Been married for 31 yrs, two children who are grown. Been separated for two yrs now. He has dated several women and gotten intimate with them, lied on the computer on his dating site profile, but i knew who it was....hey you don't live with someone for 29 yrs and not know it's them on a profile!, yeap i was right, he finally confessed. I don't love him anymore, but my problem is, i am 53 work only part time, in a job i don't like, and it's gonna be hard for me to find another job after staying home raising my children and working odd part time jobs off and on over the last 25 years. If i divorce him, my insurance coverage will end in 1 or 2 yrs, and i can't live off my salary of $6.25. Have went on several interviews but no luck. Please help....what should i do,? I have told him i have no choice but for him to come back, but we can't get along and see eye to eye on much of anything. Don't want to get in the same old rut we were in when he left.
2007-05-20 19:41:47 · 4 answers · asked by tenderlovingcare77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is better to be alone and possibly happy than with someone and miserable. You cant change the unhappiness that has gone on between the two of you but you can change what you own future might be including your own financial state. Keep searching! Good Luck!
2007-05-20 19:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst part of this is that your still young. You have so many good years ahead of you and if you go back to a man you don't love, then how long before this will happen again? Than you will be older and not much jobs on the market for older workers. Have you gave any thought to going back to school and getting some training? I went back to school in my 40's and got my nursing degree, the best thing I did for myself. Think about other options instead of going back to a man who has clearly shown he has cheated on you, even though you two were separated it was cheating since he nor you filed for divorce.
2007-05-21 02:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by nicolejane68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off without him.Fix yourself up financially first and then leave the relationship.Better to be happy without beiing in a miserable relationship.
2007-05-21 04:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u got to do to take care of yourslef financially then if u have a luxury of getting rid of that bad relationship to help yourself emotionally then go for it.
2007-05-21 02:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋