I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago because he was cheeting on me. He calls all the time saying i'm sorry i love you blah blah blah. i want him to stop bothering me . He came to my house once but i pretended i wasn't there it's really getting annoying now what should i do?
2007-05-23 06:47:23 · 6 answers · asked by hhpolkadot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him nicely ONCE to stop bothering you. Explain to him that there is no chance in hell that you are going to take him back (and you aren't just saying that to make him beg- you really mean it).. If he continues to harass you.. call the police. In most states there are laws against even phone harassment. But, the important thing is that you tell him to leave you alone-at least once. And after that it's considered harassment. After a nice little visit from the police (who will more than likely tell him jail time is an option if he keeps it up).. I'm sure he will back off. If for some reason he's hard headed.. get a restraining order. These things which seem innocent can often turn deadly.. Please protect yourself, and best of luck to you =)
2007-05-23 06:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him either stop or you will go to the police. But then be willing to do it, get a restraining order and make it clear he isn't to contact you in any way shape and form. But don't do it unless you mean it!
2007-05-23 13:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell this guy to leave you alone once and for all. Move on dude! It's over. Sometimes being blunt in the only way they get it.
2007-05-23 14:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Madrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chain a nasty tempered doberman out front. If he persists tell him you will file a police report that he is stalking you. He should get the message one way or another.
2007-05-23 13:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always get a restraining order.
2007-05-23 13:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by QueenLori 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to leave
2007-05-23 13:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋