Did it happen to you? Did it happen to somone who hurt you? Was it worth it in the end? Okay I know this is more than one question. My ex cheated on me with this girl. She knew about me and rather than fess up when I asked she punked out. Come to find out later that he disgraced my name by claiming my oldest son was my nephew and I was not a very good parent to my youngest because I was always with my mother. My mother was taking care of my sisters kids because of domestic violence and I was helping her. I love my niece and nephew. Anyway...all these lies came out of the water. Furthermore...he got engaged to her while engaged to me. Anyway...I am moving forward but sometimes it really pisses me off that he can get away with this. So does what come around really go around?
2007-05-23 15:17:53 · 25 answers · asked by happybeans79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I think it does also. The universe remembers everything, it will come back on him some day. Don't worry about finding out what, just know, he has already sealed his own fate.
2007-05-23 16:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by dorcas_3210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, he'll get his you can be sure of it. If he will cheat with her while he is engage to you, then he will do it again. The girl he got engage to knows all about this and she is a cheater also. You know the old saying...once a cheater, always a cheater. The best thing you can do is find yourself a nice guy. The best revenge is to be really happy and look great. Set out to do both. Then when you run into those two somewhere, he will think he should have kept you and she will think she needs to dump him because you now have such a hot guy. Do it.
2007-05-23 15:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do believe what comes around goes around. I think if you do a good deed then you usually end up getting a good deed back in some way or another. If you do something bad to a person some how some way it happens to them as well. I would not worry about him any longer. Look and dress your best. Get your mind off of him he is not worth it. Start going out and having fun. Thank god you did not marry this two timing no good for nothing man.
2007-05-23 15:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have been having a pretty tough time these last few years. I am starting to think that maybe I had done something terrible to someone and this is the repayment. I dont think so, I think, this is just part of life.....I think the pressures of life sometimes get you down. I also think that if you think kharma is getting you back, then you can make bad things happen because you are filled with negativity. My ex hurt me terribly and all I wanted was revenge. I did some stupid revengeful things to him which made me feel good at the time, but for him they werent too good....lol....so I guess kharma works both ways. I did something to make him unhappy, so should kharma repay the hurtful things I did to him, or was I justified? In the early stages of hurt you pray that Kharma will get them back for all the hurt they caused you...and maybe it does. maybe it doesnt. But you do get to a point in your life, where the hurt of the past has made you strong where you dont really think too much about whether they are going to get their just desserts simply because you have moved on and are more interested in finding happiness for yourself than dwelling in the past. You will get there...the hurt you are feeling now will pass. The memories will always be there, but time has a wonderful way of healing a broken heart. I think its wonderful to think that Kharma will have revenge on you, its kinda comforting when you are actually going through the pain. But once you get past that stage, you wont care if kharma has its way or not.
I hope to God there is no such thing as kharma because I have done some things in my past that I havent been real proud of. I have hurt people deliberately and not deliberately, but its all a part of growing up. It all a part of learning about yourself and I would hate to think something horrible is going to happen to me because of something I did many years ago. I dont think there is anyone in this world who hasnt done something they havent been real proud of. Its all a part of the growing process and if kharma exists, then we will all fall a victim to it at some point.
2007-05-23 15:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OH yes it does! Karma, vengence, whatever you want to call it it works.
I've seen it countless times people reep what they sew. If you sew bad seeds like cheating, lieing etc... you will reep the bad benifits from it.
What he did was horrible and you may or may not be around to see the tables turn but be rest assured that they will.
I know a lady that her hubby left her a day before she was to give birth and he ran away with a girl because she had more meony. well not to long after the girl left him for someone who had more money.
what goes around comes around!
2007-05-23 15:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by *Sbaby* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happybea, please don't fret over this fruit loop. If, he cheated on you, he will cheat on other women too. People with this type of behavior have low self esteem. I am proud of you for helping your mother with the children. If this loser wants to tell lies. Let him. You know the truth and that's all that matters. Honey, it may appear to you right now, that he is getting away with everything. But he is not. There is one being that sees everything and judges everyone. What you put out into this world will come back to you. Think about it this way please. Do you want good to come back to you? Or do you want bad to come back to you? We all make our own destiny. Please move forward with your life. Don't give this loser anymore of your life. God Bless You! another mom that cares
2007-05-23 15:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by lfahrne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does.
I never knew the bad karma I got by cheating on my ex- husband would be ending up with my later-turned-jerk lover.
Life is funny like that. He is not getting away with anything.
2007-05-23 15:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it really does come back around. One way or another its gonna get him, 10 fold (10 times worse) And the new chic might be the one to give it to him, SMILE!
2007-05-23 15:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by BossLady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sometimes takes a while but I believe in due time people like him do get theirs in the end. At least I like to hope so.
2007-05-23 15:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work it and walk away.
Yes, what comes around goes around. Don't you worry.
It has happened to so many of us and you WILL get through it.
2007-05-23 15:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Michele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋