how many times you have used it or heard the term " not tonight; I have a headache ", during the last one year ?
2007-05-20 14:47:01 · 16 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her if she wants some aspirin when you come home from work. When she says "no, why?" just say "good....that's one less excuse you have for tonight."
2007-05-20 14:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brian K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been with my wife for 11 years, when we first married it was almost an every night thing and doubled weekends. As we hit our 3rd year, it was almost an every other night thing and maybe one day on a weekend. As we hit 8 years it was maybe once aweek and one day on the weekends. And 11 years, it's like 2 times a month, although she has gone threw a new phase in the past 2 weeks, her wanting it everynight. I work all day long, the last thing i think about when i goto bed is sex, I'm tierd....but still do. Although were honest to each other, so no one has headaches when we try to goto bed. Use the term "Sex Cures Headaches and see what happens" good luck
2007-05-20 21:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by plizayaplaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be that she's tired (or she may really have a headache). Stress affects different people in different ways. Does she have a high stress job? Do you have kids? Does she get headaches at other times (not just at bedtime)?
Offer to give her a massage. I also like the 'sex cures headaches' suggestions. Make sure she is getting enough sleep on a regular basis. Treat her to a day at the spa (massage, facial, manicure, pedicure, etc.). Make her feel beautiful and romance her. Also, talk to her about what your sexual needs/expectations are . . . that's one of those things that often aren't covered in the vows. Find out what hers are. Make a plan to cover those times when either one or the other aren't up to it. Set up date nights or regular nookie nights. If you want to stay connected (both of you) you need to understand that you have to make some compromises in every area - including the bedroom.
2007-05-20 22:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby and I have been together for 14 years and we know that sex actually "cures" a headache. As far as our sex life?? I am a firm believer in even if you are not completely "in the mood" start anyway.... you are sure to find your groove.
2007-05-20 22:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Karleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Took my wife 6 years to go from putting out several times a week to putting out every other month. I lived with her for another 7 years but now we are divorcing. If she is cutting you off get to counseling and see if you can change her cause once she does it this way its over.
2007-05-20 22:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Said it dozens of times. Men can be so inconsiderate, sometimes women have tell a little fib every now and then to get some peace.
2007-05-20 21:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tina #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 34 years and it's only said when it's actually true. That goes for the both of us. huummm, maybe that's why we've been married 34 years.LOL
2007-05-20 21:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by DOT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have to fib..complete bolix...spouse should always or at least most of the time help the other to take care of what they need.
2007-05-20 21:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't heard it in 7 years, mainly since we don;t bother with sex anymore
2007-05-20 22:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't recall ever hearing that. "I have a headache" is an old cliche that doesn't seem to apply anymore...
2007-05-20 21:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋