Marriage & Divorce - 30 May 2007

2007-05-30 23:44:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 22:41:24 · 26 answers · asked by havah 2

We have known each other for 14 years and married for the last 5 years without children. Recently, he started being very disinterested in all activities, and he also didn't talk much at home. He also lost interest in sex and we have not made love for the last 3 months. I have tried repeatedly to talk to him to find out what's wrong. After numerous attempts, he told me that it had started since last year when he had dizzy spells and heartache problems. He consulted a psychatrist and it was identified that his root cause was due to his fear and constant worry about me being unhappy throughout these years. As such, he said that he had been very accomodating towards me. And he had find me very controlling and intrusive upon his personal space. But I really give him a lot of privacy. He locked his mobile phone and had his own personal drawer. I was heartbroken. Now, he had asked for a cool-off period for him and me to sort things out. Is he really telling the truth?

2007-05-30 21:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by Debucker 1

2007-05-30 21:13:13 · 10 answers · asked by Saravanan R 1

2007-05-30 20:59:06 · 16 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Please suggest.

We got married one year back. We both are Hindu. For the last few days I have noticed one strange thing. He started keeping his foreskin always pulled back (i.e his head is exposed all the times). When I asked he told he feels good with it.

I am curious to know whether it is normal. Will there be any side effects of his new habits.


WHAT ARE BENEFITS OF KEEPING FORESKIN ALWAYS PULLED BACK?

Thanks

2007-05-30 20:08:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in Iraq and I am staying with my MIL. I tried opening my mail on her computer and accidently logged onto my husbands as a password was saved. I was confused as I was looking and realized that it was his email and there was a letter to a woman and he had writter back while he was deployed. He signed it as "Love". I don't know what to do? Do I wait til he calls.. file for divorce? please help!

2007-05-30 19:40:35 · 31 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 2

My husband of 10 years made plans for a 2nd honeymoon for us. I thought it was sweet of him...at first. He made reservations at a hotel, and got flowers delivered to the room. When we arrived at the hotel, he went in to check us in, and took our luggage up to the room while he had me wait in the car with a blindfold on..because he had a surprise waiting in the room for me. He lead me to the hotel room. As soon as we entered the room, he told me to keep the blindfold on, and that he couldn't wait to make love with me. So he started to undress me, which I thought was really sexy-like the way he did it. I still had the blindfold on.....and he said he wanted me to keep it on the whole time, so I was surprised with each one of his moves. I agreed to it. After making love he took the blindfold off of me...and the surprise was 4 other men in the room VIDEO TAPING US! They played the video for me, at one point my hubby had the camera and one of the other guys was with me! YIKES!

2007-05-30 19:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems to be the only way I can get turned on...is there anyone out there the same way?

2007-05-30 18:30:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 18:28:37 · 32 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3

you go to bed @/sleep??

2007-05-30 18:20:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend was my bestfriend for 2 years before we started dating. I met him at 13 we started dating at almost 16, we are now both 20. He used to love me so much i am sure of this. However lately he is so distant from me, we never talk on the phone except for 5 min. conversations. He always chooses his friends over me, we only hang out for 1-3 hours the times we do hang out *once a week or so *. he only works weekends so it's not that he is busy in work. i confront him and ask him if he wants to break up, he says no. But his attitude seems like he is not into me or our relationship. Do you think maybe he just does not want to be the one who breaks up the relationship, we are teenage sweethearts, and he was my first in everything. Should i dump him?

2007-05-30 18:14:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sam 2

We don't sleep together or anything like that. We have told each other we don't even like the other one. So we don't argue any more. He knows I'll be moving soon. We speck, talk about regular things but that's all, we spend maybe 3 hours a day with each other, Do you think this is unusal?

2007-05-30 18:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to just make up a fake name and email address and flirt with him through email, but he found out. Now I want to try it again but need a better more hidden way of doing it. I am willing to do anything to see if he would even THINK about cheating on me if a woman wanted to have sex with him. What should I do?

2007-05-30 17:53:13 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I know my Dad is cheating on my Mom.
But I shouldn't tell her, and let her figure it out herself?
Cause it's her marriage not mine?

That's what yall said!
Is is true?

I just let her find out herself?

2007-05-30 17:52:11 · 18 answers · asked by jEfFeRsOnAiRpLaNe 3

2007-05-30 17:25:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I heard that married sex is the best.
I was raised in christian schools all my life and i feel as if i cannot have total enjoyment of sex until i am married... having gone to christian school all my life i have morals instilled in me that tell me i cannot be very loose in the bedroom unless i am married or something! i hate being so prude and am dying to let loose!

2007-05-30 17:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 6 years and have 2 kids, but now she just wants to fight all the time and im no longer happy,,,but I cant stand the thought of not sleeping in the same house every night with my kids...To sum it up, thats why I am with her at this point.

2007-05-30 17:18:20 · 11 answers · asked by Brandon H 1

2007-05-30 17:11:11 · 14 answers · asked by Amy C 1

that women should be much affectionate that men?? i believe personally that it should be give & take.. each other is the reflection of one another... women stays at home taking care of their family is much harder than working men outside the house.. what is the best answer here? help... thanks

2007-05-30 17:08:47 · 4 answers · asked by D_I_V_I_N_E 1

They have been divorced for at least 6 yrs now and his family still invites his ex wife to all their family dinners, weddings, funerals, and to be honest, it makes me feel like an outsider. I also am divorced and my family never would invite my ex husband to the family gatherings. He comes to the kids graduations and functions, but not to my families weddings etc...
She (the ex wife) shows up at everything. She has no qualms about bringing her husband and buying extravagant gifts for the grandkids which arent hers. She comes to the parties and makes herself right at home and they are all thrilled to have her come right along. She cheated and it makes me want to vomit. Maybe its just me, but I feel like maybe these step kids of hers needs to cut the rope.
I went to a dinner and about crapped when I looked at the table next to me and there she sat with her husband right next to her ex mother in law. Is it me? Is this normal or am I jealous and just dont realize it?

2007-05-30 17:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by happydawg 6

if someone wants to get a divorce but they currently dont have a job or any money at the moment , how do they go about filing for a divorce if they cannot afford a lawyer? is there any other way?

2007-05-30 16:56:31 · 13 answers · asked by Ladylck13 3

Hi all,
i m 24 ,he is 26.He is a north indian.I am a south indian.
We are working in the same MNC.We are financially stable and are realy confident about our relationship...
His parents have no problem with the marriage.
But my parents are dead against this.
Reasons:
1.different caste,different eating habits(i expl them it is not so..but they dont agree).
2.Their apprehension tht he will leave me and go later on in life.
3.i have a younger sister.if i do this marriage,it will affect in her marriage as she will not get good alliance.
4.if i do this marriage ,it will be a encouragement for my subling,cousins and future generations in our family ...
5.Also my parents are saying tht our relatives will cut all relations with them if i get married to him.
6.they have concern that his family may be good now,but after marriage they may change.
Also,
He met my dad and tried to convince him ,but he still sticks to these points and does not agree.
Kindly advise me how to convince

2007-05-30 16:43:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 16:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by yismo2 1

if so, automatically?

if not, what do i need to do?

2007-05-30 16:20:24 · 3 answers · asked by justcopyandpaste 1

I'm thinking a 7-11 or the dining area at a local truck stop.

2007-05-30 16:16:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

He plans to pay child support until his son graduates college. He plans on enrolling this fall. The question I have been wondering about is should he pay it to the son or to his ex wife? Do you think he should pay support until his son graduates college? How long should he give him to graduate?

2007-05-30 16:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by happydawg 6

2007-05-30 15:55:06 · 22 answers · asked by Darrell a 1

My friend's ex husband refuses to give back the child. He keeps making excuses to keep her longer. Can my friend take legal action? What can she do?

2007-05-30 15:49:19 · 18 answers · asked by draydraydajetplne 1

Say you were forced to be geographically apart for almost a year and you hubby(or wife) had an affair for 5-6 months and had sex probably 10-15 times, would you say this was a fling, long term affair, or would you say your spouse cheated on you 10-15 times....this is my case and I just dont know how to answer when someone asks what happened. I want to be honest, but I dont really feel like he cheated on me 10-15 times...I know this sounds crazy but just womdering how to look at it. Yes, I did forgive him, and we are now together and doing well, of course he had a lot of *** kissing to take care of before I felt like I could take him back, I had to make sure he was sincere in his remorse

2007-05-30 15:42:58 · 51 answers · asked by lil ol me 1