If you don't have sex for over 4 months, your married and made advances..?

Question

and nothing worked for the moment to happen with your spouse and he makes you feel like he really doesn't want you.....Would you cheat??????

Answer 1

No, cheating is no answer. Have you talk to him about why he isn't amorous? If he refuses to talk about it, you may want to start marriage counseling.

Answer 2

No! Two wrongs don't make a right. In his defense, There are many different reasons why he is not in the mood. I would make a doctor appointment for him to have a physical. This has happened in my relationship. This to shall pass. I thought it was me, maybe an affair. It turned out to be a physical problem. That he didn't think was a common one til he went to the doctor. It may take a while he may be like a lot of men, and not want to go to the doctor, How old is he is he going through a mid-life crisis. a yes it can cause men to lose interest. But if you love him don't give up !

Answer 3

If 4 months have gone by and nothing is happening, you've got a big problem in that relationship.
Guys normally want sex so if there is no action and he is normal, he's either getting somewhere else or he's digusted with you.
You need to ask him now. You should have been asking after 2 weeks of no action.

Answer 4

I would not cheat .....I would tell him that you want him to go with you to marriage counseling. You have to find out what his problem is. If the problem cannot be resolved than you should end the relationship before sleeping with another person. If you cheat without trying to fix things between you ...you will only feel worse about everything. so try to get things out into the open and see if the marriage problem can be solved sweetie.

Answer 5

Unless he has some underlying medical problem, then he is probably already having sex with someone else.

If you decide to look elsewhere for sex too, then think very carefully about the consequences, and not just about your marriage. Having an affair demands lots of time so be sure you are not going to start something and then cause yourself lots of emotional problems. There are also helath issues to be aware of.
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Answer 6

No, what I would do is have a long talk with my Husband, and asked him,why, he does not want to be intimate with me. If it is another Woman that is in the picture, then to tell you straight out what is he going to do about you. Cheating would not solve any problem that exists, between both of you.

Answer 7

I was once asked to try lifting some heavy object in the shop.....well I did it.

The next time I tried it, I hurt my back. I was overconfident.

You're really asking "how strong am I?" - and only you can truly answer that.

But answer yourself honestly and with a dose of humility, otherwise you'll risk hurting yourself too.

Answer 8

we heard your side, i wonder what his is. i've read all these good answers about what his problem might be, but, no one asked about you. how much more do you weigh now, than when you got married? is he laying next to a walrus? is it all his fault? theres always two sides to every story. hell, i don't need someones advice to tell me if it's ok to cheat,they probably do themselves. if i were you,(and i'm glad i'm not)i would talk with him and see if the problem is me or him. but i would not ask other people to justify my future actions for me. good luck.

Answer 9

Cheating is not the answer.

Discuss your feelings with him and find out why he is denying you sex. If you can't work it out, call in the divorce lawyers.

Doc Hudson

Answer 10

your husband must be gay..... or he is with another woman. Men are not like that no matter what these touchy feely type people on here might tell you