he is angry with me regarding my atitute and not talking with me since 3 or 4 days
2007-05-23 05:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by Pallabi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is living in london and i in india.we only talk in phone or have chat.now a days he is not calling in the way he used to.if he call anytime then only talk ina formal manner and then he disconnect d phone.i already had apologized .but i don't find any positive remark.what should i do
2007-05-23 06:50:44 · update #1
tell him you're sorry and you'll try to have a better attitude, and then let him get over it in his own time ..... and stand up to your word
2007-05-23 05:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Christi F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the same way. He says I have this attitude problem (like when I don't come home from work all happy and cheery and overly excited to do dishes). He doesn't get that when you are in a mood, you don't just turn it off. You have to get out of it. And being ignored or yelled at isn't the way to do it. Just go on your day to day activities. Eventually he will talk to you. And when he does, talk about the attitude. Explain if you were in a bad mood, crabby, exhausted... let him know it wasn't him. It was just a mood.
2007-05-23 12:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him & let him know that u r sorry. Do not keep aruguing, even though u knw u r right.
I beleive in a saying(Indian)..Lemme translate..
If one of u bend & give way to the other, the other would melt away.
So I'm 100% sure that it will work out.
All the best !
2007-05-23 13:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way 2 please your hubby is 2 b yourself.
never ever in your life do or agree 4 the things which r not in your hand or u cant do never act or lie now as he is angry tell him the truth if the truth hurts him or 4 that u have 2 act or lie DO NOT DO THAT because in long term u will b in trouble
2007-05-23 14:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by dolly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m sure that u would have longed for a man who would understand your attitude problem and live with it. and there are such men on our planet !
but, call it the indian chauvinism, or whatever, self opinionated people are in majority.
i would say learn from your elders' experience. call your mother or mother-in-law (if she is supportive) and discuss your problem. don;t discuss with your friends, it will only worsen the matters.
best of luck !
2007-05-23 13:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by authentic answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by apologising for you attitude ask him what it is about your attitude that makes him unhappy and try to work on improving it. Just remember marriage is hard work and lifetime commitment so you both have to pull you weight and look out for each other.
2007-05-23 13:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an abusive relationship to me.
You should divorce him.
It sounds like you can't get in touch with him, and he refuses to communicate with you.
You don't want to deal with a husband who doesn't love you; move on.
I mean, come on. He cut off all communication because he doesn't like "your attitude"?
That's utter nonsense. You have the right to have whatever attitutde you have.
2007-05-26 13:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk with him the day 1;try slowly the day 2(watch you have to say to him);if negative;stop talking at all until he talks to you.
Silence is a effective remedy in some cases.
2007-05-23 12:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The silence will brake eventually. You go on and do your day to day routines. If you have nothing to do when you get home, find something, wash and fold clothes, play with the kids, find something to do. Let him know that you don't care either. He will see that you don;t care, then that will make him upset as it did you, then he will be the one trying to fix it.
2007-05-23 12:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shed that attitude.....
heres an idea get home early (if you are working) surprise him by cooking his favourite dish, have candlelit dinner, and then have a 'night in' give him lots and lots of tender loving care and see how he will melt away in your arms - love needs no words.....
later you can say 'sorry i have been a bit of a jerk recently, i love u'
keep smiling !
2007-05-23 12:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have no idea what made him angry...........wear a nice Saree n dress like a bride take a nice full size pic of urs and write a letter reminding him all sweet, romantic and best moments of ur life with him lately asking him to forgive............... n promise him that u'l try to change to and send that letter to him with your nice dulhan pohto......... m confident it will resolve every thing.
2007-05-24 00:58:58 · answer #11 · answered by Tilak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋