It seems to be the only way I can get turned on...is there anyone out there the same way?
2007-05-30 18:30:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh come on people! Quit telling me I need counseling! Is that your answer to every question you don't like or understand?
2007-05-30 18:43:31 · update #1
I love watching my husband with other women. He loves watching me with other women too. :)
2007-05-30 18:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Leather and Lace 7 · 4⤊ 5⤋
Watching Husband With Another Woman
2016-10-17 00:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I get super turned on watching my husband have sex with another woman. Is there something wrong with me?
It seems to be the only way I can get turned on...is there anyone out there the same way?
2015-08-18 18:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Minetta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think isaw a episode on Dr, Phil about something like this, he said that you can try it but not let it get out of hands. Now me personally i can't imagine seeing my love having sex with other woman. But you should see a terapist it may help you find why this is the only way you get excited!
2007-05-30 18:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Wilca NY 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you to get help, have acted on a fantasy or two myself, the only thing is and I will say this from experience. Once you put your man into the arms of another, you are taking that chance of a fire igniting between the two that you can not put out.If that happens then he might move on. Be careful I wish I'd kept my fantasies to myself or just in the bedroom between us. Good luck to you
2007-05-31 01:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by missy j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you.
I am the same way but slightly different. I get turned on about
having a 3some with me, husband, another woman.
But, I haven't done it yet. But, I'm planning too!
2007-05-30 19:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are bi-sexual and had been suppressing it. Obviously at some point you have to join in so you are bi. Why even get married though if you want to have promiscuous sex? I think that it is odd, so you have to look deeper within yourself to find out why.
Either your bi or you have low self esteem and maybe that's your way of making him feel pleased. (Not trying to be rude or anything. Its just an assessment. :)
~~~food for thought.....
2007-05-30 18:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This type of desire can only lead to the ruin and destruction of your marriage. There is a lot wrong with this disordered desire to see your husband have sex with another woman. You may get "turned on" now, but later your will get hurt. There is nothing cute about this sinful desire.
2007-05-30 18:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Brownie 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Don't listen to these uptight repressed people! If you are ok with it and he (obviously!!) is ok with it then who cares!! You are very secure with yourself and your marriage to be so ok with it. I am curious tho, has this ever caused any problems or argue ments? Any jealousy? And was this your idea or his? Personally I am a little insecure and so I keep those type of fantasies just that -fantasies. But we definately role play and pretend kinky things like that! Also do you just watch or do you join in ? DDO you mess with her too or are you hiding in a closet and she doesn't even know you are there?
2007-05-30 18:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by trixxxi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your husband is committing adultery if he is having sex with someone else. Yes, there is something wrong with you, it is the sin called lust. Don't go there the reward is not fun. You cheapen yourself. He should have no others when he is married to you. The marriage bed is sacred and no man or woman should put it assunder. What God has joined together should not be messed with. Your very soul is in danger, believe it!
2007-05-30 18:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I'm not going to say its weird, because I have fantasies about this very thing, though I love my husband more than anything... but, these are fantasies I have kept to myself.
2007-05-30 18:34:43 · answer #11 · answered by emtb9 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋