Marriage & Divorce - 29 May 2007

Right now I'm dating a couple of ladies. Both of them are equally hot.

The problem is that it is getting increasingly difficult to keep this under wraps. Plus its also getting really expensive to entertain two ladies.

They have both met each other but they don't know that I'm dating the both of them at the same time.

Should I tie the knot with one of them soon or should I just keep living it up in the single life?

If I get married, I won't be able to date a few ladies at a time like I do now.

Maybe I should let the both of them move in with me....the possibilities are endless here. Think I can get away with it?

2007-05-29 08:36:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out that my boyfriend of two years was actually married and had another kid with his wife while we were together. This may sound stupid, but I really had no idea that he was married. They have another daughter who just turned six. When I found out he said that he loved me and that he would tell his wife it was over and that he would be with me. Its been a couple of months and he keeps saying that she's going to move out and he said that last week he talked to his daughter and told her the basic situation. So it seems as if he's moving things along, but I guess I don't know if I should continue to wait or just move on. Please no negative answers.

2007-05-29 08:31:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Gay Marriage? Why cant gay people get married?

2007-05-29 08:22:13 · 18 answers · asked by - 2

And no family to help she is all alone on getting this man out of her house she has 4 kids.she is divorced from him and has lost her licence so she only recieves child support as a income. He will not leave her house.

2007-05-29 08:18:49 · 15 answers · asked by Lady L 1

i've been with this girl for two years and i love her more that she can ever know. a year ago theres was nothing no one could tell meh about us. but know things hav e changed we have up & downs all the time, we don't call each other, and when we are togather we are fighting. that not how I want id to be. she works all the time now, and i do it move so we really never have time togather. i love her and we both don't want to leave so what could we do?
*thanks to all that replay*

2007-05-29 08:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 5 to 6 months ago I was having an affair with this guy that I met that lives in my neighborhood. We had a sexual relationship that lasted for about 3 months and we only did it 3 times. I was with this guy because Ive only had one partner my whole life and I was curious to be with another man. Anyway, I ended the sexual relationship with this guy and we remained friends. Lately, i have been getting the urge to be with him again, but only in a sexual way. The sex at home is near to once a week or none and Im bored. I dont want to continue to cheat, but Im tempted to go and see this guy again.My husband has no clue that I have cheated. I know that I shouldnt continue to be friends with this guy, but he turns me on so badly.. what would you do? What should I do? Should I go see him again or just leave it alone..

2007-05-29 08:12:34 · 39 answers · asked by its not that serious 2

2007-05-29 07:52:47 · 8 answers · asked by wang s 1

OK SO WE ARE DRIVING AROUND IN THE CITY OF BELLAIRE , TX LOOKING FOR MEXICAN RESTAURANT HE SAYS SERVES DELICIOUS FOOD. WELL ANY WAY MY BOYFRIEND SAID HE KNEW WHERE HE WAS GOING. THEN HE DECIDES TO TELL ME HE DOESNT KNOW WHERE WE ARE. SO LIKE DUMB ASSES WE GET LOST. I GET OFF AT A GAS STATION AND ASK FOR DIRECTIONS (JUST LIKE A WOMAN TO ASK). SO HEAR I AM TRYING TO FIND MY WAY. HE DOESNT SAY A WORD THE WHOLE TIME I AM GOING IN CIRCLES. COME TO FIND OUT HE KNEW EXACTLY WHERE HE WAS . HE JUST WANTED TO SEE WHAT I WOULD DO. I WAS SO MAD . I COMPLETELY BLEW UP ABOUT THE SITAUTION. HE SAID I WAS BLOWING IT OUT OF PROPORTION. I CERTAINTLY DONT THINK I WAS. WELL LET ME TELL I AM STILL UPSET ABOUT THIS. SHOULD I BE OR SHOULD I JUST LET THIS GO?

2007-05-29 07:51:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex wife has been in and out of relationships over the last 5 years she is currently separated from her husband and has a 2 year old daughter and a new boyfriend. My two children a girl 12 years and a son 9 years have been involved with other kids ranging from (10-18) who have been in trouble with the school and the police. I have been trying to get my kids out of that situation, however my ex wife continues to have have these troubled kids around mine. My kids also started picking up the bad habits like talking back, poor grades, and fighting in school, from those bad kids. Any advise? My ex wife will continue to have my children in harms way. I am seeking the consult of a lawyer to modifiy our divorce decree.

2007-05-29 07:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jerome M 3

Everyone keeps telling me to 'get out there' but I just want to be left alone to get my head round this. It has to stop some time?

2007-05-29 07:46:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a married woman that is miserable in my marriage and i have been seeing this man who is also married. we have been together for 3 years but we both cannot get out of these relationships that we are currently in. we love each other very much and i am willing to leave everything behind to be with him but i am not sure if he would do the same for me? why do men act like that? does he not feel anything for me?

2007-05-29 07:44:39 · 35 answers · asked by HEARTBOUND♥ 4

he wants to be free,for example wants to go to travel alone,go with his friends, and i am very alone,i havenot any friends who talk to them,i have to talk with myself because he doesnothave enough time,what must i do?

2007-05-29 07:44:18 · 2 answers · asked by elham s 1

I'm a student of law.I have a research about divorce in indea.but I'm not an indian & I dont live there,so I need your help.This is a small part of ,act 5 in marriage for hindu.Thanks for your help.

2007-05-29 07:41:57 · 3 answers · asked by maryam a 1

My husband can not stand my Dad. And every chance he gets he will cut my Dad down to me. Well I do defend my Dad, and my husband can't stand it. I mean he hates him. But hey he's my dad and I love him and so do his grandkids (2). My husband told me that I have to cut all ties with my parents or we are through. What do you do with that? I love my husband but I shouldn't have to give up my parents for him. Am I seeing this all wrong?

2007-05-29 07:41:16 · 40 answers · asked by baylees 3

My fiancee has a ex wife and they have no kids together and have been divorced since 2004.She wants him back but he said that he just talk with her about her kids that he raised for four years why they were married.She said that she divoced him for cheating,but he said that she was just insecure and very jealous. And i don't want him to feel like i'am acting like her at all! He is also such a good man to me and gives me and my daugther any thing we want.He's a christian man that i love and when he's not at work he is with me.Now let me tell you that i am 31 and he is 41. What makes me so mad is that she wiil call the house like 10 times a day for nothing and when i answer the phone she will hold it and then say nothing before hanging up.Now it's the little things that i hear being said in his conversation with her that makes me wonder what's going on!! I need to know should i trust and confine in him or should i give him his engagement ring back until i feel like i'am ready to go on?

2007-05-29 07:40:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women like to blame men for divorces, but they why younger women are willing to accept the role of throphy wives? aren't women their own worst enemy?

2007-05-29 07:34:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-29 07:33:32 · 14 answers · asked by jenn03 2

My husband and I separated last September due to his affair of 1 1/2 years. We have been trying to get our lives together and he has been begging to come home. He takes care of the house, etc and even stayed with me when I was sick.

My daughter and I decided to suprise him last night. We went to his apartment, his car was there but he didn't answer the door. I looked outside and saw his former mistress's car in the parking lot. I then knocked on his door and he still wouldn't answer. My daughter and I knocked for over an hour but he still wouldn't open the door and face me like an adult.

I don't know what to do about him. If he wants to come home, why is she still in his life? And what should I do about him? Our family has been torn apart and it hurts to know he's lying again.

2007-05-29 07:33:28 · 41 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

2007-05-29 07:29:07 · 18 answers · asked by gypman 1

I was involved with a married man for like 5 years. I started seeing someone else (unmarried) and the married man I was involved with became very upset and said I was cheating on him. Is it possible to cheat on someone you are having an affair with or does it just not make sense?

2007-05-29 07:25:54 · 57 answers · asked by deecee4ever 2

My husband and I have been married for 8 and half years. Lately it seems like we can't see eye to eye on anything. I think he's being unfair and He's think I'm a bully. I see little situations where he will get an attitude and I will let it slide by because I understand we are not always going to be happy with each, but then I will get an attitude about a similar situation and I don't get the same courtesy. Also he really can't stand to be around my Mother or Brother and complains every time they come over but we live next door to his mother and aside from the occasional annoyance I don't say much. He feels like his family helps us out more (which is true) so I should not complain when I feel like they are all up in our business. I guess I need to know is it me? Am I seeing things as too much of a competition between us? I love him very much and just want to get back to where we use to be.

2007-05-29 07:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl 3

i reminded him and he was like oh happy birthday. he said it like it was whatever or no big deal. his excuse for forgetting was that he was tired. now im so upset to the point of crying. so what should i do?

2007-05-29 07:10:06 · 75 answers · asked by rosey 2

When your man goes on business trips, do you trust him? Would it bother you if he was going to nude or topless clubs or renting porn? How would you know if he was actually doing these things?

2007-05-29 07:05:22 · 23 answers · asked by Just Me 2

When a girl writes an email and says, "I wanted to go to the bar last night but had no one to go with." And "I'll probably end up going to the movies with my friends.. I hate it, I always feel like the odd person out.." or "Going for a drink sounds good.. I might take you up on that one day"

Are those hints or just general conversation?? We talk through email, knew her from high school

2007-05-29 07:02:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

You had a sexual encounter with someone other than your mate and there is no chance in hell he/she would find out.. Do you tell or carry it to the grave???

My questions are all in fun. Just something to discuss. In no way is this a reflection of me and my marriage. Please do not reply telling me i'm a horrible person because this is just entertainment!

2007-05-29 07:01:57 · 29 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2

2007-05-29 06:59:42 · 3 answers · asked by ashley s 1

2007-05-29 06:59:03 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have an excellent relationship but since i had our first baby 2 months ago he has completely lost interest in me sexually and somewhat elsewhere, like he never talks to me about his day anymore. he doesnt even look at me the same way, it seems like he's looking at me in disgust now. im seriously at the end of my rope. we are able to have sex but he doesnt want to, we've been able for 3 weeks now and we've only had sex 2 times. i even tried using a lubricant and nada! what do i do...? any answers can be sent to my Yahoo messenger clown_luv05 or my Hotmail midnightangel05@hotmail.com

2007-05-29 06:56:47 · 21 answers · asked by nikki 1

I am 19 and my husband of 2 yrs just left me (were 2gether for 4) and i have a 2 yr old daughter. He says he just cant take the arguing (mostly over finances) and that he doesnt want to get divorced but that he doesnt want to be with me ne more. I gave up all my friends and family to be with him ( we moved 4 states away) and now i dont know what to do.

2007-05-29 06:33:47 · 15 answers · asked by :) 2

She seems to be a nice person, I just want better for my son. she has two kids by two diffrent dads and has never been married. One child is 11 and the other is 4. And she is my age. Not only that she is my age.

2007-05-29 06:24:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous