This guy proposed i said yes, less then 3 weeks away for the wedding. I find him with my sister!!!! I dont know wat to do!!?? Help me!!
2007-05-19 15:47:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's ashame. And a waste. Get rid of the guy---NOW. Do not marry him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. n
2007-05-19 15:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is all about trust. And he has broken your trust in him. In the very least, you need time to think about what you are going to do. I would say to move on. You can find somebody out there who will not cheat, lie, and abuse your trust. If he did it with your sister, he apparently has no qualms about hurting you. Things like that don't just get better. It will happen again, and then you are putting yourself at risk for diseases. Is it worth your life? I'd tell him it's over. And I'd never look back. As far as your sister goes, well, it may take time to rebuild your realtionship. After you've had plenty of time to calm down from all of this, sit down with her and have a talk about what happened. She's your sister. It's repairable. Good luck to you.
2007-05-19 23:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his azz, and then tell your sister that she has a funny way of showing her loyalty... If he's doing it with your sister then he has no respect for you, and neither does your sister...
And for the record,,, I would let him believe your still going to marry him and the day of the wedding,,, either stand him up or show up as plan walk down the aile and when the preacher says,, do you take this man to be your husband? you say NOOOOO, and tell everyone why! Don't spend another dime on the wedding,,, let him spend the money...
2007-05-19 22:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP AND TAKE A DEEP BREATHE. SO MANY EMOTIONS ARE RUNNING THRU U AND I AM SURE SURE U WILL EXPLODE EVENTUALLY. THEN CANCEL THE WEDDING OF COURSE. TAKE A BREAK AND GO FOR A VACATION SOMEWHERE. EVEN IF IT IS JUST FOR THE WEEKEND. U CAN TAKE A FRIEND U TRUST OR ENJOY BEING ALONE. U WILL HAVE TO FACE REALITY. A NEW BOYFRIEND IS COMING YOUR WAY AND U WILL HAVE TO SETTLE THIS WITH YOUR SISTER TOO.
2007-05-19 23:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by CONFUSED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u dont need to stay with him if u found him with ur sister that tells u up front what kind of man he is leave his sorry self u know u are way to good for all that mess and remember never trust him after the first time cuz then he'll take advantage over u and you'll never be in control.
2007-05-19 22:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by ALWAYS IN NEED OF HELP! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wedding is off he is out of your life for good and your sister she needs some counseling
2007-05-19 22:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a Mexican restaurant and load up on beans, burritos, rellenos...etc....eat like you have never eaten before. Then take him back and get him in the position for the nasty 69. Once he buries his face inside your love chest let the biggest dump of your life go on him. Then sit up and smear you cute tushy all over his face. Grind him good. That is how you get payback. You will ruin him for life!!!!
2007-05-19 23:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill him? Or you could just dump him and sue him for the money you have spent on the wedding. Also, I would just stop talking to your sister. Thats disgusting that she would do that.
2007-05-19 22:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by My December 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel the wedding while people can still get refunds on their airfare. What a pig! And your sister? Eww, what is wrong with people...
2007-05-19 22:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Luvitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon,Gina! Now think, why in the world would you want anything to do with this lout ever, ever again?
I think your sister should feel about as low as any person should ever feel for pulling a stunt like that, too.
Sometimes in our lives we just get fooled, but remember that getting fooled is not the same as being a fool.
Don't become one, please.
2007-05-19 22:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by boomerdude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋