would u get involved with a man who has 2 kids to 2 different women and a divorce from another women ?????
2007-05-20 12:19:16 · 20 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well that is very questionable. He has two kids by 2 women. He is also Divorced(red flags). Find out why he got divorced. The kids in today's culture is normal. I would approach the relationship with total caution and go from there.
2007-05-20 12:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not too good a track record to build a long lasting relationship with. Chances of survival are almost nil especially with all the child support and any spousal support he may be paying. Money will definitely be tight for awhile. Just a bad choice all the way around here. Your best bet is not to get involved and move on to someone better off. Good luck
2007-05-20 19:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes either never chosen wisely, or he may like to use women. Only you can decide what kind of guy he is. It may be a case that he never found anyone he really wants to commit to properly. The two pregnancies....well, he never married them did he?....and obviously the one he divorced wasnt right for him either. You really have to open your eyes and find out who he really is. Dont lose your heart to him just yet. Be vigilant and work out what kind of guy he is. Some men....and women for that matter cannot make a commitment through fear and/or some trauma they suffered when they were children. Just get to know him first, then decide if he is the type of guy who can give you what you need.
2007-05-20 19:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, unless you are hopeful in being woman number 3 with a kid or divorce number 2. Take your pick, leave now, or be divorce number 2 or single parent number 3.
2007-05-21 03:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no I would not. Especially, if he has a bad relationship with any of his baby mamas. I went through that and do not advise anyone to go through it. However, my husband and I have been together for 9yrs, despite all the drama in the beginning. You have decide if he is worth giving it a try or not. But, remember it is hard to be in a relationship with someone with the situation your man has.
2007-05-20 19:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tina #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get involved with this man you had better be willing to deal no only with the kids, but their mothers, and all the other BS that goes along with those kind of relationships. If I were you....I'd run.
2007-05-20 21:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have to be honest. My fiancee' has been married 2 times and has one child - and we have an awesome relationship. It all depends on the specific details of his bad relationships. I agree with a previous answer and you should find out what happened between his ex, in my situation it was mainly external factors that are now absent in our relationship.
2007-05-20 20:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be cautious and keep my eyes wide open. Do some investigating via the internet, you'll be surprised the things you can find out. I hate to label people, but he appears irresponsible with his behaviors in the past, but people can change--check him out, if you're really interested. If not, keep him at a long distance--with a ten foot pole.
2007-05-20 19:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by bahjij6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope he has too much baggage, and I am not just referring to his kids. Wether they are ex-wives or ex-girlfriends, they will always be in his life if he has kids with them. If I were you, I wouldn't get too close right away. Take some time and watch and see how things go.
2007-05-20 19:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by my2thingz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I definitely would not. He has basically loved and left three women that you know of, consider yourself next. it doesn't seem like the guy knows about long term love and commitment.
2007-05-20 19:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋