2007-05-30 01:18:13 · 27 answers · asked by olusoji olayinka o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hire a detective to follow her for at least 2 weeks...
2007-05-30 01:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask her first. If she refuses to give you a straight answer then that's a good sign. If you still feel she may be lying..check. Pay attention to what kind of underwear she wears, is she taking better care of herself? Does she ignore you? Avoiding sex? Going out without you more often? Does she have any new friends? Does she hide her purse? Does she shower as soon as she has come home? Check her cell and her pants pockets after she takes them off. Tap your home phone. You can buy something to do so at your local electronic store. Be your own P.I. But you really want to be certain that you know she's cheating before you accuse her.
FYI..I am often mad at my husband and don't talk to him much. I also go out w/o him and vice-versa b/c we don't have a sitter. With your gut feelings and multiple hints you should be able to figure this out. Sorry.
2007-05-30 08:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by ~Charity~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you the jealous paranoid type or is this something new for you to feel this way? If it's new for you to feel this way then it's probably true. I'm a P.I. and can tell you out of all the spouses/GF/BF cheating cases that I have investigated the majority and I do mean majority are cheating.
2007-05-30 08:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by SternFan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just like if a man was cheating, hiding the cell phone, taking calls in another room, not leaving her purse lying around, and getting all dressed up and staying out all night. Just to name a few. But ask her if you feel something isn't right.
2007-05-30 08:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are alot of signs that someone is cheating on you. I have been through it and divorced because of it. Does she come home late? Does she act like she wants nothing to do with you? I could go on and on before you spend all the money on a private investga. do some of your own.
2007-05-30 08:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything she does out of the ordinary is a sign. Whether it be trying to look sexier more than usual, buying expensive matching lingerie, showing lack of interest in bed with you. But remember to respect her privacy and not go through her phone bill or get Cheaters behind her butt because if suspected wrongly you could have your marriage at stake.
2007-05-30 08:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Windflower 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only ACTUAL way to know is to catch her in the act of something. Don't let what anyone else say's affect your thinking. Some people are out to cause trouble. I'm not sure if you're a jealous person (I admit I am) but if you are then you might be just imagining things that aren't there. Good Luck.
2007-05-30 08:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cujo's Mom 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dont listen to the others there being smart u dont need anyone warnings enough does she go with friends out change style atitude change dont give sex dress up making excuses phone off when calling her then u got ur answer
2007-05-30 08:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont for shure, unles you catch her. If you have a gut feeling then it is probily true. dose she stey out late? not come home at the usual time? have weird charges on the credit car? the reason why i know this is due to it happining tome. a few years ago. I had a gut feeling and shure enough, she was with a dude at work..... sux......
2007-05-30 08:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pretty underwear in the hamper that you can't figure out when she wore them because you didn't see them on her recently, and suddenly they are in the dirty pile.
Women always wear their nicer underwear when cheating, they bother to make sure their bras and panties match.
2007-05-30 08:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋