Marriage & Divorce - 20 May 2007

I read how some women say

Well if I don't do it ,someone else will"


Where do you draw the line?
I have read some bizzare requests from the wives husbands.

2007-05-20 07:49:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am Catholic, she is Baptist.

2007-05-20 07:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by Tim M 1

I am in my late twenties and have been married for 5 years, but seperated for awhile. My husband was supposed to be moving back in at the end of this month, and he told me last night that he wasn't completely sure he was in love with me. He said 75% sure, 25% unsure. He wants to postpone moving in even longer, but even though he doesn't know for sure, he wants to continue with the relationship. He said he wants to "honor his commitment to me". I do know he loves me, and he isn't having an affair. I am not worried about that. He said he has been questioning this the last 4-6 weeks, as the "deadline" of moving in gets closer. I think he has "cold feet" so to speak. He was shifted around a lot as a child, and he doesn't want to risk moving in if even an ounce of him thinks it may not work. He is terribly afraid of failure - not just in our relationship. I am not changing myself, and I know everyone is different, but what qualities do women have that men fall in love with?

2007-05-20 07:27:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for 9 yrs. now, we have been living together for the past 4 yrs. We are both 38 yrs. old and have 5 children between the two of us. Him 2 and me 3. We used to talk about marriage until recently he told me that it was not a priority of his and wasn't on his top "10" list of things to do. He has never been married, I have been. He is happy and content with just playing house. If he doesn't want to commit and marry me then what makes him think he has the right to tell me that I "belong" to him? I tell him that I don't see a ring on my finger and I don't carry his last name, I belong to no one. Why do men think they have the right to lay claims on you without marital commitment? Yes, being married to him is important to me. I feel like nothing that I say or what I want is important, he only cares about what he wants. Honestly I am tired of feeling like I am nothing more than his "bed buddy".

2007-05-20 07:18:00 · 23 answers · asked by monkey on my back 2

I need help my husband abandoned my house almost a month ago, I can't deal with the depression he left without saying anything he hasn't given any child support or a single phone call, he went out of my house saying he was fed up wih everything but to be honest since our baby was born he has been trying to leave. Now he did it he said he loved me and he didn't want the divorce but he came 10 days ago and picked up everything he had here. He didn't even gave me the chance to talk to him I'm sure he's living with another woman. He was always a good man but now I don't know what to think of him I don't sue him because I like his mum she has been talking to me and sending money, she was upset with him at the start but I think he has told her lies about me... I think he got upset because we couldn't go out because I was concentration on the baby..what am I supposed to do? just go out and leave him?...I'm very depressed because I think that he could be sleeping with somebody else .

2007-05-20 07:04:37 · 37 answers · asked by Nancy L 1

why is it so easy to cheat, or lie, or be disrespect full, why do people treat strangers better than the one they "love" between reading questions on 'answeres' and my own life,,, relationships are battlegrounds instead of love nests,,, what is the problem people???

2007-05-20 07:02:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how should i handle this one??

2007-05-20 06:50:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 06:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by handsomeguy140 1

a month ago. My brother in law is 44 and lives at home with his parents, never been married or had kids. He knew I was getting surgery this past week and sent me a nasty email the day of my surgery. Letter started out nicely but ended very nasty to the point it made me cry hysterically. (judging me, critizcizing me, regarding my deceased mom, my kids etc)
The argument he had with my husband had nothing to do with me. I wrote him back the next day and basically told him off.
I was so hurt that this was done to me several hours after my operation. Any other advice?

2007-05-20 06:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband of 7 years and I are thinking of having a foursome with another couple from another state we have been talking to. I started the talking and this is my idea. I am wondering from other couples who have done this how it affected your marriage and what types of things should we be cautious of and any tips or advice? thanks

2007-05-20 06:25:16 · 20 answers · asked by donnyschick33 2

How do I respond to people who answered me on the forum?

2007-05-20 06:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by momof3 1

2007-05-20 05:56:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you aren't married, please don't write, " I am not married, or I didn't meet yet", as that serves for no purpose. Thank you so much!

2007-05-20 05:25:13 · 9 answers · asked by goodness 3

A few days ago he recived a call on his cell phone he look at the number and said I'm not answering and right away they left a voice mail I told him are you going to listing to message? He said no maybe later. I couldn't sleep thinking why he didn't listing to the voice mail and said nothing after that call, next day early morning i was getting ready to go to work my husband was still sleeping i pick up his phone and call back the number to hear who call and it was a man i didn't said a word i hang up so i listing to the massage a it was is co-worker calling him for a game, so i left everything the it was, but three hour late my husband call me saying that why i'm looking into his phone and start to call me names and on..... . From that day on he sleep with his phone next to him and when he is taking a shower is phone go with him on a lock door. what can you tell me, what can i do ? or what you think is going on ?

2007-05-20 05:19:51 · 18 answers · asked by evy 1

Open meaning that you and your spouse could see other people openly, not behind one anothers back. Just curious what everyone thinks about this.

2007-05-20 05:00:46 · 37 answers · asked by Seeks the Answers 2

okay, so i went out with some friends to dinner and to a club for the first time since my separation from my husband. of course i got all dolled up .. what girl wouldn't. well, i find out this morning that his "girlfriend" followed us around all night and was calling him to tell him what i was doing. I believe, too, that after he dropped our daughter off at my mother's house at 11:00 pm, he came to the club as well (though I can't prove that part YET, i just have a hunch). Why the heck would he have his "girlfriend" following us around? I mean I know he's curious to see what i'm doing, but if he's done with the relationship, why would he care? and why would he choose his "girlfriend" to do the work?

2007-05-20 05:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 04:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by john 1

2007-05-20 04:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my wife for three years now. Our marrage has been filled with alot of stress. We were presured by my parents to get married and then moved to another state 2 weeks later. ther has been extreme finacal problems in the last 2 years and we just moved again to try to help are finacal situaion. After beening back in az my wife asked if see could hook up with some old friends and I said sure. Well old friends turned into going to the bar 3 night a week. Then I found a naked pic of a guy on her phone and confunted her about it. She toke it as i accussed her of cheating. She then told my she was very unhappy and that I was not giving her what she needed emotionaly. I asked her to go to marrage couseling but she said the problem is with me and that I need to fix me first. She is still going out 3 times a weekand has been online talking to about 30 guys and some of the talk is pretty nasty. We also have a 5 year old daughter from her first marrage. what shold i do. i do love her

2007-05-20 04:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by redsixaz 1

I've been married for 7 yrs. My wife says she isn't turned on by sex and that she can live without it. On the other hand I need it often and this has created a fustration with me and I don't know what to due. This is my love language and she is not speaking it to me. Any suggestions?

2007-05-20 04:08:52 · 8 answers · asked by jabez07 1

i have residential custody.If u split visits 50/50 do u go to sport activities that fall on your ex's day?or do u just go on the days u have your child?if u do go do u all sit together or seperate?

2007-05-20 03:53:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 03:31:08 · 14 answers · asked by jerrybird28 1

with her talking to her. we had just been married for 2 mths.I didnt find out until about 9 mths later. it crushed me still does. i wouldnt have been able to look at him in the face if it was the other way around. says sex took place only 6 times maybe, i dont believe.the phone calls bother me worse.he would call her from 8am up until all hours of the night everyday talking 49 calls somedays.he says he wasnt emotionally involved. well he had to be thinking about her all the time. he never called me that much when we were dating or living together.i feel he really cared for her, wanted to talk to her, constantly on his mind.if he had not caught i know it would have went on.i am a good person, dedicated my life to him took our vows very seriously never thought he would do this in a million years. he never answers honestly when i ask him anything.he says he didn't care about her no emotions just sex make sense to you, it doesn't to me.he shared sexual fantasies with her, very perverted to

2007-05-20 02:10:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 01:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by postman2039 1

We are going through a very bad period with my bf and last night he got severely drunk (he normally never drinks) and protested when I wanted to take him home from a common friend's place. He ended up pushing me/slightly hitting me on my head when I said I am going home on my own then and was saying good bye to his friends. This happened in front of our common friends and other people that I first met. He is now very sorry and keeps apologizing and says he does not remember this happening, but I am just disgusted and very sad.

Is this something that happens from time to time to couples?

Am I overreacting over an accident? Or is this something that should not be tolerated in any case?

Thanks.

2007-05-20 01:48:59 · 28 answers · asked by 20082008 1

2007-05-20 01:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 01:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime he tries to have sex wid me i get memories of the guy who raped me ( 2 yrs ago) . my husband has been patient for 8 months ( v got married 8 months ago). but now he is just hell bent upon having sex nd cant control anymore. how can i convince him that i dont wanna have sex atleast for some more time nd dat im uncomfortable havin sex

2007-05-20 00:10:47 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous