me and my bf have been together for 3 yrs.. the last yr we have lived together.. and everyone at work and some outside work .. keep asking us when were going to get married.. i was married twice and divorce twice.. he never married...he says he just aint the kind.. and i am not sure i am eighter.. how do you answers these people.. and most of the ones who ask have ran around on there spouses.. and now claiming to be such christians
2007-05-30 11:02:23 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell them you don't want to make the same mistake they did
2007-05-30 13:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll always be asked this question, so long as you aren't married. But don't get offended. Some people will ask out of interest, and others, out of curiosity.
Just politely tell them that you don't know when or if, but that if you ever do intend to get married, you'll let them know.
By wording it as such, it leaves this topic open ended. This way you aren't saying that you definitely will, or won't, be getting married.
2007-05-30 18:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are not getting married at all and they will stop asking. If they start preaching about living in sin, tell them to go look in the mirror if they feel the need to be judgemental.
2007-05-30 18:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"When the time is right" That's why I say I have been engaged for so long sometimes I wonder when a wedding is going to happen too but in the end it won't happen until I am really ready! So just be honest..when the time is right that's when you will take it to that level.
2007-05-30 18:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by ASHES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give them a lovely smile and tell the the twelfth, and walk away. Yeah, I agree about this Christian thing....a lot are hypocrites, but hey, they can sin, then ask for forgiveness like it never happened, them pretty good rules....lol
2007-05-30 18:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that if they are willing to pay for the wedding then you will get married.. until then tell them to mind their own business (my sister uses that line a lot)
2007-05-30 18:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "If we decide to marry, we'll let you know." My man and I went through the same thing, and once we finally did marry all we heard was, "When are you going to have kids?"
2007-05-30 18:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Urlacher Fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as you said: "i was married twice and divorce twice"
And add: "Gimme 6 good reasons why I should try a third"
2007-05-30 18:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you will be getting married on the first. When they ask the first of what, say the first chance I get. They'll get the hint.
2007-05-30 18:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them or just say "we're happy the way we are". No more is needed to indulge these gossip hounds. Just live as you have been and be happy.
2007-05-30 18:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋