I am doing a survey on differant advice that people would give for differant situations. I'm planning on putting it all in a book. Please answer honestly.
2007-05-20 12:15:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is the man that you fell in love with. Everyone has good days and bad. Be patient, but if you find that all you seem to do is get angry or frustrated with him, never be too proud to apologise when necessary. Most of the time when you've argued over something, in the grande scheme of things it's not really very important. Most of the time people feel stupid for getting so upset over something so trivial - so please, always remember, you are never humbled by an apology or by giving a hug and reminding the person you love them - doing this can make you a better person and help your man tolerate your "moods" as time goes on....
yes - I'm speaking from experience haha, can you tel! :)
2007-05-20 13:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting married and going in a new family from day one be good very very good to your inlaws but don't take any **** make it straight from day one. As new brides we usually tend tobe good to all cause you want to see everyone happy but no matter what there is always a difference sooner or later and then when we try to be angry or say no we are taken for granted. But yes always keep the husabnd happy because if they love you they will always be by your side.
2007-05-20 19:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jenniffer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the three things that you will fight most about:
1) Money.
2) Sex.
3) how to raise the children.
Workout every detail you can think of about these three things before you get married.
Also you are marring into a family, make sure you get along with the inlaws.
2007-05-20 19:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by David 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, that in order for her marriage to last, she has to be willing to accept the fact that her husband is the head of he household, and that she should always be honest and respect him no matter what hills and valleys may come their way.
I would also tell her that she should be 100% sure that she is in love with him and wants to spend the rest of her life with him, because if not, she can save them both a lot of money now that later on down the road . That is the advice I follow everyday in my own marriage will be married 6 years this July!
2007-05-20 19:26:11 · answer #4 · answered by ladysea8 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn the fine art of holding your tongue.
Marrying him does not make him your property. He still has the capability of making a responsible decision for himself. If you think not, don't marry him.
People don't change. Plan on living with the attributes you're not so fond of, too.
Have sex every night. Wear lingerie, do your makeup. Do not take for granted the gift of the intimacy you share.
Ask every day what you can do for him. It becomes a habit, and it indicates you think of him during your day.
Text him naughty texts.
E-mail him naughty e-mails.
Know what you admire about him and tell him, or text or e-mail your admiration. Often.
Know what "Caveman syndrome" is. Learn to stay clear when symptoms appear.
2007-05-20 19:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey. .....100% of the time, it will not be that beautiful walk in the park where the sun always shines. Just remember to hold hands and never under any circumstances let go because if you do ...he will take the other path and you will be left standing ALONE............... When that happens the hurricanes will devastate your life.... and the damage will last forever...............
2007-05-20 19:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always have good communication between you and your husband whether its good or bad be her best friend and lover and honor her and take care of her and show her attention and vis versa communication is the number 1 thing in any relationship and help each other out in life and love one another everyday as if it where your last day here on earth thats my advice
2007-05-20 19:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by jewels 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage can certainly work out, but you have to do your part. Don't always expect to receive, but you give first. There is no room for selfishness and stubborness in marriage.
2007-05-20 19:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Venetian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obtain a list of local divorce lawyers.
2007-05-20 19:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is absolutely what you want in a spouse. If her truly understands your soul, and makes your heart sing, then you've found the right man.
2007-05-20 19:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋