My husbands father lives with us... my husband is very close to his father... well this happened this weekend... my husband left to work early saturday morning.... I never lock my bedroom door... well as i was sleeping my fil came in my bedroom lightly took of my top and started caressing.. kissing and s ucking my breasts.... but i liked it...cause hes hot!!! then he took my panties off and started giving me oral s e x!!! i liked it though... what should i do???
2007-05-30 08:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well... i did stop him... i am the victim here.... i pushed him off of me... i need help.. not people critisizing me.
2007-05-30 08:44:28 · update #1
Go pray you sinner!
2007-05-30 08:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. First of all, you have to move OUT of that house, rent, live in a shelter, whatever, but get the HELL out of there, ASAP, live in a hotel, whatever.
Never ever tell your husband what happened. Stay away from his dad. We all sin. There is no better way of sending a man to the insane assylum than what you have just done. You potentially ruined your husband's life. A divorce will come if you don't move out right now.
You don't need to explain anything now. In two years, you can say that his father touched you inappropriately and you felt you couldn't live under the same roof. If you do it right now right away, move to your parents place, anywhere and fast, then it shows regret and you are serious about your marriage, so that he may forgive you if he finds out.
Believe me, if you stay in the same house, he will find out sooner or later by the way you guys move around each other, your faces, that something has changed. You better make it look like you think its a change for the worse. Then you can keep the love and eventually respect of your husband.
Then see a counseler, just yourself. Don't tell him why. If you later have problems, bring him there. Your counseler will tell you how to get around the problem, because believe me, after such a breach of trust, to prevent immenant divorce, your marriage needs professional help.
2007-05-30 08:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Madame Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extremely dangerous situation here.Dont let it happen again or youre asking for trouble beyond words and no telling what kind of trouble itll cause between your husband and his father. Start locking your doors and eliminate the temptation or youre going to be asking a reallegal question on here. Good luck
2007-05-30 08:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sick!! You have committed adultery, which is a sin and should feel horrible, even worse that it is your husband father!! How could you do that to your husband? You need to admit it to your husband and hopefully he will leave you!! He does not deserve to be cheated on like that!!! I just do not understand why people do not take there wedding vows sacred to their heart!! If you can not be faithful, why get married!! There is no point to it if you have sex with other men!!
2007-05-30 08:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you tell your father-in-law to get a new place to live or you pack your bags and leave that house. What a terrible thing for you and him to do to your husband. The fact that you allowed it to occur says alot about the kind of weirdo you really are.
2007-05-30 08:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help alright.STOP it right now. you know what happened is wrong.Did any of you think of what your husband might think about this.i don't think you needed to be told this. How would you feel if another woman did this with your husband. Give it up girl before you cause any more damage. Where are your Morales.
2007-05-30 08:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by eileen m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old man is a sick pervert and insane, but whats wrong with you? ofcourse getting orgasm is good, but who is giving? are you out of your mind?
You very well know that this is wrong, and you also feel guilty about it, you have to stop before it gets any further.
Let your husband know about it, he will then kick him out, and get rid of him, put an end to it, for once and for all.
2007-05-30 08:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Naaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all you need to tell your father in law never to do it again or you will tell your husband. if you tell your husband now, that will cause trouble between you and your husband too, because you let your father in law do it and didn't stop him. i think if you tell your father in law not to do it again, he will stop. if that is what you want. you keep saying that you liked it. you need to figure out what you want
2007-05-30 08:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by stacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is true, which I doubt ... kick out your father in law, tell your husband and hope for the miracle that he'll forgive you.
I sure know I wouldn't forgive my husband if he had sex with MY MOTHER.
2007-05-30 08:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband! A secret of such magnitude will not be easy to keep... Good Luck (really)
2007-05-30 08:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by pamprdwitpassion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your marriage to work....get him out of your house. It is soooo wrong to get involved with your father-in-law.
2007-05-30 08:22:52 · answer #11 · answered by Sue S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋