Marriage & Divorce - 20 May 2007

my ex sayd he marreid his babys momma. he told mer her first name i know his last name. he said she was teaching 3rd grade and district 16 - i looked on thier webiste not one teacher teaching 3rd grade in the whole district shared his last name, nor the " babys mommas' first name. also the man sent a picture of her which several people have identfied as being a girl off of a girls gone wild video. when asked if he has any other pictures of his " wife " he made up this big story how his wife wont let anyone take pictures of her. and he only has the one. Does it sound like he is lying?

2007-05-20 16:36:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your husband/wife wanted to work things out with you but could NOT promise you that they wouldnt ever cheat on you again would you still try to work on the marriage? why or why not? what would you say to them if they said that to you?

2007-05-20 16:30:27 · 26 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

I aksed this question earlie, and I still recieved no answer yet.
I stated that my husband and I had a really wonderful weekend and every thing went great, but the problem is that to me it all just seems to real to be true to me and we've only been married for a couple of months and it is just too perfect to me. And with all that I have been through with the bad choice of men it all just seems to real to be true.
He tells me he loves me and shows it without fail surprises me with gifts and things and roses and all of that, I just don't know whats to it, I'm scared that Dr. Jeckle & Mr. Hide might pop out of no where and tha will be the end of it all.
Whats wrong with me & why do I feel this way when every thing seems to be fine?

2007-05-20 16:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by menadking 1

i seem to choose women like my mother. needy, in need of a savoir, and looney tunes. However i want a devoted woman who would respect me and i would respect her and listen to her if there was mutual respect and trust. i keep finding the needy really attractive women. I'm an attractive guy but i just can't wrap my hands around a woman that actually knows marriage is for life. i keep choosing little girls that need their daddy. when i marry i marry for life. the women i marry all end up having affairs or going looney tunes and are very emotional and drama filled. Anybody want to date a tall, dark, 6'2" guy with a good job in NC who is looking for a strong woman that knows what it means when you say foever? i tell you it's tough these days to find a strong woman who is really strong. a lot portrait the image but are really in disguise as little girls.

2007-05-20 16:27:48 · 4 answers · asked by survivor 1

Am 24yrs old and I've been married to my husband for 7yrs now. And when we got together the sex was great and nonstop.Now its like he begs me and I just can't seem to get in the mood. I feel so bad, but am also scared that it will lead him to cheat on me.. Please someone help....

2007-05-20 16:22:38 · 7 answers · asked by jasmine r 1

he told me he wants to get a tattoo on his chest of the lyrics from our wedding song. Basicly the chorus. the line goes. " You won me over, in no time at all"
i reminded him that that was our song and he new that and that was why he wanted it. we have a daughter together and he said it reminds him of me and the daughter we have together but as of friday we will be divorced so why would he want to do that?
he is the one who lied and cheated when i was pregnant!

2007-05-20 16:14:58 · 19 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4

Ok, I deleted two profiles off two different dating sites a couple of weeks ago, they were my partners and we have decided to go to counselling and resolve our issues, one of which his facination for dating sites.
Now having deleted these two profiles, I have gone and searched on each site for the username (both the same) and have found they both say that the user has set the profile to invisible. The username is rather distinct, three words joined together. I asked my partner about this and he told me that it wasn't him and someone else must have signed up under that name. What are the chances of someone using the same username 2 weeks after it was deleted from the same website, has happened with both?

2007-05-20 15:39:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feed the baby & chage him & get him dress & I get up every 3 hr yell he sleep all night

2007-05-20 15:14:25 · 17 answers · asked by kitty 1

How long does it take for a divorce to be granted when a spouse is missing? It's my boyfriends wife; he hasn't spoken to her since 2005 and doesn't know how to find her.. They were together a month before they separated... He's unsure if perhaps she's already filed for divorce herself yet; we tried to find that out but got the run around at the county offices. This is in Dallas county.. Does anyone know how long it will take to get this processed and filed before the divorce is granted.

2007-05-20 14:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3

how many times you have used it or heard the term " not tonight; I have a headache ", during the last one year ?

2007-05-20 14:47:01 · 16 answers · asked by kenneth h 6

Ladies...Ur husband was unfaithful before and during your marriage. He had mandantory surgery that unexpectedly left him unable to walk.You do everything for him, including wipe his *** and get him in and out of places and he still treats you like crap,talks to you any kind of way, and is overall ungreatful for the things you do. Plus he has money and still expects you to work a full time job and pay ALL the bills...What would you do?

2007-05-20 14:39:17 · 34 answers · asked by ms.redd 3

I live in Houston texas and i have a protective order from my wife and need advice what to do i already have a
i already have a lawyer and she is lying about the situation I am devastated because i LOVE my 3 sons and i can not see them and can not call either the children she went to the movies with me and the 3 kids 5 days after she file for protective order. and she is lying that i told her i am going to shoot her and attempt to hit her. I will never do that because i know in texas HOUSTon you go automatically to jail. need help i still love my wife and i want to go back home w/ her and the 3 kids CAN SHE DROPPED IT or what can happen. I hope she will feel mercy and think about how much i love her and the 3 sons we have. ASAP HELP. what happens if she does not show up?? can the kids testify 12 years old and 10 yrs old??what to do if you have a protective order CAN YOU WIN if you have evidence she went to the movies w/u 1 day before you got served with the application 4 protec. orde

2007-05-20 14:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by nanuk 1

We've got 4 kids. The oldest is 12. The other 3 are 5 (they are triplets) and she's been evily poisoning their thinking about me. (I'm dumbfounded and shocked at things the little ones say that reveal things she's told them) I'm going to be fighting for sole-custody of the kids (this divorce stuff is all quite new and unfamiliar to me at this point), because of her horrendous mothering and addiction to pain pills and anti-psych meds. Things are becoming increasingly tense and verbally hostle as we attempt to co-exsist in the same house. Any thoughts anyone? Any encouragment is highly appreciated.

2007-05-20 14:05:24 · 15 answers · asked by Hubert Nerd 1

Adopted my granddaughter (she is now 5) and my daughter and I have had a difference of opinion and I do not think she should see her biological daughter anymore. She had to make a choice to clean her act up or not be a part of her daughter's life anymore. My daughter (22 yrs old) is a stripper (for past 3 yrs), lives with an ex-con (prison 10yrs for drugs and theft), and both use drugs. I have had enough of her foul and smart mouth. When she is around her daughter and me, after about an hour she starts to yell at her daughter and lets her do what she wants to. I hate for my granddaughter not having her mother around, but I cannot put up with my daughter's drastic mood swings and she and I usually end up fighting and arguing.

2007-05-20 13:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-20 12:54:32 · 5 answers · asked by oythebumbler 1

I was having an affair with a married man - I know bad news - anyway, the affair was a friendship for a long while and it just progressed into an affair. His wife found out and he left her. We were a real couple for about one week after he left. He got an apartment and told me that he loved me and knew it was all going to work out. After a week he told me that she was the love of his life and he didn't know what he was doing cheating on her. Well she is divorcing him - he is living alone and has lost everything. We have not been in contact since he tried to go back to her. I should hate him, but I don't. And I believe that he really did care about me at least as a friend. His mom called last week and she said he would contact me when it was all finalized - do you think he will? I know I shouldn't want him too, but I love him. Should I just move on, should I try to contact him, should I just wait??? He was my bestfriend.

2007-05-20 12:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she avoids talking about her sexual past?

2007-05-20 12:43:38 · 40 answers · asked by YBMEUBU 3

She isn't any good in bed and I can't stand to have her touch me.

I don't want any advice that involves counselors or a behavior change on my part... I tried all of that for years... I just want her to not touch me sexually... and I need a way to tell her that won't make her leave... I want my kids to have a stable marriage for the remainder of their home life. I can be good friends, but after trying for years... I am exhausted and no longer feel anything sexually for her. It's like trying to have sex with my sister.

2007-05-20 12:30:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

thanks for all the replys, yes we have got children 8 and 5. ive kept his door keys so he has no way of getting in and i have the car keys. i also have a part time job and go to college and no i didnt see this coming he gave me no clue!

2007-05-20 12:24:15 · 21 answers · asked by ms j 1

would u get involved with a man who has 2 kids to 2 different women and a divorce from another women ?????

2007-05-20 12:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by jewels 2

we have been together 3 years my mom has no clue though i love him to death im going to tell her about him when i turn 18

2007-05-20 12:18:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am doing a survey on differant advice that people would give for differant situations. I'm planning on putting it all in a book. Please answer honestly.

2007-05-20 12:15:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the steps,living conditions, cost, etc. that is needed to get my three sons with full custody? I am a single dad and they live with their mom but no one has custody. Please someone help me.

2007-05-20 12:11:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the most romantic loving thing you have ever said to you partner??

2007-05-20 11:58:44 · 13 answers · asked by RAIN 2

about 2 months ago i cheated on my husband .. he found out and he still wants to be with me ....and wants me home i feel guilty i know i shouldnt have done what i did and feel very bad !
he has talked bout 3 somes before and i had an idea i figured i should tell him to sleeo with someone i have a good friend who would be willing to sleep with him ... that way the score is even ive had someone esle and he has too ... i think this is a good idea i dont know if he will go for it but i know she will ive sorta asked her if she would ... im not sure what to do i know this will make me feel better but i dont know what it will do for him ,,,, should i try to even the score ????

2007-05-20 11:55:50 · 21 answers · asked by Sweetness 1

This is my problem this been 2 months already after i gave birth to my baby my husband just want to spend his time working when he has the day off he want to work over time for me it like he don't want to spend time with me and my baby sometime i think that he don't love me anymore i don't know what to think? What do u think?

2007-05-20 11:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by joemari19 2

No one has said anything that has really hit the spot yet. I have offered to look at p o r n with him in the past but he's never taken me up on it. Not sure how to react now. I want to really really hurt him. Please read my previous question and if you are a guy tell me what would really hurt you if you were caught out like this! i'm serious

2007-05-20 11:35:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife suddenly started sleeping with her maid of honor after 9 yrs. of marriage. But she won't leave me or move out- offered her 50K cash. Her "girlfriend" is getting divorced. It has been 3 months now. (I bought them a 3 mn anniversary card LMAO.) I care about her still but am definately not in love. Known she was bi since we met. (First mistake...) I am suffering from the nice guy syndrom (sp)

What should I do? - I am already in my late thirties and REALLY want kids.

2007-05-20 11:33:47 · 19 answers · asked by Tom B 1

he is 43 its been happening for 2 weeks he says its love i say its lust. he has gone to be with her now any one out there with any thoughts????

2007-05-20 11:18:38 · 44 answers · asked by ms j 1

My husband of 16 years only does quickies for last 13 years. He's not interested in my needs.

My previous love spoiled me with great sex for 3 years. Even though it was 20 years ago I still think of him. He was 10 years younger, just getting started, moved away. Even though, we kept seeing each other and talked on the phone all the time. But I decided to have a child. He wasn't ready. Ironically he got his next girlfriend pregnant so our children are the same age!

I appreciate my husband for his good qualities, but my frustration is leading me into temptation. I am afraid if this continues, we will split up and that will hurt our children.

He's also depressed, controlling and emotionally abusive, so I feel weakened. I am in therapy but I can't seem to get the will and money to move out. I had really bad cancer and am not in great health, so it seems easier to stay.

My husband won't go to a therapist with me.

2007-05-20 11:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by Eve 3