Hi all,
My husband is having an affair with one of his friend's wife since June 06. He has admitted having an affair with that woman and always told me it's over until i find yesterday that they did not take any break.I want to file for a divorce , but the single evidence i have is his cell phone listing of him spending hours on the phone with that girl. Is my evidence enough to get a divorce in Maryland? I can bear that anymore. I am a full time mothers of 3 kids full time student and full time worker. My life is already full of stress. Please kindly help.
Thanks
Florie
2007-05-23 17:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by florie k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Irreconcilable differences will work. Laws vary from state to state, so be sure to have some money in your own name and don't give him too much notice if you're going to file. Get the lawyer and get your ducks in a row and let him have it. Make sure he pays the maximum child support. Then get on with your life. Not all men are heels.
2007-05-23 18:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a lying good for nothing cheat. He does not deserve you! I don't know about the divorce laws in Maryland but law or not this is one thing I would take into my own hands and find a way to get one!! If this womans husband is unaware of his wife being involved with your husband I would inform him. Your husband is a lousy friend and a very self centered person. I would call a lawyer and find out about your laws in your state or look them up on the net. No matter what you cannot live this way. Best wishes .
2007-05-23 17:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie i think you already answered your question. I do am sorry for what's been going with you and the kids. Just follow your heat and do the best thing for you and your kids. Bluntly your husband is having an emotional feelings for this women. Do find a lawyer that can tell you if you have enough evidence, then go from there.
My husband also had an affair with a married woman and yes he did had an emotional feelings for her too, but look where he is not, not with me and my 3 kids. there's no trust anymore, so think it very carefully...........
2007-05-23 17:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask a lawyer in the yellow pages in your area for a free consultation. and tell them these details. This sounds exactly like my husband soon to be ex. Except I am in california. Good luck. I do not know why these guys have to lie. She told me he only stayed with me cuz of the kids and I believed her. Otherwise why would he keep denying he chats with her if that is all it was and i keep finding long conversations that he cant even hold with me and we are not intimate. hmmm. I dont know why guys just dont go to court and fight for whatever they want out of the kids and visitation and leave the baby mama alone if they cant leave the other woman alone. I had more proof to by going and getting tested. It was a positive test hope the same doesnt happen to you. and she was married and still is. so wierd that this is happeing to you too and i saw the proof on june 6 of last year. serious.
2007-05-23 17:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're confident your husband is a cheater whether he denies it. i will bite, what's your info? in actuality right here is yet another question, why do you want him to admit some thing which will in basic terms harm you and harm your courting? What are you attempting to show and why? think he relents and says , " you're suited i've got been F'ing your terrific pal for 3 months now ". What have you ever gained? you may extra valuable clever up. the two it extremely is or isn't a topic we don't probable comprehend. the subject is you do no longer probable comprehend or you attempt to call some thing cheating which isn't. For the record, ITS no longer cheating till THEY commerce FLUIDS! all the textual content textile,chat,verbal exchange, on the spot message and so on. whether distracting, are no longer cheating. they are no longer real clever yet no longer cheating. stop attempting to foreheadbeat him into an admission he's not prepared to make because of the fact while he says,"i've got been cheating", relax certain he's able to pass to her.
2016-11-05 04:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by arrocha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Florie, I sorry but if he'll do it once he'll probably do it again and if he does it twice he'll keep on doing it as long as you let him (by sticking around). If he truly loved you he would never ever risk losing you. I guess it's just a matter of whether or not you are willing to share. You'll be amazed how much your stress level will go down, ditching the bum. Signed Has known since January 2000 and finally ditching the bum.
2007-05-23 18:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by Alley Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to prove anything to him 'cos he knows what he is. I would advice you try to work things out with him as divorce is not the only solution to infidelity. Is he a good father to his kids?, Is he good at any other thing other than sleeping with other peoples wives?. These are some issues you need to consider. Good luck.
2007-05-23 17:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a ton of ways to prove your H is cheating.
But, sounds to me like he already admitted it. So, why waste your $$ and your effort.
You need to decide what is healthy for you and those kids.
Love is supposed to enhance your life; not destroy it.
Sorry you are going thru that.
2007-05-24 09:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ignore it for now then when u have time try fallow him and take pictures of him
with his partner kissing or hugging or holding hands
he doesn't matter for now his wack
he made another sin
oh if ur bored watch movies for free or show su missed on
like spider man 3 or shrek 3
http://www.tv-links.co.uk/index.do/4
2007-05-23 17:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there r cell phones that act as tracking devises,u could put the phone on silent n it the car
2007-05-23 17:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋