My ex wife has been in and out of relationships over the last 5 years she is currently separated from her husband and has a 2 year old daughter and a new boyfriend. My two children a girl 12 years and a son 9 years have been involved with other kids ranging from (10-18) who have been in trouble with the school and the police. I have been trying to get my kids out of that situation, however my ex wife continues to have have these troubled kids around mine. My kids also started picking up the bad habits like talking back, poor grades, and fighting in school, from those bad kids. Any advise? My ex wife will continue to have my children in harms way. I am seeking the consult of a lawyer to modifiy our divorce decree.
2007-05-29 07:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jerome M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely seek custody..What you should bring with you is records of how your kids grades have gone down and how they are getting into fights and been in trouble with the police since they have been with the mom..Then also show how your wife is unstable by relationship jumping..Also prove that you have been supporting the kids financially and they are in danger with the Mom and Boyfriend. That your children need stability in their life. Good Luck to you
2007-05-29 08:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by kelly c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well her being in and out of relationships is not your business. But if the blokes she has around your kids are bad men, then that is your business. All you can do is what you are doing, going to court. If she's unfit - be absolutely sure you can handle the kids on your own FIRST - then yes, get custody. But remember, it's supposed to be about the KIDS not about you or your ex wife.
2007-05-29 07:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It quite relies upon on all the circumstances of the custodial settlement. each and every so often one make certain gets sole custody, however the different remains allowed visitation. if so, the make certain with visitation rights ought to nevertheless be contributing to help the youngster(ren), because of the fact which ability they nevertheless have parental rights and are able to sometime win decrease back partial/a million/2/complete custody. it somewhat is my opinion, however, that the economic help that they make contributions be proportionate to the time they're allowed to pass to. although, if one make certain seeks sole custody, and needs the different make certain to sign away their parental rights to any visitation or destiny means to combat for even constrained custody, then confident, the make certain searching for sole custody ought to anticipate to absolutely help the youngster(ren) on his/her very own.
2016-10-06 06:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs ago i (mom) lost my kids, due to a fight with my x boyfriend. the state took my kids away. i lost my apartment no one wanted to help me i lived at a shelter for almost 3 yrs. i had visitation with my children 2x's a wk. for 2 yrs. i had this job for almost 3 yrs in nov. but to get back to ur ? FIGHT fight to get your kids it's going to be hard at first. but u need to fight and let them know that dad loves them and will fight to get them. now i have a home of my own with my 3 sons (Mengel-8, Julius-7, and Jullyon-4) and i fought after the lawyers and dept of children and families said that i will never get my kids again. Always remember to pray. you will get your kids back. Good Luck and take care.
2007-05-29 08:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by CRAZY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have no choice but to take this to an attorney. The situations your ex is putting your kids in is harmful and you should really have no trouble winning but document, document, document.
2007-05-29 08:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try, for the sake and wellbeing of the children.
Would be a nice wake up call for Mom.
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2007-05-29 07:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely worth talking to a lawyer about...
2007-05-29 07:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them and run
2007-05-29 07:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure thing you should
2007-05-29 07:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋