Marriage & Divorce - 23 May 2007

Should same-sex marriage be nationally recognized so that gay and lesbian couples can receive the same benefits as married heterosexual couples? Tell me your opinion in detail and I will choose your answer as the best.

2007-05-23 06:52:18 · 19 answers · asked by BigAndBeautiful 2

as a guy how can you date someone claim her child as yours propose 6 times brag to everyone that your happy and want to " extend your family" and then when she gets pregnant ( was on birth control) change your mind dump her and her babies. want nothing to do with your own child and leave her with nothing after she gave everything she had for you?? I'm just curious how many guys out there asked the fathers permission proposed and wouldnt give up unitll she opened up her heart to you and then suddenly leave and change your mind?? I'm not meaning this to sound mean its an honest question i have to ask myself everyday Thanks
Please no sarcastic answers This is hard enough Thank you!!

2007-05-23 06:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by cee_jae22 3

Im married 'n' everything is fine, but there is one problem that i told my hubby that i was having affair 'n' i broke up with my b/f as he cheated on me, but he sometimes keep on asking me about him or things related to him..? as being honest i told him but sometimes i get frustrated, when ever my hubby ask me again 'n' again same thing, as i have told him many times to forget about everything but he wouldn't stop.
Plz help me to solve out my problem? what shall i do..?
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2007-05-23 06:48:54 · 24 answers · asked by Priti 1

I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago because he was cheeting on me. He calls all the time saying i'm sorry i love you blah blah blah. i want him to stop bothering me . He came to my house once but i pretended i wasn't there it's really getting annoying now what should i do?

2007-05-23 06:47:23 · 6 answers · asked by hhpolkadot 1

How was it when you went BACK to your man?

2007-05-23 06:45:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be able to forgive him & take him back & be ok with knowing he has a baby w/some other woman who is gonna be in his/your life for 18 yrs??? Omg...I couldn do it!! Could you?

2007-05-23 06:41:45 · 43 answers · asked by Redd 3

I just got married. How do I have my last name changed from here? I live in New Jersey

2007-05-23 06:39:25 · 11 answers · asked by Des 3

If so why and would you tell your spouse after it ended?

2007-05-23 06:32:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I said yes I know I love him but lately finding my emotions all over the place about getting married and I find myself pushing him away. He is a sweet person but a bit clingy and I am not use to it. I need some advice fast because i am going crazy here.

2007-05-23 06:26:36 · 28 answers · asked by me 2

i just broke up with my BFof two years. i felt like all we had together anymore was sex on the weekends. i kind of wanted a more meaningful relationship and i wasnt getting it out of him. in the meantime my best friend decided she wanted away from her husband and moved across the entire US and get a divorce. that was all about 8 months ago if not more. now ive been hanging out with him and weve realized we get along really well. ive known him for at least the last 6 years and hes kinda watched me grow up. hes 23 and i just turned 18. our families know eachother very well. hes finally asked me if i want to hook up for somthing to do. id like to but the families wouldnt take to the idea too well and his SOON to be ex wife may not take is so easily either... and i think my dad would be very angry. i dont know what to do. im just kinda waiting to see what happens...

2007-05-23 06:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by Cheese 1

some one can help

2007-05-23 06:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by ouldyellow 1

I have been with this man for 7 years, and we have a four year old daughter together. He is a great father and has done nothing really bad to me, I just don't feel interested anymore. I feel like he won't do anything around the house, he doesn't barely work, he is in University right now and tells me he wants to get a job where he doesn't actually have to work. It work ethic is well below average. He has never for four years, changed our daughters diaper, gave her a bath, or dressed her. I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, car maintanence(he doesn't drive), lawn maintanence, everything. I feel like sinlge mom of two kids! I just feel like it might be easier on our daughter if I get out now instead of when she is older and more attached to him. Any advise would be appreciated.

2007-05-23 06:17:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've posted sevaral questions recently about my troubled marriage. My husband wants me to return to work after being an at-home mom the last two years. Being an at-home mom was so important to the both of us. I gave up a very lucrative career to do so until my daughter was old enough for school. Since that decision, my husband's values have seemed to change. He's more focused on money and material things than I, no longer goes church and lives to work . I'd rather live a more simple life and focus on our family and raise the baby. He's more focused on our big fancy house (that I never wanted), having an expensive SUV etc. etc. I feel like now I am sacrificing what's important to me (raising my child) by going back to work. He swears there is no financial problem...he wants my income to better prepare for the future. How does someone's family values suddenly change? Can my marriage work with totally opposite priorities? He's not willing to compromise. We are in counseling.

2007-05-23 06:16:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and and have 4 kids from a previous relationship and have just finish my Nursing degree. My husband now wants to quite his job and stay home, because his job and his boss just piss him off. I want to be able to buy a house and start having nice things. But with the price of houses these days...how am I supposed to buy a house on one salary. FYI...everyone of his siblings (5 in all) don't work...their significant others work to support the families. I've told him how I feel and told him that if he quits his job he needs to find another one that will make him happy. He is content with getting fired from his job and collecting unemployment...
So am I crazy for being pissed???

2007-05-23 06:10:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 05:58:30 · 6 answers · asked by lou k 1

A buddy of mine plans to propose to this woman he's been dating for a year. He has some substantial assests and therefore wants her to sign a prenuptial agreement. He asked me what I thought. Well first of all knowing him, he's going to do what he wants regardless of what I tell him. Nevertheless I asked him if he really loved this woman. He said, "yes". So I said, "Well why ruin the romance...?" I think bringing up something as serious as a prenup before (or after) proposing to the woman you want to marry and spend the rest of your life with is inconceivable! You're planning the divorce while she's planning the wedding! Maybe I'm too old fashined and sentimental. But despite the assests I may (or may not) have, I couldn't possibly imagine this scenario. If he's not convinced that she's marrying him because she loves him, then maybe he needs to do a little more "digging" before he pops the question. What do you think?

2007-05-23 05:52:46 · 24 answers · asked by Nigel 2

This is my friends problem, as she wana get married with a guy 'n' he is continously forcing her to get married but she is really afraid of her dad, as she thinks that her dad would not agree for their marriage, she wana get married within this year but the problem is that she don't know how to start talking with her dad about her affair, as they have affair for about 1 year.
I don't know anything about that guy but she says that he really loves her 'n' he even doesn't live in india, he lives in america but often come to visit India, about 3-4 times.
she is continously asking for help that how she should talk with her dad? and she says that she really loves him a lot 'n' would just get married with him only.

Honest answer plz.......!!
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2007-05-23 05:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Priti 1

2007-05-23 05:37:38 · 10 answers · asked by b 1

I got married a few weeks ago and my husband tells me something that happened 2 years ago. We had just started dating and he went on a cruise with 4 groups of friends. I couldn't go because I have kids and he got his ticket months before we met each other. Only been together maybe a month! He told me the other day that he met a girl on the ship but only talked, nothing happened! But he said his friends kelp asking him if he slept with her and her friends had a bet on who was going to get laid first. They told there friends they did sleep with each other. he said he wanted to look good and build himself up to his friends, but it has eaten at him since. I asked him why he said he did if he didn't. I also asked why he felt he needed to tell me this! He said because he didn't want anything to come out and it would look bad if something was said and it not have come from him... I know in my heart he didn't sleep with her but having a hard time with him lieing to the friends,I look stupid...

2007-05-23 05:37:18 · 38 answers · asked by Lookin 4 ants 3

he is angry with me regarding my atitute and not talking with me since 3 or 4 days

2007-05-23 05:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by Pallabi 1

2007-05-23 05:29:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

with men who think they ahve to yell at thier wives/gf

2007-05-23 05:29:18 · 8 answers · asked by shorty. 2

confused, i got married about a year ago and i took sometime to go to the social security office and finally got my last name changed. so my ss says my married name but my id doesn't. so should i be signing everything as my married name or my old name. i have been using both because some things they want an id for. i've been really busy working so have not been able to get the dmv. i am planning on going soon. my checks have also been comming in on my name and not my married name. should i just explain to whom ever that i haven't gotten my id changed but my name has been with ss? my manager said she really doesn't need a id to verify, she said just tell her when i do need the name changed! help!

2007-05-23 05:26:43 · 8 answers · asked by Deb M 3

Hi all,

I posted a questions earlier this morning and now my friend has helped me post the picture of my husband's back on this link:


http://www.expressimprints.com/backwithscratches.htm



I'm not convinced from the reason that my husband gave me that those scratches he got was from working out at the gym (he lift weights to make his arms buffer).

Please let me know what you think? I have got many answers that you hardly or never could get scratches on back from working out at the gym. 90% people think he cheated on me.

Now, I have a picture for better judgment. I need your thoughts on this picture. Are the scratches from fingernails or from working out at the gym?

Thanks for your time and help!

2007-05-23 05:22:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 05:19:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-23 05:14:54 · 16 answers · asked by ginger 1

how i do when i know my haspend loves me but i dont make him crazy on bed or im not the cain a women of his dreams i know he loves me but still having the feeling inside me (insecure)

2007-05-23 05:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by MAR10 2

How do I get my husband to understand that I WILL NOT do all the house work. I work 52 hrs a week (I also work Sat) from 9-6pm He gets home from work at 2pm sometimes 12pm and will not do any house work and when he does do some house work he throws it in my face about how I not doing my duty as a WOMAN. (P.s He does do SOME house work) But how do I make him understand chores are the last thing in my mind when I come home from a stressful day at work? Any suggestions???

2007-05-23 05:04:09 · 25 answers · asked by cireniod 1

breast. We've been going out for over 1 month and have been into heavy petting but nothing more. He's not agressive at all so I took the initiative. If we weren't in his car, I'm sure it would have gone further. Question is, now I wonder if he thinks differently of me? Guys, if it were you, what would you think of me?

2007-05-23 05:00:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

heard this before?

2007-05-23 04:44:20 · 7 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1