Marriage & Divorce - 29 May 2007

2007-05-29 23:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by ihwenus 2

2007-05-29 23:13:23 · 10 answers · asked by Zircon 1

I have been married for 1.5 years my wife left me for about a month when we got back together and all was going good she left again it she was saying its because i hassel her for sex and i disrespect her.
I really love her and want to make it up to her but she keeps telling me she has heard it all before and she does not believe that i want to fix it or will fix it .
I have asked her if she could have told me when i was annoying her and what i was doing that was disrespectful so i can fix it.
She tells me that she does not know if she wants to end it or not but she is sick of being hurt and does not know if she can take it anymore. How can i show her i am seriouse and love her. Should i just give her time to calm down about everything i think she still loves me and i have been treating her badly i just want to make it up to her help me please.

2007-05-29 23:12:08 · 13 answers · asked by jase m 1

I have been married for 1.5 years my wife left me for about a month when we got back together and all was going good she left again it she was saying its because i hassel her for sex and i disrespect her.
I really love her and want to make it up to her but she keeps telling me she has heard it all before and she does not believe that i want to fix it or will fix it .
I have asked her if she could have told me when i was annoying her and what i was doing that was disrespectful so i can fix it.
She tells me that she does not know if she wants to end it or not but she is sick of being hurt and does not know if she can take it anymore. How can i show her i am seriouse and love her. Should i just give her time to calm down about everything i think she still loves me and i have been treating her badly i just want to make it up to her help me please.

2007-05-29 23:10:21 · 5 answers · asked by jase m 1

Indian law is permitting this and such secretaries also are getting respect in society. Why secretaries, even other females are doing this. Some small screen celebrities too are seen in this catagory.
In this matter the aggrieved wives are left with no remedy or financial and emotional support. Even society ridicules them for not being able to keep their husbands in their command!
Indian law gives right to a husband to sue a man who entices away his wife. In fact men never use this right as they are earning and can afford another wife for their kids if their wife runs away.
But Indian law does not allow a wife to sue the female who entices away her husband. In fact she needs this remedy as most of the Indian wives are housewives. They have no money of their own. If a husband walks away with other female, these females are left with no house, no money and liability of children to be looked after.
This question is purely in social interest. We want you to be aware & vote for justice

2007-05-29 22:36:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband works with this girl so she's fully aware that he's married but still went ahead with the affair.p.s. she's 24 yrs old and single with a kid.

2007-05-29 22:30:35 · 34 answers · asked by peppermint 1

2007-05-29 22:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by peppermint 1

my children in their late 40s insist i stay and put alot of pressure on me. i've lost me inthe process. suddenly discovering that my life has been controlled for far too long. married my wife at 24 yrs she was 40 yrs old. Now at 50 i want to start living. she won't let me go without a fight she said. help

2007-05-29 20:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by wings 1

2007-05-29 20:09:48 · 12 answers · asked by Nathan 1

if faced between choosing two women :
1) your wife - jealuos and nagging and contrlling you cannot be alone or have freedoms she always thinks your cheatng and never stops btichign at you and threatneing to take your kid away so you never see him again. or
2) an ex girlfreind you missed for years, but now she is a wreck.. in credit trouble , and also pregnant and single and maybe possibly going on welfare.
which would you choose, and why? im asking this for my brother

2007-05-29 19:59:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have been with my husband for over 2 years and love him very much. Last year we found out we were going to be parents and he was very excited. But since we found out I was pregnant he stopped being intimate with me. At first I thought it was the whole pregnancy thing but its been a year and we've had the baby and still nothing. He is effectionate thats it, Ive caught him with text messeges from other women talking about sex. He says that he doesnt consider that cheating and he likes to play with that fantasy. Im not a timid women and I am used to a once a day love schedule, I have men hitting on me and its almost tempting. Ive tried talking to him and I get a variety of excuses but still nothing has changed. He is a great daddy to our 2 month old but in the husband role he is lacking, is he trying to loose me or what? I dont know whats going on with him but Im not sure I can take much more of this, what should I do?

2007-05-29 19:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by lil_mis_all_my_t 1

2007-05-29 19:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by Shylia 4

My husband I were married Feb 24th of this year and already having problems. I fear I'm starting to resent him! I moved 1500 miles away from the only home I've ever known because he wanted to. He has a job because we only have one vehicle and I'm stuck at home all the time. I've tried telling him that I'm lonely and unhappy and told him how he could help me become happier. He tells me what I want to hear and the next day is just the same thing over again. Could this possibly be the start of an abusive relationship...any advice?

2007-05-29 19:05:06 · 22 answers · asked by Kellie D 2

My boyfriend is 28 and I'm 25. We've been dating for quite some time and I want to say yes but there is one thing stopping me. His 'best' friend is his ex-girlfriend. This really hurts my feelings, I want to tell him not to see her anymore but that is unfair. He knows how I feel, and we talk about it. I don't have anything against her just the situation. We've decided that we should take baby steps towards me being comfortable. For example: if we're all together he pays extra attention to me. And if I get upset and work through it with him, he tells me how great I'm being. I still get upset because I don't think I should have to put forward this much effort so he can still see his ex. I figured that friendships naturally come and go. So I decided to wait it out and not get married until after they weren't friends anymore. My main arguement is that you should marry your 'best' friend. He's saying that he doesn't want to wait years to marry me. What's your opinion on the situation?

2007-05-29 18:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by christina k 2

I have a friend who is a single mother of 4, we have recently been hanging out alot and her kids are always there and I really love these kids. My question is this, I would like to have a kid but do not want to adopt or necessarily get married. Any ideas on how to find someone who would want to go along with this while not necessarily being in a marriage or adopting?

2007-05-29 18:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-29 18:34:50 · 7 answers · asked by crazyabs 1

hers the story...my cousin is engaged to this girl who here family is close to my family and his family..the girl is 2 years older than me and 5 years younger than him,when i heard he's getting married i was really happy for him , i know that the girl is really hot but i don't know anything else about her, from the moment i heard he's getting married to her i have this strong feeling that i wanted to be with her , or get a girl who's like her or maybe better,me and this girl spent last year chatting a lot in MSN messenger i also remmember her giving me kisses and saying i love you,the good thing i think i don't feel any hate betwwen me and my cousin im acutely really happy for him but can anyone define what is this feelings or why im having it.

2007-05-29 17:55:57 · 15 answers · asked by sergio 1

my ex wants his ring and jacket back (he gave it to me when we were still together) but my recent bf wants me to throw it all away instead of giving it back..help

2007-05-29 17:50:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

and everyone else thought so too. And they had no personality, wouldn't go anywhere stayed home all the time and drink. Would you want them?

2007-05-29 17:45:25 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sons father and I never married. My son is almost 5 months old, the father moved out over 2 months ago permanently. He left me many times during the pregnancy. For about 2 weeks after he moved out, he was watching the baby--all while complaining he had to get out of work early so I could get to my job in time, then hounding me all night about when I would be done. Then he finally told me to find other arrangements, leaving me scrambling on a Monday to find reliable care beginning the very next day. Well, he filed for joint custody. He has been keeping the baby on Saturday nights, when there is no scheduling conflict. I filed for child support b/c he said he didn't see any reason to help me out with housing,etc. So for the time being, we agreed he would pay 1/2 insurance and 1/2 daycare, which came to $90/week. At our first child support meeting, he refused to pay for the daycare, citing that he could keep the baby, and that it was unnecessary. So, now it goes to a master's hearing.

2007-05-29 17:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by vanindel 2

What does that give us? No hope basically! Yes, it says some work out, but it's likely they are trying to make us fear marriage and divorce. Everywhere I look there are people breaking up. I'm in a great marriage, but my Mom keeps on telling me that I won't love him in 5 years over and over again. My husband supports me mentally and he gives me great self esteem, something I never had before I met him. I think it's so wrong that people think that young marriage's don't last. I'm in it for the long run baby.

2007-05-29 17:29:43 · 8 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5

Okay, I won't break out into song... but if we have had a lot of bumps in our marriage...and I have contemplated leaving him after 10+ years... if I try to stay... how do I bring back that loving feeling? Can I ever really get that back... because it is not there like it used to be. Sure, i love him as the great father to my children. but when I look at him, my heart doesn't patter like it used to. I get annoyed easily with him. And, sometimes I just wonder if I'd be happier on my own. But, if I knew that I could have the heart patter with him again...I'd stay for sure. Can I get that back?

2007-05-29 17:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by Allison 2

Just curious.

2007-05-29 16:55:49 · 17 answers · asked by Alana 2

I have dated this guy for about 3 years or so. We have lived together for about 2 and a half years. We also have a one year old toddler. He hardly ever wants sex anymore. I don't know if it is our age difference or what. I have mentioned several things to him but he don't seem to be interested in nothing. What should i do to him. I am in desperit need of something. I am getting very cranky. Please help me to think of some things to do.

2007-05-29 16:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by TTC#2 4

I have not lived with my husband for over 6 yrs.I got married in Illinois,but I have lived in Georgia for last 6 yrs.Do I qualify for a quick easy divorce,possibly filing the papers my self?

2007-05-29 16:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by reneevaldosta 2

he has been gone three monthsand every couple of weeks or whenever he wants he just uses his key and says i cant change the locks until the divorce is over.is that true?i'm tired of his. surprise check ins.i live michigan

2007-05-29 15:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by carol m 1

he tried to hook up earlier at the party, and I kept telling him I was old enough to be his mother. Well to make a long story short, we ended up having sex in a car. I am freakin out as I don't want my husband or his wife to get hurt by our actions. I think we had unprotected sex, and when I got home I realized that this was during the time I ovulated, My husband and I can't have children something about our fluids don't like each other, I am scared, This guy is young enough to be my son, 19 years, I knew he was young, but not that young! What do I do if I get pregant, after all these years of wanting a baby, and if I am I hurt two people if I keep the baby, and ruin two marriage.

2007-05-29 15:31:15 · 22 answers · asked by lostinmo 1

my husband left me 4 weeks ago and is now with someone else (though they say they are just friends, they DO go on dates). I'm getting better and better by the day. I'm happier, smiling more, and full out enjoying life! I still have my moments of weakness and sadness, but overall, I'm very proud of myself for taking is better than I ever thought I could. Part of me thinks maybe the reason I have taken it SO well, is beacuse I have this GUT feeling, this all-over feeling, that he WILL come crawling back to me. he still loves me, he still cares about me, and he wants to be friends, and do things together with our daughter (zoo, beach, aquarium...). He's not giving me false hope, because at the same time he says, it will NEVER work between us again. But I've prayed and prayed to God about it, and I get such a comfort each time that my prayers will be answered. Anyone else ever had a gut feeling about a spouse returning and it turned out to be right? Should I listen to my "gut feeling"?

2007-05-29 15:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-29 14:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by stepmom of 1 2

He says if we did get married his dad would probably be okay with it but his mother would have 'some objection'? Do you think this would work out or should I just give up on it now?

Also: Some people have concerns that he is just trying to use me for various reasons (like a green card etc). It is hard to know this for sure, but of course who wants to believe that about someone they are beginning to care about?

We have been taking the relationship really slowly, no sex is involve which I think is really important... but I don't know if this is going to make a difference in how serious he is about me or not, anymore... We have only been dating 4 months but we have been talking about becoming 'serious' for a little while now, we just consider ourselves very good friends right now, or boyfriend/girlfriend in our own way, not the traditional 'Western' way.

2007-05-29 14:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous