When you found your partner were you looking or did you just find them??

Answer 1

When I found my fiancé I wasn’t looking at all in fact it was really by chance that we met. I went on a boat cruise, I almost missed the boat! And he got free tickets for the cruise from a friend he wasn’t even going to go because he had to work that night. I thought I was late but he was the last to get on. I didn’t see him on the boat at all. I was at one end of boat and he was on the other. I was talking to a group of men and he was talking to a group of women. The boat docked at about 1am and there was an after party which I really didn’t want to go to, I was so tired but my friends convinced me go and dragged me along. I went on a date with another man! And when I got to the party he was standing at the door talking on his cell phone and I smiled at him and he dropped his phone in the grass lol. We spoke that night but barely, I was on date so I didn’t want to be rude. He was trying to get my number the whole night but his friends told him to give up and go home because it seemed like I wasn’t interested. He waited around the whole night until I was alone and came over to get my number. I had to yell it at him over the music, and he didn’t write it down so I thought after this night I would never see him again. But what I didn’t know was that he walked the 5 blocks to where his car was parked to put my number in his cell phone repeating it the whole way there. So no that night I wasn’t looking for anything special but I found it and now I’m engaged.

Answer 2

Sometimes the best things in life just appaer out of nowhere when you least expect it. If youre looking for Mr/Mrs Right you may just be trying to force it to happen and it never does. When the "love Gods" feel youre ready then you will meet the unexpected at the most unexpected time. Bwe patient and itll happen. Good luck

Answer 3

When we found each other, it just happened. I was dating someone else, and saw this new guy in church. We were friends for a year, then dated for two, and have been married over 17 years.
It never seems to work when one is "looking".

Answer 4

ive found all my partners when I was not looking, where we got to know each other a little first, but with that first initial reaction, of being attractted one another, the first time we laid eyes on each other.

Answer 5

A little bit of both, my brother in law was working with him. He said he wanted to introduce us, I had been single for four years so... I thought why not. But then when I talked to him him, I had such a good feeling, now we've been together for five years and we're engaged.

Answer 6

Definitely not looking. We're not even each other's type. He was probably the last person I ever figured I'd fall in love with.

Answer 7

Nope...I went to pick-up my pay-check and there she was waiting for her now ex-boy-friend....Of course we got married after 1 year of dating and now 12 years later we are getting divorced but that's another story....Write your own story. All you have to do is go out and live and there he'll be waiting for you,without looking...CD

Answer 8

When I met my husband, I had just sworn off relationships forever. I actually tried to set him up with my best friend, lol. We became best friends, hanging out, etc and it just happened.

Answer 9

i was not looking she just showed up in the back seat of my buddys car siting with her then boy friend .i had to have her and 30 years latter i still do have her

Answer 10

just found her one day bam there she was and she been with me ever since the first day me met no break ups or bullshyt like that, this year we celabrate our 18th anniversery