2007-05-23 15:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont talk to the soon to be x unless you have to let the lawyers do the talking and what ever the x says or does do not react I mean not even a facial expression in front the judges and lawyers. Do only what you have to and remain calm and open minded. You will be fine been through 3 my self 2 of mine and then I was with my hubby now when he was going though his and Im telling you his was rought. But its over and we got the best out off it cause she kept acting like an ***.
2007-05-23 15:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never easy to do and no one can one expect one to be thru a messy contested divorce. All you can do is look toward the better days that are coming when this is all over. Just think of this as the means to an end and that these means will justify the ends. Remember this that the person who angers you also controls you so if you dont want to be controlled by your ex then try and be the happiest person around realizing youre getting rid of your miserable problem and the sunshine will return. Good luck
2007-05-23 22:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have children, do it so that they remember that you were level headed and be sure to tell them that it can be very emotional and explain that grown ups aren't always good at getting their feelings out in an adult manner. If no kids, just get through it and know that some day you won't have to pay alimony any more and she will be gone. (Or he)
2007-05-23 22:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by stacey p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of things you are happy about.
Make a list of things that REALLY matter in life.
Make a list of reasons why you'll be happy to be single again.
Then read the lists whenever you get to the breaking point.
2007-05-23 22:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let them see you bleed. be aware of how you prsent your self it can all be used against you in court. espically if domestic violence or custody issues are involved. be professoinal, the less said the better. you cna always add things you say later on, but you can never take back the things you've already said. so be on the conservative side with waht you say in court and to your ex. also , your lawyer may advise you how to behave in court - listen to theri advice.
2007-05-23 22:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count down the days when it'll be final and you will be out of the marriage for good.
2007-05-23 22:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
somtimes the other spouse won't allow it....but when possible negociate issues...even if its not completely fair...to avoid continued arguing give in alittle.
2007-05-23 22:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots and lots of beer.
2007-05-23 22:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long walks
2007-05-23 22:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋