This is my friends problem, as she wana get married with a guy 'n' he is continously forcing her to get married but she is really afraid of her dad, as she thinks that her dad would not agree for their marriage, she wana get married within this year but the problem is that she don't know how to start talking with her dad about her affair, as they have affair for about 1 year.
I don't know anything about that guy but she says that he really loves her 'n' he even doesn't live in india, he lives in america but often come to visit India, about 3-4 times.
she is continously asking for help that how she should talk with her dad? and she says that she really loves him a lot 'n' would just get married with him only.
Honest answer plz.......!!
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2007-05-23 05:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Priti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She have already told her mother, but her mother said tell ur father first 'n' then they would be able to make dacision.
anyways she is the only kid of her parents.
2007-05-23 06:01:30 · update #1
Im already married, it's just she told me to solve her problem, but i don't know what to do as it's bit complicated and sometimes i feel that my friends b/f is not honest with her 'n' according to me he is already forcing her to get married , but she is insisting me so much for help, so im confused.
2007-05-23 06:07:29 · update #2
Something is wrong here, terribly wrong, and I dont think the daughter-father talk is it. I sense that your friend senses it too and is only using the daddy talk as an excuse to delay this til she figures out her feelings. If Im wrong please forgive me and I apologize deeply but I dont think I am. She is confused about her true feelings fo this guy for some reason but is really confused on how to fix it and save face too. I really feel that she knows deep inside this guy is really too good to be true and doesnt really trust him. The first clue being why isnt he beside her in going to talk with dad. He may not be exactly what he appears to be and thats not good. You need to have a real old fashioned heart to heart talk with her and find out what is really bothering her and dont be too surprised if Im right. Better to some more searching about this guy as I really am getting a real bad feeling about him and this jumped out at me while reading the above. Good luck
2007-05-23 05:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if he is continuously forcing her to get married, it's hard to say what he'll be like when they do get married. I honestly think she should not marry this guy, no matter how much she says she loves him. How much does she know about this guy, is he abusive, is that why he continuously forcing her to get married, what is the reason? She shouldn't do it and her father should know. Especially if you find out this guy is abusive or whatever the reason is that he wants to marry her. There's just something not right about this. Hopefully this helps you out.
2007-05-23 07:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by don't know me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trusting a stranger is not so wise..who is not even infront of ur eyes. It's sometimes good for ur life to obey ur Parents. It's a blessing which only few people have realised. Beleive me.. it may now seem impossible but will be alright after marriage.
2007-05-23 06:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is old enough and doesn't need her father's permission..
Then I think she should just tell her father the truth and mention that if he doesn't approve of the one SHE loves then he will lose her when she marries her man and move to America.
2007-05-23 05:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should talk to her father if she feels that he would be upset but in the end he is not the one getting married she is and if they love eachother won't she be able to be with him?
And it seems like that father has to approve, but love is love
2007-05-23 05:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by karamelchem_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is old enough she should be mature enough to face her father and be honest with him. If she isn't then she shouldn't get married.
2007-05-23 05:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 03:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R HER FRIEND, SO HELP HER & EXPLAIN THIS TI HER DAD. OR WRITE A LETTER TO HER DAD. !!! IT'S THAT SIMPLE. HOW COME U R ASKING THIS QUESTION FOR HER. OR IS THIS JUST YOUR QUESTION ? JUTH BOLE KAUA KATE.......KALE KAUA SE DARIO........
2007-05-23 05:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Use the advocate and tack advise of registrar marriages
2007-05-23 08:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? is he married already or not? I don't understand.
2007-05-23 05:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋