2007-05-30 07:00:36 · 37 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
person blows up and you then takes you to a nice dinner.. Person puts you down then takes you on a vacation..Person hits you then buys you a car......... but holds you as hostage never able to go out with your friends
2007-05-30 07:04:55 · update #1
I couldn't deal with it.. I would've left as soon as he said, "u can't go out with your friends". I can find another good looking and well off guy.. he's not the only one
2007-05-30 07:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by JuDyLicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! It doesn't matter if a person is well off financially, it still doesn't give that person the right to disrespect any one by talking so rudely.
It kills me how some people feel like they can talk to people that way just b/c they are living the high life. Nothing wrong with it, don't get me wrong. But there is a proper way to treat men and women of the world today. As far as verbal abuse, how about giving that person a taste of his/her own medicine.
On top of that, when ya ugly towards your fellow man, that is when the good lord will take it away too. That person has been blessed with something special but it is up to him/her to do something about their mouth.
I wouldn't stand for it. My husband is not wealthy and neither am I but I will be darn if I will allow him to talk to me any kind of way whether he was rich or not. That is just the way it is. End of discussion. Stand up for yourself regardless of how good looking he/she is.
2007-05-30 07:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! I was in a marriage for almost six years and I put up with it till I finally woke up and realized I deserved better. No person should put up with being verbally abused.
When a person is verbally abused it puts their self-esteem at an all time low to where they think they aren't good enough. No person should be made to feel this way.
A lot of things can happen to a person who is verbally abused. It can make that person start thinking horrible things not only to the person who is abusing them but also to themselves.
When I was being verbally abused I felt lower than dirt. Like I wasn't a real person. I began to feel like I deserved it till I realized that I didn't. I knew I deserved better not only for myself but also for my children (he never verbally abused them).
I am now remarried to a wonderful man who treats me with the respect that I deserve. He has adopted my two children from my previous marriage and they adore him.
2007-05-30 07:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because the guy is going to keep on verbally abusing you and try flower you with gifts each time he verbally abuse you. the abuse is going to continuous. you need to put a stop to the abuse do not let the abuse be continuous in the relationship leave him or try to work things out with each other.
2007-05-30 07:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Carebear22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on you should know this. Money is not everything. Yes it can buy you your material things, but at the end of the day can you really say that you love this person. Apparently not or you wouldn't be asking this question. If you truly love someone there are no questions.
2007-05-30 07:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by rebekah g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Verbal "abuse" is a buzz word that weak minded and spineless people use to victimize themselves. Unless someone is making threats of death or violence, anything else is just WORDS! Get over it! Say something back!
Verbal abuse is nothing more then a BS term invented by divorce lawyers to attempt to get more money out of a divorce settlement!
2007-05-30 07:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Steve J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope... Why? Being well off financially and good looking are the not even the bare minimum requirements for a relationship with me. You better be those plus charming, fun, intelligent, generous and good in bed, too.
2007-05-30 07:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO
Never take any kind of abuse. It can lead to psychological problems which can lead to medical problems. You are God's human; you deserve love, respect, kindness, decency.
Good looking people will turn ugly and money runs out. Do NOT put yourself up for sale. Good luck!
2007-05-30 07:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by BeautifulGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question, because I've been there and done that, and sad to say....many times I'd say to myself, "But he's so sexy....maybe he'll change some day"....
The answer is NO. You can be beautiful on the outside, but if the inside is rotten, you are STILL ugly.
I'd rather be with someone average who loved me to death, than to be with a "model" that treated me like crap.
Happiness is a lot deeper than looks.
2007-05-30 07:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt even be able to enjoy all the fun stuff after being put through the abuse.
2007-05-30 07:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋