I have a friend who when she gets angry with her man refuses to have sex with him untill she gets her way . I personally think this is a very selfish,childish, and rather stupid thing to do. I have tried to tell her in an indirect way that she should'nt act this way but she wont listen. I think that there are far too many lonley people in the world and to tell the truth some women are just whores, and will gladly give it to your man just because. you are just asking for trouble!!! what do you think?
2007-05-20 18:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Kelly S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't understand it but if that's what works for them go figure. I wouldn't be worried about him cheating as much as I would be about being frustrated myself. I never got punishing myself to punish someone else.
2007-05-20 18:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that weapon may only last for a few years, after that it will grow old, saggered and deem not attractive. Then which weapon is she going to use next. Her man maybe looking for a younger and better weapon.
Anyway, who want to have sex with a angry woman, not only no mood but also may get kick on the wrong part.
I agreed some women behaved like whores with free giving of her body to anyone she likes, perhap more worst off than whore, because whore still collect money as part of work, but these woman give it free. And that created alots of free whoring men around.
2007-05-20 18:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who use sex as a weapon will also use it as bait to catch a man. It's an amoral use of affection. They deceive a man into thinking she likes him, while she has another motive, and when he's deeply committed, she can cut him off and use some infraction as the reason. She really never like sex anyway. It's hard to find an acceptable woman who has her own completely contained sex drive, and likes her man to like her, for sex. No false fronts, it is as stated. Hard to find. Some women just need to be married to look right to the Junior League. This woman doesn't need a man, she wants power, and sex, or food, or the children , or money, whatever she can bend to her will can be used as a weapon. He should run. He should see about a threesome with the questioner and his wife.
2007-05-20 18:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many women in this world to put up with one who acts this way.
When this guy turns into a man he will just leave her and that will be that. A real man can quickly weed out these types of women from his life.
One of the many paths to becoming a man is to date many women and try to learn from each experience. Although, this is true for women as well. Now all you kids out there, don't take this the wrong way. It's not just about sex. It's about learning about yourself from other people.
2007-05-20 18:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jerrid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She'll regret it later. She's just a spoiled woman, selfish cuz she knows she can be! You're right about women being whores, You're friends probably one of the biggest ones! Sorry, don't mean to offend you.. Just your friend... He is going to find it somewhere else, cuz she is doing that to him as we speak.... I had an ex just like her! So I know. I left my ex and she is regretting every day of her life.
2007-05-20 18:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by mr.rod33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesn't feel comfortable having sex with him while she's mad I can understand but if she's taking it away from him as a soft of punishment then that's not right. That is how men get frustrated and look for someone who is willing to have sex with them.
2007-05-20 18:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by flowerpower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where I live, all girls act this way, is how our generation is, from 59 year olds to 16, they use sex to go their way.
Most people do not know better and they think, life is like that. I would say 99 % think life is just like that. It is very very sad because all girls are like small dictators, I magine that you lived in a place that you had always seen that all your life. You would think that is normal
It is sad
2007-05-20 18:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you. It's cruel to use sex as a weapon and it hurts the relationship. In my opinion, it's lower than when men use money as a weapon. You are also correct in that there are women who love to pick up taken men, just to prove to themselves that they can. It's a dangerous situation to put one's relationship in.
2007-05-21 03:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should never be used as a tool. It used to be for carefree fun and please; now it's withheld as a punishment. Wait until he punished her by getting some on the side.
By the way, how many guys withold sex as a punishment?
2007-05-21 00:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife once told me she was cutting me off, I told her that was impossible, she didn't know where I was getting it!
I was able to see again when the swelling went down.
2007-05-20 20:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋