, I wish I could have more. How can I make him see the the 2 children we do have is a total blessing and we can still go on if we cant have more.. I am so distroyed! What should I do, is there anything I can do to make him realize that 2 is enough??

2007-05-20 23:46:14 · 23 answers · asked by Christina W 4

she reads my messages, check the call register.....
after checking she dumps me a questionaire, which i don't reply as i think i m not bound to reply.....
please note that ,she is a cheater herself but i never fiddled with her cell phone..
how should i make her get rid of this habit

2007-05-20 21:25:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been married for 31 yrs, two children who are grown. Been separated for two yrs now. He has dated several women and gotten intimate with them, lied on the computer on his dating site profile, but i knew who it was....hey you don't live with someone for 29 yrs and not know it's them on a profile!, yeap i was right, he finally confessed. I don't love him anymore, but my problem is, i am 53 work only part time, in a job i don't like, and it's gonna be hard for me to find another job after staying home raising my children and working odd part time jobs off and on over the last 25 years. If i divorce him, my insurance coverage will end in 1 or 2 yrs, and i can't live off my salary of $6.25. Have went on several interviews but no luck. Please help....what should i do,? I have told him i have no choice but for him to come back, but we can't get along and see eye to eye on much of anything. Don't want to get in the same old rut we were in when he left.

2007-05-20 19:41:47 · 4 answers · asked by tenderlovingcare77 2

2007-05-20 19:32:01 · 17 answers · asked by smashinghumpkin 1

She lives in pennsylvania, I'm in Nevada my step daughters are 19 and 17, the wife and I have no financial connections or mutual property.

2007-05-20 19:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Russ 3

What if you love your ex so much but you have made a mistake. The mistake being that when the two of you broke up you kissed another man and let the other man touch you. Now the both of you are trying to repair your relationship, but the guilt of letting another man touch you while you were broken up is interfering with letting yourself get close again with the man that you love? Do you tell the man that you were with someone else while you were broken up even though it might hurt him so deeply or just not mention it because you guys weren't together at the time because he does not like hearing about other men at all?

2007-05-20 19:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by souplane21 2

2007-05-20 19:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by deniselockard2001 1

Should i call her and tell her.....what should i do there is a child invoved

2007-05-20 19:10:45 · 9 answers · asked by Ethan's mommy 1

2007-05-20 18:56:57 · 7 answers · asked by MARIA G 1

and nothing worked for the moment to happen with your spouse and he makes you feel like he really doesn't want you.....Would you cheat??????

2007-05-20 18:49:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 18:49:15 · 16 answers · asked by lynkid 2

I am Hindu male and my love a christian. Few of our family members are for our marriage and few against even though not totally. We are at Bangalore. Can anyone let me know how to get married in temple (certificate?) and then get registered in register office.

2007-05-20 18:47:54 · 2 answers · asked by rajesh p 1

I have a friend who when she gets angry with her man refuses to have sex with him untill she gets her way . I personally think this is a very selfish,childish, and rather stupid thing to do. I have tried to tell her in an indirect way that she should'nt act this way but she wont listen. I think that there are far too many lonley people in the world and to tell the truth some women are just whores, and will gladly give it to your man just because. you are just asking for trouble!!! what do you think?

2007-05-20 18:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly S 2

Married 2.5 years, together 9 (dating+marriage)
I was asked to leave the house a week ago

I went through a depressed/ill period, where I gave up and stopped trying to do anything

My husband's "friends" and family called me a "parasite".

Now he has started believing them and is SOOOO bitter against me.

I don't want what he has, if I never got a thing out of him again, other than love, I would be happy.

But,...he will barely even talk to me, maybe a minute, litterly.

I read online above all not to argue, and to just kindly agree with anything he says.

Does that work??? If so, or not, What (else) does?

I don't want to lose my Best friend, marriage, home, pets, etc...

Help!

2007-05-20 18:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

how is it that so many people are on yahoo answers at 1:30 in the morning? don't people have to get up for jobs tomorrow?

2007-05-20 18:28:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

It not easy to choose a true love for ur life. It s a some kind of illusion when u have bad past on it. But when the true love comes to u ……..That will be the end of suffering. Please be . Love is not a game. It s kind of gift given by god.

2007-05-20 18:27:08 · 3 answers · asked by jeewithi 1

i married a woman that was supposedly so moral, so religious, so righteous, such a good mom, so independent, so non-slutty, such a victim of all the boyfriends and fiances before me. when she married me, guess what i became? another guy who did her wrong. do these girls ever become sane? it seems their whole lives will be filled with short term relationships where they never really get true love. it's sad. do they ever wise up? if any of you woman are these women i'm talking about or know someone like this, what made them grow up or change?

2007-05-20 18:20:41 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1

2007-05-20 18:15:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can some one be my lover?

2007-05-20 18:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by jeewithi 1

as I want it nearly everyday he wants it once in 10 days .When I tried to solve it and told him plainly that due to this problem I am becoming irritable and am not happy .he said that he just doesnt want it and I am forcing it on him .I have tried all ways and its not that he doesnt like to have it with me but the simple thing is that he just doesnt want it frequently .I am really troubled over it as we dont even have children till now and i am thinking how will i live like this throughout my life >I just dont know why he is like this ? plzzzzzzzzzz help

2007-05-20 18:10:46 · 18 answers · asked by kamya 1

2007-05-20 18:10:02 · 16 answers · asked by Erica P 2

would you be with a woman that wanted a baby so bad and then got pregnant and got so freaked out that she had an abortion? her choice not mine. i told her id have it if thats what she wanted to do. she made all kinds of lame excuses and i just said well i'll keep it but she said, i've been drinking and it's not the right time. excuses, excuses, excuses. i told her well the reason i don't think you want this baby is because you are going to leave me. she said that's crazy! two days after the abortion, she left me. now is playing the victim. i need to get her out of my mind and move on. she seems so cold. how can she be so cold and want to end everything. she will always be connected with me. she almost had my baby. she will never be able to forget me even though she's running. i want it ended now because of the hurt. however, i know after she settles down, she will be in contact with me again. it's inevitable. How do i handle this situation?

2007-05-20 18:04:27 · 16 answers · asked by survivor 1

I have been married 2nd time for a year he moved to live with me and paid most all of his bills off. Now were both working he right now is making more then me but I have more bills to pay then him. I ask him for help he does help but complains that its his money and makes me feel I am a burden to him. Does anyone have any ideas how to resolve this problem?

2007-05-20 18:03:42 · 7 answers · asked by wildrose 3

Am I around just for the money? yes and no. I love him, 11 yrs is a long time to forget all the good times we had and still have when he is on vacation from cheating. (he has gone 6-7 months without seeing either one of them, (or so i think) But I know he will never change. He cheats because he wants to be able to "get over on me" (I promise never to see them again...HA HA HA I'm doing it again and she doesn't have a clue) We are not married yet we lived and worked together at HIS business for the entire 11yrs. I would never get a dime. California does not honor the common law marriage. (believe that one would you) anyway. I am in business with his help. If i pulled out now i wouldn't have a chance of surviving. 3-6 months yes, now, no way. I still don't deserve to be cheated on or lied to, especially when he knows i know where he has been.

2007-05-20 18:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell you you are the love of her life. tell you i love you so much while she looks in your eyes. tell you she wouldn't know what she would do without you. tell you don't ever leave me. tell you she wanted your baby.....then get pregnant without planning it with you (not taking her birth control without your knowledge), getting an abortion, yelling at your kids, and then moving out suddenly and then looking for a new house 5 days later. hello. what am i missing?

2007-05-20 17:41:32 · 20 answers · asked by survivor 1

If you owed like $7,000 in back child support & were just making payments here & there when you could & knew you weren't going to have a license for many, many years to come because of this, would you still drive once in a while or would you stay prisioner in your home??? I got royally screwed in a bitter divorce and he had my c.s pymts raised to an ungodly amount. I tried to get it modified for yrs & I even had my daughter living w/ me for almost 2 yrs while still being charged to pay him-- it's a LONG< COMPLICATED story, but I will be charged no more c.s, but they can't change the back amount I owe. My new husband comes home from work tired alot & doesn't want to go anywhere. Sometimes I drive to the grocery store by myself or something like that, not all over town. Some people agree that you have to drive sometimes over the years & some say they wouldn't drive ANYWHERE!!

2007-05-20 17:33:35 · 14 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

Im getting married soon to the most wonderful guy. I wanna have a successful marriage.
Any tips?

2007-05-20 17:32:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lying about his wife, sending fake pictures, saying she works somewhere where she doesnt... all lies, the stories dont add up. why would a guy make up lies like this to an ex ?? Im looking for possible motives not judgmental answers.

2007-05-20 17:22:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why don't men asks for dates or act like gentlemen anymore? Is it because society has become too free? I've heard men say that it's because of "womens lib" but maybe women's lib happened because men weren't pulling their weight. Women didn't have a choice when it came to making the money or ruling the household?

2007-05-20 16:50:35 · 43 answers · asked by Jocelyn B 1

1) keep her uneducated
2)make her feel inferior
3) be cheap and when going on a date
4)when going on a date with her stare at other women
5)yell at her in public

what else.....



this list is to actually make women aware of the tactics guys use to keep them down. cause lets face it...lots of women are clueless and will take abuse from men and dont know they are being controlled.

2007-05-20 16:45:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous