Married 2.5 years, together 9 (dating+marriage)
I was asked to leave the house a week ago
I went through a depressed/ill period, where I gave up and stopped trying to do anything
My husband's "friends" and family called me a "parasite".
Now he has started believing them and is SOOOO bitter against me.
I don't want what he has, if I never got a thing out of him again, other than love, I would be happy.
But,...he will barely even talk to me, maybe a minute, litterly.
I read online above all not to argue, and to just kindly agree with anything he says.
Does that work??? If so, or not, What (else) does?
I don't want to lose my Best friend, marriage, home, pets, etc...
Help!
2007-05-20 18:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My question to you is...why would you want to be with someone who takes his friends and family over his wife? Think about it you two have been married 2 1/2 years and he is listening to them. Is something wrong with this picture? Hon, worry about yourself and not what some book or website has to say.
2007-05-20 20:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the Couple to Couple league to see where a local marriage encounter is being held. There's usually 1 a month with an hour radius of everywhere.
2007-05-20 18:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn-Marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't just go along with whatever he says -- you still have a lot invested in this relationship. Go to a marriage counselor by yourself. Counseling services are often available through the church. I really hope you come through this okay.
2007-05-20 18:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. I've been through it and at the point you're, there is no salvage possible.
Make a clean break of it and move on.
Think of it this way....the time you spend trying to rescue this is time spent away from someone who could be your true soul mate!
2007-05-20 19:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek intervention, get help. talk to a marriage counselor - with or without him.
2007-05-20 18:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by ani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ma by you just need to get to getter by your self's and talk it out
2007-05-20 18:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by bailey2204@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrage councler. in my opion?
2007-05-20 18:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋