Marriage & Divorce - 30 May 2007

My husbands father lives with us... my husband is very close to his father... well this happened this weekend... my husband left to work early saturday morning.... I never lock my bedroom door... well as i was sleeping my fil came in my bedroom lightly took of my top and started caressing.. kissing and s ucking my breasts.... but i liked it...cause hes hot!!! then he took my panties off and started giving me oral s e x!!! i liked it though... what should i do???

2007-05-30 08:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

a 4 year old girl when he was 14yrs old. they have been married for 15 years and have 4 children; ages 10, 7, 5 and 3. The mother went on a 3 day trip and caught him molesting the 7 year old. What do you think she should do?

2007-05-30 08:19:36 · 22 answers · asked by woptie 3

I've been married f/ 6 years. We have a daughter. My husband never left me for any reason until his mother past away recently. She left him money (checks for $1,400 mo.), which he's receiving for the rest of his life. I was the sole provider for the last 2 yrs. Not my choice. As soon as he received the first lump sum of $10K several mo.'s ago, he walked out on us. He claimed we fought much. He sais he needed a change. We separated f/ about 1.5 mo.'s. We got back together, but he was worse than b4 in behavior, attitude, etc. He was mean, abusive, arrogant, boastful, selfish/greedy to the extreme & deceiving. He did things that landed him in jail . When he got out, he ended up in jail again for the same things. B4 going to jail, he commited adultery w/ a prostitute at a massage parlor. He's been out for a few months. Since then he's been remorseful - begging me to let him come back. He has a job now. He says he will do whatever it takes to make it work. What do you think I should do?

2007-05-30 08:17:50 · 9 answers · asked by metalgods 4

well how can a wife make sure that her husband wont cheat on her?in other words...how she should act to prevent her husband from cheating?is this possible?

2007-05-30 08:12:08 · 72 answers · asked by caramella 1

my husband and i seperated after him cheating and getting someone pregnant i left him and moved 2000 miles away he moved down here so we could try to make it work for the kids but i see that i can not move past this i have a friend who is a guy we have talked about pursuing a relationship but my husband says if i do he is moving home and i dont want my kids to lose there father any advice?

2007-05-30 08:05:19 · 26 answers · asked by hcj25 2

i've been married for a little over 2 years and i might be confused but i dont think i'm attracted to my husband anymore. i never want to have sex with him. but i do sometimes because i'm afraid he will cheat on me. i love him very much. how do i make myself attracted myself to him again?

2007-05-30 08:04:59 · 13 answers · asked by wantoknow 1

I have been married for 4 years. Last year, my husband was caught having an 8 mos affair w/my cousin. The relationship w/her and I is over for good. I tried working on my marriage, until Monday. I opened his creditcard bill and saw that he has been renting hotel rooms, on weekdays. He said he put it in his name for somebody, then I went to the hotel for a print out and saw that he paid cash in March, and credit in April. Then on back in Feb. Now he is pissed at me and said I shouldn't have went through his mail, and to grow up and it's a shame he can't have privacy in his home. So we both agreed to end our marriage, and for him to move out. Then he asked me to give him $1,000 to help him move out. I told him H*ll no, he is leaving me with 3 kids, and no job (stay at home mom). I did everything, and gave him freedom. He said he is grown and can do what he wants on his free time, and that he does not owe me an explanation for anything b/c I should have never went thru his mail

2007-05-30 08:02:07 · 22 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

We got married in July 2006 and were happily married until October 8th 2006 when he came home late and said he wanted a divorce. It took me by complete surprise but after some time and healing we are friends. I would like to remain friends but we would also like to get this divorce finalized so we can get on with our own lives.

2007-05-30 08:00:48 · 2 answers · asked by psychoticxleo 1

but it's been almost 2 yrs that I've had s e x. should I plan the night, the whole candle and romance thing or should I just let things happen? If I hadn't stopped him the last time, we would have done it in his car....

2007-05-30 07:51:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 1 1/2 years to my wife. She is currently pregnant the baby is due in July and she has a daughter from a previous marriage that is 7. For about 1 year now i have been dealing with my wife's verbal abuse toward me and my family. She thinks we are all alcoholics cause we enjoy drinking on occasion. My wife calls my mother and father drunks and iresponsible along with me. SHe yells at the top of her lungs in front of her daughter and cusses like a salior, down grading me and my family. Last night i came home from work and got me a glass of wine. 5 minutes later she starts her yelling and slaps me good and hard across the face. Now all this happens in front of her daughter.
This is not the first time this has happened. Only 5 days ago she pulled the same thing in the car.
What do i do... i dont want to be around her and i am tired of walking on egg shells worried when she is going to go off.
Now i know this is not a good enviroment for her daughter.

2007-05-30 07:46:39 · 17 answers · asked by bigsaltydog11505 1

All the questions are about women who have children and their boyfriend doesn't want to get married now. Why are all these kids getting pregnant and THEN wanting to get married? What have I missed? Better yet, what have these kids missed?

2007-05-30 07:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by lady 5

i don't have much money to pay for the lawyer, is there a place that i can just go and settle a fixed child support with him?

2007-05-30 07:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by cathy 1

that you do not want a relationship w/him until he has all his stuff settled and he is off the rebound. He recently went through a divorce and I do not want to be his rebound, no matter how much I care about him and have known him for years. I want something serious and am smart enough to know that he isn't ready for that right now, but I know he is interested in me. I told him to give me a ring whenever he has kicked it, gotten everything out of his system, enjoyed the single male life, and got off the rebound. If he's happy, he's happy, and I am happy for him, but if he later down the road finds himself still thinking about me, I want him to call. Somehow this made me feel better b/c I do care about him, but was I wrong for telling the man this and letting him go just like that? Should I have handled this differently? I know that he has lots of qualities that I look for in a man, and that I would love to give it a shot, just not at this time.

2007-05-30 07:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by callie 1

I am going through a divorce and have a 2 month old. By law his father cannot take him overnight until he is three. But does that mean that he can only visit him at my home by law or does that mean he has the right to pick him up for a few hours and bring him back?

2007-05-30 07:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Adi 1

I believe it should be more difficult to get married and easy to get a divorce. Right now its easy to get married and hard to get divorced. At least if it is hard to get married by the time two people are ready to make that decision they should have found out one of two things: 1) I should not marry this person for whatever reason. 2) I still want to marry this person.

2007-05-30 07:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by soulsearcherofthetruth 3

men or women?

2007-05-30 07:28:25 · 11 answers · asked by memyslf&I 3

We were friends,we also kissed one night at his house,we had a fight and have not spoken for 3 months I am still in love with him and really miss him...and it gets worse we also had a business relationship at one time and he is one of my husbands friends...but for some reason ever sense we had a fight he has nothing to do with my husband????

2007-05-30 07:24:07 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah 1

What makes a woman think she can use her children as a weapon to hurt their father? I have a child from a previous relationship and no matter how much I hate his father, I have never used my child as a weapon. As long as the father was doing well in his life and was able to take care of my son, he had every chance to see him. Now on the flip side, i have two step-sons and their mother uses them in EVERY way possible to hurt my husband. They had problems and went their seperate ways, meaning, he left her. He didn't feel it was a good environment for the kids to hear the fighting or feel the tension between them. And it is all stupid stuff, like if they want their hair cut like dads, or an earring or basically anything they want to do to be like their dad, she degrades and says it is stupid or they don't want to look or act like him. (He pays his child support, has never been in trouble and is a very, very good father) She tries to take every shred of their father away from him

2007-05-30 07:12:29 · 10 answers · asked by livin'life 2

I want a child, she doesn't. I want to feel adored, if not by her, by a son or a daughter. If she adored me, I wouldn't care about being a dad. How do I get over this?

2007-05-30 07:01:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 07:00:36 · 37 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3

This goes along with my earlier questions... the guilt trip I get laid on me because he is broke because he has spent all his money and borrowed from pay day loan places, bankruptcy etc. etc. and he screams and yells for me to give him money back from the child support money... I am even lucky to get any money from him at all.. now it is garnished from his wages ... he threatens suicide,,,running on the lam etc. if I don't give him money... he makes me feel so bad because he always says "if I survive" meaning if I don't give it to him then and there and he has to go on for another week without cash...
He got himself into this mess... the kids don't have enough money as it is to cover everything never alone hand it back to him... this is backwards... He relys on me feeling bad etc. in order to keep being his bank and forwarding cash...
Has anyone else had to give money back???

2007-05-30 06:46:39 · 35 answers · asked by Realistic 1

This is just to clarify a bit.. I am new to this board so am not too familiar with how it all works yet... my husband does not have the girlfriend anymore ..he was the one calling her an alcoholic and whore etc etc... I used to actually chat with her and we got along fine.... but she did have some serious issues...

I have just called the kids family doctor and am awaiting a call back to see if I can get a referral for counselling for the kids and of course I will be there too... knowledge is power... will try to learn how to deal with this mess....

I have heard from his half sister that he goes to sleep when the kids are with him and or goes out to the coffee shop and takes quite awhile to return..leaving the kids with her ( when he lived there at the time ) and now that he is on his own he still goes to sleep and leaves the 10 yr old to watch the 9 and 4 year old until he wakes up...where is the supervision...

2007-05-30 06:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by Realistic 1

I Will Have Been Married For A year In June. My Husband Told Me Just Last Night That He Is Not In Love With Me Anymore. He Says That He Love But But Is Not In Love. He Wont File For Divorce But He Says I Can If I Want To. I Am So In Love With Him Even Though He Shows No Emmotion Towards me. He Says He Love His Ex Also And He Communicates More With Her Than With Me. I Do Not Want A Divorce And I Want To Try To Work On Our Marriage And Our Lives Together. What Do I Do. He Says That I Am The best Women He Has Ever Met And He Doesnt Want Me To Change That. He Doesnt Want Me To Touch Him At Night But He Holds Me Til HE Falls Asleep. It Is Driving Me Crazy. Divorce For Me Is Not An Option EVER! I Pray And Pray And It Gets Better For A While And Then Back To The Same Old Thing. I NEEEEED Help.What Do I Do. I Love Him SOOO Much.

2007-05-30 06:26:23 · 25 answers · asked by Nakia 2

for engine parts? Should I just coat them in WD-40 like I always have or try this Marvel Magic Oil that I just saw. My wife and I are rebuilding an engine.

2007-05-30 06:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I am a married woman for almost 2 years.... And ever since i had my child, it seems though my husband and i never really have any intimacy. He never brings up the subject and always tells me his problem is that he has a low sex drive. I really don't want to see it as we got married, we have a kid thats it for romance. But i would like if maybe some of you could share some light on this kind of problem. Maybe i am not the only one? We only have sex once a month... if even. Any suggestions on maybe how i could bring back my sex appeal?

2007-05-30 06:10:19 · 40 answers · asked by Yuki 2

A woman works 5 days a week and brings home a paycheck. Her spouse does all house chores, the food shopping, all cooking and cleaning. Is this an inequitable relationship because the woman's spouse doesn't bring home a paycheck?

2007-05-30 05:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by What I Say 3

OK my wonderful byf of 8 mo has a bit of a jealous streak. It is in no way out of control and he's very good about it. I never realized it because I never really had a very healthy relationship before, but I have a jealous streak as well. A few nights back, we went out together with some friends, he doesn't ignore me and he's okay with subtle signs of PDA & me too - nothing overboard. ANyways as we were leaving he ran into this woman he usto know and was chatting for about ten minutes and did not introduce me. I am sure that this woman is no threat at all & I am very confident in his love for me, but do men really do this. I was pretty jealous that he did not even introduce me to her & this is the first time it's happened, but I was surprised that I would feel this way & I don't know how to explain it or tell him how it made me feel, he knew I was jealous because I grabbed his hand and gave him a tug - so he knew, but whats up with it?

2007-05-30 05:56:17 · 9 answers · asked by martiek7 3

My husband and I went out to drink last night with some of his friends. After a few drinks we left to go to eat to a nearby place. Once there, I didn't want the food I ordered but his friends fruit plate started looking really yummy. So I ate out of his plate. When we got home, my hubby was pretty ticked off about what I did. He said eating off another man's plate was a slap on the face for him. What is up with that? Should I apologize? But about what?

2007-05-30 05:44:13 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my ex for 6 years, lived together 4 of those, and married about 9 months of those, no kids. Its been a year since the Divorce, but she was the one who cheated and left and I still miss and love her, is that normal? How long will it take to get past it, I date alot, but it doesn't help....

2007-05-30 05:39:35 · 15 answers · asked by Mfred 1

weekly

2007-05-30 05:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by J S 1