okay, so i went out with some friends to dinner and to a club for the first time since my separation from my husband. of course i got all dolled up .. what girl wouldn't. well, i find out this morning that his "girlfriend" followed us around all night and was calling him to tell him what i was doing. I believe, too, that after he dropped our daughter off at my mother's house at 11:00 pm, he came to the club as well (though I can't prove that part YET, i just have a hunch). Why the heck would he have his "girlfriend" following us around? I mean I know he's curious to see what i'm doing, but if he's done with the relationship, why would he care? and why would he choose his "girlfriend" to do the work?
2007-05-20 05:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My guess is that it was the girlfriend's idea. She's probably very threatened by you, as she should be by every woman he comes in contact with. I'd just make sure your conduct doesn't give him any way to try and take your child from you; other than that, who cares??
2007-05-20 05:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun. First of all, he is kind of a creep. But I've had experiences like this. So apparently this guy still has feelings for you!!! He wanted his girlfriend to follow you so he could see if you were getting hooked up with another guy. I hope this works. Maybe you should confront him and talk to him about it. Tell him that you're divorced and you don't love him anymore or something like that.
Love Madison
2007-05-20 12:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Popstar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My question is why would his " girlfriend" be willing to spy on his wife for him? That is a messed up situation....let her know there are stalking laws. If he did not care, he wouldnt be following you. He sounds like he may have some issues.
2007-05-20 12:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not of their business what you decide to do with your life, legally only if it affects your daughter's welfare. Other than that you can date any man you want to, you can live with whoever you wish and don't even take a moment of your time to worry about those two.
2007-05-20 12:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lulu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow not sure...why would his girlfriend agree to it too..that's weird..I would just ignore it, and if this should happen again I would approach his girlfriend and say "aren't you just a little bit offended that he is having you waste your time following me instead of spending time with you, don't you find this a little bit odd, anyway tell him I said hello have a goodnight"
just a thought ....
2007-05-20 12:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is doing that to see what information he can get to use against you in the divorce. Watch your back with this one. It sounds very weird.
2007-05-21 18:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As i belive, Be straight forward.
You directly go to him, and ask him this thing on his face.
If you also dont like this thing, and if you think so that he may harm you, go to him and give him warning also that if he will repeate this thing again then god will save him.............
Ya, May be in ur case, she can be her friend only. b'coz as i think if u would have been his g.f., u wont follow his ex. so, she is his friend and she is helping him for getting things resolved.
in this case, may be either he still loves u or trying to get evidance against u.
so, go to him , ask him directly, what he want ?
Be Brave, Make ur relations transperent and Live ur life happily.
2007-05-20 12:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unless he is gathering evidence for a court case, I think he must be a whacko - watch out!
2007-05-20 12:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter who did the spying but if he can prove that you behaved inappropriately he get get full custody of your daughter as well as belittle you, so jus watch your steps
2007-05-20 12:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good for you you're not with him anymore. He seems to be very strange!! keep away from him!
2007-05-20 12:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by lisasimpson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋