Someone I know and very close w/ was dating this guy for 9 yrs & they never were married b/c he was married and stayed in the marriage to keep his pension, not pay child supp. etc. and he treated his wife like a dog. The person I know and this guy stop seeing each other around decem. b/c he started seeing someone else they work with since august supposedly probably longer but whatever. They all work together and HAD a friendly working relation. today the person I know found out that these two are getting married and he decided divorce his wife, she called him and asked him about it and he confirmed it si its not a rumor. What would you do to get through it? She is very hurt, it was a lot of wasted time and what advice can I give. I feel that she shouldnt have been talkin to him anyway b/c marriage is marriage no matter the situation and she put up w/ it for too long.
2007-05-23 10:15:05 · 13 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT ISN'T ME DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-23 10:30:48 · update #1
I think you should celebrate with your friend the fact that she didn't get stuck with that lying cheating piece of garbage. She's the lucky one all the other woman is getting is someone else's husband!
2007-05-23 10:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A whole decade wasted. Pretty low IQ, wouldn't you say? She was the 2nd woman anyway, so what's the hurt? Seems life would be worse if she became the real wife.
2007-05-23 10:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only get one life to live so why dwell on a mistake see where you are at and live from then on, 10 billion people in the world your not going thru anything that they havent gone thru so buck up and lets go get some drinks
2007-05-23 10:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by eric h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Your friend" made a mistake from the very beginning of talking to a married man. Get one with her life and take this as a lesson learned not to get involved with anybody that is in relationship!
2007-05-23 10:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no advice for someone who dates a married man who is not honorable enough to want to support his kids by paying childsupport and giving his ex-wife what she is due. She knew what she was getting into, it's her own fault. She's just going to have to chalk it up to stupidity and get on with her life.
2007-05-23 10:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's SO much better off without him. She should realize he played with her, so he'll play again on his new wife. Your friend is well out of this situation. She needs to realize she deserves better than a back-street romance.
2007-05-23 10:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She put herself in that situation. However, no sense crying over spilt milk. She should learn from the situation and move on to happier and healthier relationships.
2007-05-23 10:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you phuck a married man there are no guarantees that YOUR relationship with him will wind up with YOU getting married. Your "friend" chose to be this guy's whore and he decided not to marry her. Maybe she should learn not to phuck married men.
2007-05-23 10:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you have all these pronouns, and no nouns..... If your friend is hurt, I'm sorry. She needs to find an available guy... try Yahoo Personals... worked for me.
2007-05-23 10:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend was a loser and the guy was just using her for what he could get.
2007-05-23 10:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋