We don't sleep together or anything like that. We have told each other we don't even like the other one. So we don't argue any more. He knows I'll be moving soon. We speck, talk about regular things but that's all, we spend maybe 3 hours a day with each other, Do you think this is unusal?
2007-05-30 18:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not as unusual as one might initially think unfortunately. There are many marriages where the husbands and wives don't like each other any more. The difference in your marriage, I think, is that you have recognized that this situation is not a good one, and are getting yourself out of it. Many women stay in a marriage like this for years, and turn into very unhappy, bitter people. I admire you for starting a new life for yourself. I believe that if you are both unhappy in the marriage, that the best thing is to end it. Obviously, divorce should not be entered into lightly, but when there is nothing left of the friendship and love, it is the only solution. Good luck in starting your life over on your own.
2007-05-30 19:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it is a shame. You should be loving each other, building each other up. Trying not to find fault with each other, being tolerant and kind to each other, quick to forgive too. Giving and helping each other in all things. You have been joined together in marriage and you are now one. Treat each other well. You are on life's journey together. Read 1 Cor Chapter 13 in the Holy Bible it tells you what love is. You both would do well to read it.
2007-05-31 01:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably more common than any of us think. Where there is no like, there can be no love. You don't even have the emotions anymore, that's why you don't even argue, you don't care enough to. Good luck as you strike out on your own.
2007-05-31 01:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its happened,me and my husband lived together for a year,after ten yrs of marriage in the same situation untill i moved out with the kids.. then reality hit...
2007-05-31 01:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by yukd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no that's not usual!!!! Why even pretend anymore just get a divorce.
2007-05-31 01:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kidding right?
2007-05-31 01:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ron Burgundy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why in the heck are you two still married and going threw all that?
2007-05-31 02:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried counselling? I'll pray for you.
2007-05-31 01:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by Cee T 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
from my angle, this sounds like boredom. what exactly dont you like about him??? need more details....
2007-05-31 02:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unusual for whom? For me it would be very strange, but for you??????
2007-05-31 01:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by Randy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋