Marriage & Divorce - 30 May 2007

2007-05-30 02:13:27 · 3 answers · asked by dabeeo 1

2 wks ago, I broke down at my counsellors (I'm suffering post traumatic depression from childhood violence), she made an emergency app at docs who put me straight on anti-depressants. When I rang my boyfriend, he told me it was a nightmare going out with me, it's all in my head & I have no-one to blame but myself. So I dumped him. I then spent the next week begging him back, but to no avail. He's bullied me the whole way through our relationship, telling me I'm messed up in the head, that I'm embarrassing, bascially dampening my spirit and undermining my friendships. I'm v insecure, so this was very damaging 4me. No matter what my head says, my heart is missing him so much. I feel pathetic cos I know (&all our friends agree) that being with him has been destroying me. But I keep having bleak moments. Should I try and get him back? I want 2b everything to him, but felt I gave all that I had &it was just never enough. I feel like I'm never going to be enough for anyone :-(

2007-05-30 02:02:44 · 33 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3

My fiancee and I have been making plans to get our own place and finish up college together, as well as getting married in the next year or so. So after we come home from his brother's wedding (who is in the military), he's telling me he wants to enlist in the military. And this is making me INCREDIBLY upset. Not only do I not want anything to happen to him, I don't want that kind of life for my family. He's making me feel really guilty for feeling this way about it. Am I being selfish? Anything I can do?

2007-05-30 02:02:01 · 11 answers · asked by brainstewie 3

2007-05-30 01:35:41 · 32 answers · asked by ~Kim~ 6

2007-05-30 01:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by ahhhhhh 1

2007-05-30 01:18:13 · 27 answers · asked by olusoji olayinka o 1

How can I convince my wife to have sex with others? I would love to watch and participate with her and anyone else she would like to have sex with, but she is too conservative to even consider it. Can anyone give me some ideas as to how I could get her in some compromising situations where whe might follow through on my fantasies?

2007-05-30 00:47:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine was a arranged marriage and there was lot of horoscope issue so was forced to marry a girl who i dint like(looks wise) very much..So i was worried very much to know wheather i done any thing wrong.But to my surprise i found that she had a very good character and veryyy loving nature and bit over possesive(thats ok with me).i am every thing to her.Some time i used to think if i married more pretty girl it would be better, but some time i think if she is pretty and not having a nice character or not loving my life will go for a toss.What you people say my decision was right or not,Thanks in advance for your beautiful answers.

2007-05-30 00:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by vipu s 1

moved from a big city to a nice town with my wife and kids but carnt find any work its been 12 months now am going mad with out work thinking of moving back to city for work but kids love it here just dont no what to do for the best

2007-05-30 00:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by brian s 2

Before we were married, my husband cheated withh is ex and mother of his other 2 children (we have one child together). Since then of course i cant trust him with her so he hasnt been communicating with her for over 2 years. We have been using his mother as a neutral for the kids. Now we have moved away and he has to talk to his ex girlfriend in order to let the kids come way up to where we live. I am trying to give him space to do so. How can i make myself less anxious and give him room to communicate with her effectively?

2007-05-30 00:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a woe that can only be shared among guys.

I know old Tom for a long time, longer than the time we work together in our place of work. I got a job at the same company he works in and so we have been working together for a long time. He is a nice guy. We can get along well and he is honest and sincere. It is difficult to find a guy like him. Sometimes, we also share some of our problems together, problems our wives cannot solve and best not know. He has also been married for a long time. He has a seemingly wonderful wife and 5 kids. His kids have also all grown. His eldest girl is going to enter university shortly. His youngest girl is about to enter high school. It is the ideal family most people would want.

2007-05-30 00:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by Sleuth! 3