Marriage & Divorce - 29 May 2007

I got my GED by age 13. So I skipped high school. I graduated from college by age 17. I am now financially independent and own my own place. It sucks though I have to wait until my 3rd year in college to get my driver's permit. They have that 16 year old rule. Shouldn't I get my driver's license already by the 1st year of college? I don't have a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend, way too busy for my studies. So, how can I start looking for a girlfriend? in my job?

2007-05-29 04:40:54 · 7 answers · asked by Andy Y 1

I am 21 years old and my girlfriend is 14 years old. We met at college. She is an officially a college student, not high school. We've been dating each other for 6 months already. I am really much in love with her. She's in love with me too. She's going to be financially independent by 19-20. While with me, I have to wait until I am 24-25 to be financially independant. Do you think a 7 year gap is bad?

2007-05-29 04:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by Ken H 1

well my husband is a very rich man and i caught him cheating on me with 3 different women, i married him 15 years ago and we have 2 lovely children, he has backstabbed me and i really want to hurt him... he doesnt know that i know he's cheating... hell he is probably with one of his mistresses now... i just want to take half of his money... i dont really care about the money i just want to ruin his life... and dont tell me to confront him or move on or nothing like that... when u catch ur husband cheating on you and you want to go him back you wouldnt want someone telling u to move on... i just want to know how to get a prenup removed so i can divorce his *** and get half?

2007-05-29 04:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by jane s 1

2007-05-29 04:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-29 04:26:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife says she loves someone else but still loves me. She can't be with this other person for another 10 years as he is a prisoner she is a guard but says she is going there when he gets out. We have been married for 26 years and still get along great. So do i stick with her for the time being hoping she changes her mind or do i leave now and look for someone else.

2007-05-29 04:03:02 · 23 answers · asked by stan155 1

Me and my husband and our 2 kids live his mom and stepdad. My husband is away in Fl working when this happend and won't be back till 6/1. My husband has alot of anger towards him already. My husband is on probation so he can't get into anymore trouble. I know when he finds out he will really hurt him. and right now we have know where else to go.

2007-05-29 03:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by lips1220 1

im such a curious person

2007-05-29 03:49:30 · 17 answers · asked by laughing_stock 1

A friend of mine been with his GF for 4 yrs. Recently they started getting closer. He's baring his soul to her, showing her a side she's never seen. He's buying her an engagement ring, taking it to marriage. He's really INTO her & wants to marry her. He's stepping up his game but he told me he wants to prepare for the worst. He said, "what if she rejects my marriage proposal or things dont go as they SEEM like they're going to go?" I told him I dont see why she would reject him. She's been with him for 4 yrs, she's loving this "side" he's showing her now & she mentioned if they were married maybe they'd be living together. So why would she reject him now? I think he's just being scared.

They've never been together like this before either, so this is like a "new stage" in their relationship. I think its gonna be fine. But can that actually happen? Can someone all of a sudden "fall outta love" or "pull back" once the other one starts opening up & showing a deeper side?

2007-05-29 03:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by Lala 1

This is for my a.p. english class,we are doing a research paper

2007-05-29 03:45:27 · 22 answers · asked by brit 1

Hi, this may seem easy to you so my apologies...but I need help with the following. In short, my husband and I are taking our 2 kids on vacation. I have 3 nephews and nieces that are coming too. I just need to figure out based on the information below how much my sister would need to put in for her kids. Heres the breakdown.
Hotel room with just my family for 3 nights = $897. With her kids it would be $1257 for the larger room.
OK, the difference is $360. Should she pay me the $360 or is it $360 x 3 nights????? Also, as far as renting a minivan (we can't fit everyone in our car) do you think I should ask her to pay for half of the rental? What about food?
Any advice is appreciated, thanks to all.

2007-05-29 03:43:22 · 8 answers · asked by Angie 1

I went to some party, got drunk with my girlfriend, and the next day, my girlfriend didn't want to talk to me (it's not that I tried to have sex with her because we already do have sex). Everything was well before the party. There was no problems! How can I gain her trust again? I'm very much in love with her. She is the only person I went to? She said she hated me and didn't want to see me again and was very hurt. What can I do next time? I am really sad that my girlfriend said she hated me. I will do anything for her forgiveness.

2007-05-29 03:42:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to some party, got drunk with my girlfriend, and the next day, my girlfriend didn't want to talk to me (it's not that I tried to have sex with her because we already do have sex). Everything was well before the party. There was no problems! How can I gain her trust again? I'm very much in love with her. She is the only person I went to? She said she hated me and didn't want to see me again and was very hurt. What can I do next time? I am really sad that my girlfriend said she hated me. I will do anything for her forgiveness.

2007-05-29 03:41:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband and our 2kids live with his mom and stepdad. My husban can't stand his stepdad he has alot of anger towards him. My husband is on felony probation and can't get into trouble. and I know my husband will try to kill him. I really need the best way to tell him. Right know he is out of town till 6/1 . He was gone when this happened.

2007-05-29 03:37:22 · 24 answers · asked by lips1220 1

Does a woman have to change her eating, sleeping and overall life habits in a marriage?

I think that both partners should be able to bring things to the marriage and then form a new way of life.

Marriage is adjustment and compromise.

One person's wayh of life can not dominate the marriage orit is doomed to fail.

2007-05-29 03:33:24 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2007-05-29 03:32:49 · 189 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so loud during sex! I mean really loud. I sometimes get a sore throat because I am so loud. I can't really help it. It's just natural for me to be so loud and vocal during intercourse. I enjoy it and my husband enjoys it. It's fun. But the problem is, that I'm afraid that my neighbours can hear me! In fact, I once got a complaint a neighbour! I don't know what to do...I've tried not being loud, but the sounds just erupt out of me and my husband worries that he's not pleasing me when I'm not being loud. It's how I express pleasure! What do I do? Is it even a big deal? It's not like I'm ashamed of my sexuality. Does it really matter if my neighbours hear it?

2007-05-29 03:32:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've wanted them to get a divorce for years now (I'm 15). They fight constantly and my dad has left us 5 times now. He always came back saying how sorry he was. And my mother would always forgive him no matter what he did or how many names he had called her. Then they'd be back at it a few months later. Now it's finally happening. I don't know where we're going to go because my dad wants the house. And I know we aren't going to have anything but I can't help but feel beyond relieved!

But when your parents get a divorce your supposed to be upset right? So..Does it make me a bad person that I actually wanted this to happen?

2007-05-29 03:27:23 · 33 answers · asked by sky2435 1

2007-05-29 03:26:58 · 13 answers · asked by fari 1

Here is my case. My wife and I got married in 1998. Had my son who is 5 now. In 2005, i found out she had been cheating on me for a whole year w/ someone else. When I caught them she decided to move out. I still see my son because she lives close by. I have no physical prrof of what they did, but I do have witnesses. We never divorced or anything, we just seperated. We have a paper we wrote explaining that we have been seperated from each other since 2005, signed by a public notary, but that's it. She has no job right now, she is only recieving unemployment for now. Now she is w/ a new guy, who she has met for 5 months, and is now pregnant, I do not want my son to be in that type of enviroment. I live currently w/ my aunt, and I work a steady full time job. I pay for my sons clothing,food,day care, and anything else he may need.

2007-05-29 03:23:09 · 14 answers · asked by Antonio R 2

And she said there is nothing wrong as the wife can't give what the husband want. And thats her freedom to choose what she want in life.

2007-05-29 03:19:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We tried to encourage him to get his GED and to find a job. We even allowed him to stay in our home with the understanding that it was to try to help him! BIG mistake....he did NOTHING....my husband was at school, I was at work, my daughter was at school and he sat in our home, played video games,played on the internet, watched tv,ate and slept......not one thing around the house! EXCEPT impregnate my underage daughter....who thinks she is completely "in love" with this person who she "thinks" is going to be a GREAT father! We gave him a deadline to have a job by and when his time was up and my husband was taking him to the bus stop to send him back to North Carolina where he came from....they dropped the bombshell of a baby! I want my daughter to finish high school and go to college and we will be here for her and the baby through it all.....however he is NOT allowed back into our home! He seems to be VERY manipulative and has such a hold on her! Anyone else go through this?!!

2007-05-29 03:09:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

and it's not because I don't love my husband anymore or because our problems are soo big and unfixable that it's the only way. It's because he is unapproachable and our problems(however small they may be) never get discussed. Anytime I try to talk to him about things that need discussion it ends in a screaming match because of his HORRIBLE temper. I am mostly worried about my daughter(6 months) growing up around this shaky and angry situation. I hate to fight so most of the time I avoid topics that are extremely important just to keep from fighting.I have just became soo disgusted with his attitude that I dont even want to be loving with him anymore. I just am really needing a solution to this. I am very unhappy and see the only way to change it is to divorce since he wont be an active party in our lives. I didnt get married to get divorced and would love to work things out and stay together so any advice would be great. Have you experienced anything like this? If so, can you help me?

2007-05-29 03:03:54 · 18 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3

why does my husband tell me that he looks whooped in front of people when I say I want to drive? Why does he feel like I am making him less of a man when I say I want to drive?

I hate his driving, we have two small children and drives bad sometimes. AND he misses exits or doesn't know where he's going.

2007-05-29 02:57:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is stuck in a marriage where his spouse torutures him mentally and emotionally blackmails him using the kids. He is willing to end all this, however she is adamant not to give him either divorce or the custody of the kids. How does it work in this case? Can the man still apply for a divorce and also request custody of kids(both minor) citing the mother's psychologically disturbing behaviour? Please help, he is at his wits' end..

2007-05-29 02:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by iswaryam 1

2007-05-29 02:49:36 · 19 answers · asked by saosaoy56 1

2 years ago my hb & I seprated for 6 mths. During this time he had sex (if it can be called that on 3 occasions) with s/one else. He felt so guilty & dirty about what had happened that he could not tell me. (it came out when she let me kno 2 years after the evet!!! which was Jan this yr) He has come clean & admits that he had to mastubate himself to get an erection for about 10 mins and that the actual act only lasted for approx 30 seconds as he went flacid & did not ejaculate. He said that the experience was awful & that he was so angry with me he just did it to try & get one up on me as I was (IADMIT) so controlling and hurt him badly (no affair or anything on my part)What I want to know is does this sound right? If so, would it be down to guilt on his part?

2007-05-29 02:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by gooneress 1

Mine was a arranged marriage and there was lot of horoscope issue so was forced to marry a girl who i dint like(looks wise) very much..So i was worried very much to know wheather i done any thing wrong.But to my surprise i found that she had a very good character and veryyy loving nature and bit over possesive(thats ok with me).i am every thing to her.Some time i used to think if i married more pretty girl it would be better, but some time i think if she is pretty and not having a nice character or not loving my life will go for a toss.What you people say my decision was right or not,Thanks in advance for your beautiful answers.

2007-05-29 02:12:52 · 21 answers · asked by vipu s 1

Been married for 17 years, three kids,together for 25. The last 8 years of marriage awful. Lots of verbal abuse, physical when we were dating, only twice, while we were married in the last 5 years, punch holes in doors and walls, verbal abuse, walking on eggshells and making mine and my kids lives miserable. Saying some really nasty things. Beg to go to counceling 6 years ago, he wouldn't do it. Kept tellilng him that my feelings were changing everytime he would explode or do the verbal abuse thing. Still wouldn't go to counceling. I did wrong thing (I still feel guilty). I called my ex boyfriend from 27 years ago and yes, my first love. He was married & unhappy, well things happened and it has been 3 years we seen eachother off and on. Were found out, tried to work things out with spouses still couldn't keep away from eachother,even if only talking on the phone. Stil love him, w/ husband now, ex divorced now, but wants me. Husband is trying to change, what about my feelings?

2007-05-29 02:10:53 · 13 answers · asked by confused 1

My husband and I work together. We both make really good money so changing jobs is out of the question. We get along fine at work but he brings work home all the time. Its like his life is revolved around work. He is the director of transportation so he works crazy hours and I am doing EVERYTHING at home not to mention having a 4 yr old and 6 month old. I feel as though he is addicted to work. Ive talked to him about it and he says it will get better...but I feel like it is really wearing on our relationship...im getting worn out doing everything around the house and regarding our personal life. Any suggestions?

2007-05-29 01:27:54 · 30 answers · asked by JesseNevaehsMommy 3