Marriage & Divorce - 30 May 2007

My husband is 31yrs old and im 23yrs old and he has just left home for like the 20th time. We still lived with my parents so im okay but his excuse is always that he doesnt have the energy to put up with the situation anymore whatever it is be it his job or me or the baby crying too loud(my baby is 11months old) he is always so angry about everything then chooses to blame me and my immaturity. i dont know what to do anymore i dont want to take him back anymore and i think maybe i need someone younger who understands me. by the way he already has a 5 yr old daughter what does he think? that he can just leave kids all over the US or what? My parents were right. what should i do now? i only make 9.50 an hr can i even survive on that? Please help

2007-05-30 11:11:49 · 23 answers · asked by Irma M 2

Ladies a silly Question?
Your waiting in line at a store when I cut in front of you. After kindly mentioning to me that you where in line first, I tell you, to go shove it.
You reach into your bag and pull out a small remote control. With a push of a button you shrink me down to the size of a bug. I look up and see you towering over me, with a devilish look in your eyes. I start to run. What would you do?

2007-05-30 11:08:23 · 26 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3

me and my bf have been together for 3 yrs.. the last yr we have lived together.. and everyone at work and some outside work .. keep asking us when were going to get married.. i was married twice and divorce twice.. he never married...he says he just aint the kind.. and i am not sure i am eighter.. how do you answers these people.. and most of the ones who ask have ran around on there spouses.. and now claiming to be such christians

2007-05-30 11:02:23 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7

just want to know how to put an end to it

2007-05-30 10:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by lisa e 1

I got divorce from my wife because it was impossible for us to reconcile our difference in personalities. I'm now depressed that how am I going to find someone who is as good or better than her in looks and in other respects. I want to know if it is O.K. to feel that way and what do I need to do to cope with this situation. Thanks.

2007-05-30 10:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 10:56:59 · 21 answers · asked by logical_jackieo 2

I am looking to relocate after a divorce and I have three kids. I am an african american woman, with a graduate degree in business. I am looking for a safe, cultural environment with great schools and great employment opportunities. I would like to eventualy be able to purchase a home as well. Any suggestions?

2007-05-30 10:51:09 · 16 answers · asked by Chipmunk 1

I love my husband very much. I know for sure that he is a man with no heart and a lot of ego. he is nice sometimes...and double the bad other times. every time we fight I feel like leaving him and going away. he feel the same when he fights with me. we both know that there is no understanding between us. we both think we are trying to understand each other but actually we are not.
nothing is working between us. our sex life sucks. i hate his ego and immaturity. he hates soo many things about me.
i take him as he is and try to be happy...but sometimes it gets too much and i start to think he is bossing over me.
at one time he follows indian culture...and american culture at other times.
but lately i noticed that americans care very much for family esp at old age.
its only we people having different culture coming to another country follow neither this or that culture.

what should we do? i am all confused. i dont have a job and i depend on my husband. i cannot concentrate on studies.

2007-05-30 10:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and hubby have been married 9yrs, we have been through deployments, although hard I can deal with him being gone thats part of his job it what he has to do, he came home a few days ago and asked if he could volunteer to go work the prison for a yr in Iraq, and I lost it, Its not that I don't want him to go. I'm afraid he won't come back.He navy and they really aren't trained for this. If he had to go it would be different but volunteering is the issue. I feel if I say yes hunny go ahead then I haven't done my part to keep him home and don't want to live with that guilt. why do I feel this way. please help. I support all that he does I'm just scared of being left to raise our 3 kids alone....

2007-05-30 10:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by tatsmom4ever 2

2007-05-30 10:40:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have lived with a girl for about 21/2 years now but sometimes i just cant stand it should i cheat on her if i have the chance

2007-05-30 10:38:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

my other 2 children are 16 y/o twins.

2007-05-30 10:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 10:35:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I kinda don't. I say, marry your own kind and that not being mean to other races but makes it easier on both families and future children. I guess I don't mind a Malaysian marrying an Indonesian or a American marrying a British or a Russian marrying a Australian. Even though those are all different cultures but they are the same race and ethicity. I HATE it when a Indian marrries a Caucasian, people who are totally different in race, ethncity and stuff like that.

2007-05-30 10:30:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a couple of months ago. I really loved him so much, I feel obviously very upset about the break up. We were together for 3 years. The thing is I told him that in order for me to move on, I need to have no contact with him. But he keeps telling me that he doesn't want to loose me completely just in case he changes his mind later. He said that if we stop all contact with each other, we might completely loose each other and there won't be any possibility to get back together in the future. He said that he is thinking of me every day and he is wondering if he has made the right decision or not. He says he just wants to be alone for now, to think about what he really wants. He said not to close the door on him completely. He said he doesn't want anyone. He said that he would hate to think I would go out with another guy. Today he texted me to say he misses me. What should I do? I love him and I really don't want anybody else? I thought he was the one for me?

2007-05-30 10:18:31 · 17 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

is it so difficult to get married first and having kids? or am I the one who is conservative?

2007-05-30 10:17:17 · 16 answers · asked by Tesco 3

my husband is in prison. we have no children. can i file uncontested divorce without an attorney. just get th forms at the court house and fill it up and file it and just pay for the court fee. i bought a house with his name 3 months ago while he was in prison.

2007-05-30 10:14:50 · 8 answers · asked by crislelesh@sbcglobal.net 1

My soon to be ex husband had an affair with a coworker while I was 5 months pregnant. He of course denies it and says they hooked up after he left...but everyone knows diffrent. He got her pregnant 2 months before I had my son...and know is engaged to her. He filed for divorce right after I had my baby. This woman knew I was pregnant,was his wife and didnt care! Not to mention she caused problems in our marriage years before and he swore not to ever talk with her again!

2007-05-30 10:12:15 · 21 answers · asked by Adi 1

I mean it is sooo bad I wouldn't even attend her funeral at this point.

2007-05-30 10:09:48 · 12 answers · asked by angie baby 2

2007-05-30 10:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've met someone elce and told my wife that i no longer love her and have fallen for someone elce. instead of throwing me out she says she will fight for me and we are having the best sex ever. feel trapped

2007-05-30 09:45:44 · 38 answers · asked by wings 1

I've been married over 20 years and they've been tumultuous to say the least. Each year, it gets worse and worse and worse. Accusations of me cheating, ugly name calling, more time spent with equally abusive friends than with me. He's very distant from his kids, so much so that there's barely a relationship at all between them. He doesn't do anything romantic with me. He doesn't spend anytime with me at all. He just watches TV. We show no affection whatsoever. He's also been unfaithful to me in the past. Just recently, e asked me to stay with him but I don't know why if he's not spending time with me, doesn't know me at all? Should I? Everytime someone asks me why I do, I say I feel bad for him because I know how he was brought up but is that enough of an excuse?

2007-05-30 09:43:00 · 19 answers · asked by Chap 1

My girlfriend who I have been with for a year doesn't want me to come to her sons birthday party. She doesn't want me to come because his father will be there and their divorce isn't final yet. She said this party is about her son and not about anything else. I love this little boy like my own son. I love his mother so much that I want to propose to her as soon as she is divorced. She said it will be a slap in the face to her husband because we were together before they seperated. I know this is his daddy but I don't know how she can just tell me I am not welcomed. I have helped plan this party and now I am not welcome. I don't know if I am asking for too much. I have a daughter and I would never stop her from coming to her birthday party no matter who was there or what the circumstances are. I don't know how to handles this situation...I love her and I love her son....but I have never felt so heartbroken in my life.

2007-05-30 09:37:20 · 39 answers · asked by mtjs06 1

My ex and I lived together for 4 years and i heard this was common law marriage ..but what is that??

2007-05-30 09:33:24 · 14 answers · asked by Reckless Redhead 2

man around me all of them are married i want a family for myself seriously tell me what should i do?

2007-05-30 09:23:15 · 10 answers · asked by me who dont know 2

Say my husband files and I contest the terms. So I then submit my terms. How would that be any different than If I filed and he contested the terms. And than submitted his terms.
Saying that either way I would be asking for the things.

2007-05-30 09:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an only child. My parents decided to split up. They want me to devide - with whom I want to live, where do I want to spend holidays and who will I choose... What should I do? Any ideas? I'm so sad, tired and... collapsed.

2007-05-30 09:12:58 · 38 answers · asked by vineeos 2

before anyone jumps down my throat on my question, please understand I haven't "dated" in 8 years ...

So my soon-to-be ex-husband told me today that his "mistress" parents and sister were in town 2 weekends ago, and he met them. Understand that I want my husband back more than anything, and please dont judge me for this. I'm trying so hard not to read into things too much, but I can't help it. Meeting the parents and sister seems like a bad sign for me when I want him back. I guess people introduce the person they are "seeing" to their parents all the time and it end up not working out. But in the back of my mind, i'm thinking why would she want to introduce him to her parents if it wasn't getting more serious? however, she DOES have a track record of going from guy to guy to guy to guy ... when she gets bored, she leaves them. any imput would be greatly appreciated. Please be nice, i'm already feeling really down right now.

2007-05-30 09:05:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend and I were talking the other day about our husbands, and opened up a lot. She told me that her husband is really big into porn, which I knew. Then she told me that he gets himself off while fantasizing of these women. Not only that she told me every time they have sex he is thinking of a woman that he knows, a few times it has been me. She said that I shouldn't let my husband fool me all men are like this. I asked my husband about it and he said that he hasn't ever fantasized of another woman while we are having sex, is he lying or is her husband just a perv?

2007-05-30 08:26:46 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

her husband constantly harps at her that he wants to be with her and another girl in the bed at the same time. My friend doesn't know what to think about her husband wanting to do this. Does it mean he isn't into her anymore? or she is too dull for him or what? Will he start liking the 2nd girl better than the wife if they do it once? Also, the husband doesnt know where to find a 2nd girl to put in there with him and her, its just always been a fantasy, so where would he even find someone to do that with him and her?? I have never thought about this situation, so I did not know what to tell her! Should my friend be mad at her husband for wanting this? Should my friend want to do this?? HELP??

2007-05-30 08:20:18 · 24 answers · asked by JJ 2