I mean they always want someone to take care of them like there 5 . What the hell is it about . My husband seems handicapped hwen it comes to his work clothes like he cannot get them out himself . What is your husband handicapped on .
2007-05-23 18:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My goodness that sounds like my hubby. It's like you do everything but wipe their butts.
2007-05-23 19:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Kimchi♥ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Good question. Why do most women want a daddy and not a partner? Why do so many women come across as helpless, incapable of doing even simple tasks? In my experience, women are just as bad, and just as good as men. Both make mistakes, both would, really deep down, like to be taken care of and both have a deep-seated fear of the world. Most of us work through our fears and learn how to deal with life, men and women, but the similarities are as many as are the differences.
2007-05-24 03:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men want/need a mommy they can sleep with. Another words, they need to grow up. A mature body does not mean a mature mind. A female looking for a daddy to take care of her is in the same category.
2007-05-24 02:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by whome 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Mine is handicapped on almost everything - i think it is because he knows if he leaves it long enough i will do it - I have to be able to handle the mess and then when he complains tell him to do something about it.
2007-05-24 02:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it is programmed in our genes....i want someone to take care of me and shield me from anything bad(which my husband does). thats like a father.
my husband cant cut his own toenails! i do it for him. yes, its sad. my husband is handicapped on all aspects....just like when he was 5 i assume. but i cant complain, since i am totally dependant on him and the money he makes, like when i was 5.
2007-05-24 02:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by taryn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me like you need to look around a little bit. "Most" is pretty much a stereotype. Maybe you just married the wrong man.
2007-05-24 02:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should not have been acting like a mommy to him. Why did you start getting his cloths ready for him? you shouldn't have started
2007-05-24 02:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because men are like little boys and women love being little mommies....That's the way things have always been (women cooked, washed the laundry,....)
2007-05-24 02:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by lisasimpson 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mature men don't. I chose a mature man!
2007-05-24 07:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are going to do it for him he won't do it for himself.
You need to educate him.
It doesn't make you a bad wife not catering to his every need.
2007-05-24 02:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋