married women who think you as a woman are suppose to do anything and everythang to please your husband?

Question

I read how some women say

Well if I don't do it ,someone else will"


Where do you draw the line?
I have read some bizzare requests from the wives husbands.

Answer 1

Women who think like this feel they have very little going on for themselves. They loose sight of the fact that men like women who can stand on their own feet. To think that "if I don't do that, someone else will" is debasing, distrustful, and childish. You draw the line within yourself and what you are comfortable with. A husband who doesn't accept this line is not much of a guy I would want to have around the house. And yes, I agree, not only are the requests sometimes bizarre, some of the women who agree are also, IF they do not want to do what is requested. Good luck

Answer 2

I think a couple should mutually care about the welfare and desires of the other. That's why so many marriages don't work though, including mine. My husband thinks I'm rebellious because I won't accept him as my lord and master. I draw the line at being treated like a whipped dog. It's time all women did.

Answer 3

i believe the only way to have a truly happy marriage is both people doing all they can for the other. if one party is doing all of the giving, you are going to have an off balance situation which is not healthy.

we for the if you dont do it someone else will comment, i think this is not true at all. i do what i can for my husband and i expect the same in return. there are few things i wouldnt do for him but i dont give it much thought, it just comes naturally to me. i think thats what love is supposed to be.

Answer 4

Here is the thing, I think you should be willing to try something once, you may love it. On the other hand, If i know you don't like something, I should be willing to give it up and not make you feel you have to do it, thats my love showing.

For example: I have a diaper fetish. It's weird and strange and what ever I know, but it is a part of me and i can't just make it go away. My wife was willing to play along and babysit me. I realized it was not her thing so I stopped asking her to do it.

I would like to have that done for me, but it isn't as exciting for me anymore, because it isn't good for her. That is love; her willingness to try it AND my not wanting to subject her to something she doesn't like.

Would I go to someone else for that, not on my own. If she wanted to hire a "babysitter" for me, I wouldn't say no, but again, that would be her prerogative.

As luck would have it, she introduced me to some kinks of her own and I love them.

Answer 5

I am one of those women (I am not worred about if I don't someone else will) and the common sense answer is you draw the line when it seems you are beating your head against a wall. He has to be appreciative of your efforts or it's a no deal theory.

Answer 6

It is alright to please your man as long as you want to and you are enjoying it. It is a 50/50 decision. NOw it all depends on what you want to do to please your man.

For example, if you are financially stable and he wnats a motorcycle hey please him by buying the motorcycle.

if he wants a threesome you do it becuase you want to not because you are afraid that some other woman is going to do it. If that is the case then your husband is not worth it. Having this kind of relationship ends up your marriage...for other it works...but there are consequences that are involved.

It depends on your mentality when it comes to that and if you can handle seeing him with the other woman or he can handle it with you and hte other man however which way you go.

good luck

Answer 7

you define and draw you own line
hopefully before you get married you know all of what to expect so there are no bizzare request , suprises later on
but many get into marriage rushing in to the fact that they really don't know their other partner

Answer 8

I have too heard this saying. Some die thinking that way and some are knocking themselves out to do what they don't want another person to do in order to have that man cheat on them anyway. I think it's all in who you marry. If they don't love and respect themselves, then they sure won't love and respect you. I don't care if you can take paint off the walls with your tongue, they will still do what their personality will tell them to do.

Answer 9

A husband and wife should always want to make each other happy. And if anyone fills they have to do it or someone else will. YOU ARE MARRIED TO THE WRONG PERSON.

Answer 10

Well, both parties should try their best to please one another. The thing to do is sit down, discuss the matter. Make a list of fantasies and taboos. Let mutual respect be the guide. Consult www.sexuality.org for a better perspective.