The harder you try to forget the person the harder it is to forget about her... then don't, learn from your past, life experienece will make you stronger,
Love is not always meant to be together, Maybe she is just not the best one for you.
Move on, have your life; hang out with your friends, do your hobbies, spend time with your family, open your heart, give your self a chance to find another love. slowly her memories will fade away, and maybe oneday before you realise it you completely forget about her.
I had this problem once, it takes sometime for me to move on. Now I'm married with the guy million times better than him, and I kind of thank him for that, if he never leave me I would never have a change to meet my lovely husband, my soulmate the love of my life.
Keep on searching my friend, your soulmate is still out there, waiting to be found by you.
2007-05-23 19:40:04
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answered by "LuckyStar" 2
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Well, we always dwell on past relationships, it seems we only remember the good times and never the bad. Obviously it did not work out and that person moved on. You can't forget but you can wish them the best and move on.
Why make someone a priority when all you are is an option!
You can't make room for someone new if you are dwelling on the past, right? Loving someone who does not return that love hurts, deal with it and get out there and meet someone new.
2007-05-23 18:42:16
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answered by kristac 1
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The sad fact is that you may never forget them.I cant say from experience..its only been a month since my relationship with my fiance ended, but i think about her every day.It seems to be a part of life that you just have to take in stride.Some people leave a lasting impression.sorry..i know this isnt much help..im just kinda embarassed about discussing this when i cant forget my loved one.
2007-05-23 18:17:51
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answered by Samurai 2
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I guess you will always think "what if", and there's nothing you can do about that. The good thing is that you still have the opportunity of the unknown, maybe someone a thousand times better than this person will come along. Cheer up and good luck!
2007-05-23 18:40:36
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answered by aletheok 2
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wait for the time when someone falls in love with you,be nice to that girl and get married.
As a matter of fact if you truely love some one you cannot forget .If she is married just let her be happy,wish her well.
I know its very difficult but move on.
2007-05-23 18:20:04
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answered by naz 3
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you don't have to forget, you just have to move on. try meeting new people, it'll be hard at first and you'll probably compare them to your previous love, but as time goes one it'll become easier. also make sure you have some alone time before you seriously start dating someone new. every relationship needs a mourning period.
2007-05-23 18:14:45
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answered by Whipping 3
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Ouch!! I feel for you. The man I love is selfdestructive and is seeing someone else. You need to just be happy that the person you love is happy. You will find somebody one day.
2007-05-23 18:17:28
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answered by Reta, Bears mommy 4
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Get busy and make new friends. Mooning after someone who obviously doesn't care for you is a pointless exercise. If you still can't let go of it, get some counseling. Nobody is going to feel sorry for you, you know.
2007-05-23 18:13:05
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answered by Anonymous
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it very simple you have to let go of the past and move to the
future, he has moved on and married someone else. it time
to start to live your life, get back in to the game. go out with
friends. get a hobby. start doing things that will keep you
busy. time to get a life. no punt intented.
2007-05-23 18:15:00
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answered by luckystar 6
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You can't, it's natural that you don't, but you need to move on. It's what is best for you. You will recover from the feeling of loss as time goes by, you have your own adventures, and find somebody new.
2007-05-23 18:18:02
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answered by Seinen Wakichou 5
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