If so why and would you tell your spouse after it ended?
2007-05-23 06:32:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I'd prefer to keep my work and my personal life separate. I love my husband and I wouldn't want someone or something to come between what we have.
2007-05-23 06:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never!! If you tell your spouse after it ended your job would have to end there to!! In a work environment it would be the worst place because I would be sure that many co-workers would figure it out and know about it. If I were the one cheated on I would never feel comfortable with all of them at my husbands job knowing everything and it would be very embarrassing for me. If I choose to stay married It would take a lot of marriage counseling for the both of us because the trust would be gone. Your job is one place you don't play around with when it comes to your marriage! That is your livelihood and your means to live....and would never be a good thing to do as well as anywhere if you are in a committed relationship. Best wishes sweetie.
2007-05-23 13:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't have an affair with a co-worker. Marriage is about trust and respect. The grass isn't aways greener on the other side and to hurt my husband like that is wrong. I know what I have and wouldn't chance losing the greatest thing thats ever happened in my life over a roll in the hay with someone that could care less...To much drama and hurt when a affair takes place...
2007-05-23 13:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Flying w/ scissors 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is actually the worst scenario for which to have an affair. If it goes bad, it could cost you your job as well as your marriage. Besides at work youll never know if and when the affair hits the workplace grapevine and that presents a whole new set of problems itself. This is why the old saying "never mess around in your own backyard" came to be. Nothing good could ever come out of one of these. These things have a way of showing up at the most opportune moment
2007-05-23 13:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never have an affair wit a co worker because u would have to see them evey day and maybe that person has feelings for u but u don't they will be on u all the time not letting u work And i don't have a Husband but if I did I would not do that to him
2007-05-23 13:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by la_temeraria_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I am in a management position. Having an affair is the fast track to getting fired for harassment. A piece of tail is not worth it!
If I did have an affair, I would not tell my spouse!
2007-05-23 13:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Willie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have an affair with a co-worker. That's the quickest way to lose your job and your spouse.
2007-05-23 13:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Earl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the circumstances but if I were to ever have an affair I would definitely not tell my husband unless I was ready to end the relationship.
2007-05-23 13:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i aint gonna lie i have and i regret it but me and my spouse are still together cause we love each other. yeah i may have an affair but at that time we was going through some stuff and he knows it to so thats why we are sticking together. come on now not everyone is innocent. i bet everyone makes mistakes in thier lives.
2007-05-23 13:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by lbcgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I wouldnt have an affair with anyone! I got married because I wanted to be with my husband and my husband only, forever. I dont think I will ever understand why married people cheat. The way I see it is, if you dont want to be with your husband or wife anymore, just get a divorce! Dont cheat! I really dont believe in getting divorced either, I believe in the vows that we took.. for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.. But, if you really dont want to be with that person anymore or if you want to be with other people.. get a divorce before you do anything with anyone else!.. But, thats just my opinion! lol!
2007-05-23 13:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Love-A-Bull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No.
2. Moral integrity.
3. Not applicable.
2007-05-23 13:36:01 · answer #11 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋