i have lived with a girl for about 21/2 years now but sometimes i just cant stand it should i cheat on her if i have the chance
2007-05-30 10:38:41 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why cheat??? end the relationship and then u will not have to cheat...
2007-05-30 10:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by shaila211 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No sweetie ! If you are not happy with this girl then it is time to leave. She may be angry and hurt at first but in time she will be ok. She needs to understand that the problems are between the two of you. If she catches you cheating she will blame only that for the break up. Besides after all that's said and done and for all the times you shared together maybe you could one day still remain friends somehow. Also cheating on anyone in a relationship is very hard on a persons self esteem. Just respect one another and do the right thing first. Best wishes I hope all goes well for both of you.
2007-05-30 10:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Answer to that is always no - so she gets on your nerves, I'm sure that you get on hers too. Why don't you two talk about that and see where that conversation takes you, it'd be better than sneaking behind her back - and for what?! You two have 2 1/2 yrs together, but if you are just not feeling the living together situation, then maybe you should handle it maturely and come to terms on what you two are going to do. Would you want her to just cheat on you? If the answer is - you don't care, then it really should end.
2007-05-30 10:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
what kind of question is that? you're already thinking about doing, coming on here and waiting for someone to say go ahead is all you want.....would it bother you if she went out and cheated? all because she couldn't stand it anymore? if you want to cheat....break up with her to avoid giving her some bad disease that you'll wind up getting by cheating;;;
bluemist? that's the MOST ridiculous thing I've ever heard of. if someone is with-holding and you just cannot live without it...then leave that person and find someone that gives as much as you want. WELL I see that most of us have already received a thumbs down mark, knew you were looking for a big ole GO AHEAD and cheat........only a lying cheating coward cannot be big enough to say no or go on with life....
2007-05-30 10:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by sred 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldnt cheat, However you should break up. If you are even thinking about cheating you are not in real love. If you can't stand it why do you stay. We only have one life to live everyday should be lived to its fullest there is no reason to stay in a relationship if it does not bring you joy and happiness.
2007-05-30 10:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by D and G Gifts Etc 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO. Don't cheat on her. If you're getting bored of your relationship with her or aren't ready for a only-us commitment, then break up with her. You might think, "I could never break up with her, I love her and never want to lose her," and all that stuff, but how much do you love her if you're getting ideas about cheating? Would you like it if she cheated on you, if she "has the chance" to? Don't hold on to her if you're going to cheat on her. It isn't fair to her.
2007-05-30 10:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jade 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO! if you are that unhappy in your relationship then end it! No if's and's or but's! If you still love your gf then i suggest you stop thinking of trying to fix it by screwing it up more and cheating but by actually talking with her and working things out. It is never okay to cheat. Be responsible and actually do the right thing.
2007-05-30 10:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you should not cheat especially if you love her and if you don't love her quit wasting both of your time and move on. Relationships become rocky but if at the end of the day she's the one you want to be with for the rest of your life than why mess it up.
2007-05-30 10:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 23 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
then why stay with her if u can't stand it u need space i think u shouldn't cheat it would end up hurting u and her more and will problay come back and bite u in the butt.if it that bad between u to u need space and give it time. maybe it work out between u to.
2007-05-30 10:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by daisydolphinlover 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO. it breaks trust and any promises you made.
how would you like it if someone cheated on you???
i dont understand where people find the nerve to cheat on another person.
:(
2007-05-30 10:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by FishyQuestions 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Never!! If you don't wanna be with her break up with her! It's better than cheating on her!! It hurts to be cheated on! No one should feel that! Hope I could help!
2007-05-30 10:44:39 · answer #11 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋