but it's been almost 2 yrs that I've had s e x. should I plan the night, the whole candle and romance thing or should I just let things happen? If I hadn't stopped him the last time, we would have done it in his car....
2007-05-30 07:51:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's been 2 yrs because I was in the midldle of a divorce
2007-05-30 07:54:03 · update #1
ewww Pu s sy reamer your nasty!!! LOL
2007-05-30 07:56:41 · update #2
I would just let it happen, as spontaneity is also wonderful
2007-05-30 07:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have ya'll been seeing each other BEFORE the Divorce???? If you two click Passionionatly then hey whats the problem? You can tell by the kissing if its that time and I think candles and soft or sultry music would be nice. A chilled bottle of wine maybe? I'd even go buy me a cute nightie or teddy to slip into after an hour or so socializing depending on if you two are eating out OR eating in if you get my drift???? Giving him that "SPECIAL" look and seeing his response would be a turn on for me and that would be my que to slip into something more comfortable. Get some of that super glide stuff too.
2007-05-30 08:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is like riding a bike-you never forget how to do it(no pun intended). Don't plan anything, just let the moment overtake and be spontaneous. Don't let the first time for this relationship be in a car though and remember protection.
2007-05-30 07:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want candles and romance, go for it. Men don't particularly care about candles and romance, but he'll appreciate the fact that it screams 'sure thing' at him.
He'd probably be just as happy or happier of you just stood up, turned around, dropped your pants and bent over.
Cause we're just _that_ romantic.
2007-05-30 07:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what is more your style, do you have to have the "romantic" setting, or is letting it progress naturally more in tune with your preferences. I personally think if you are nervous, just letting things happen without the staged setting would make it a little easier.
2007-05-30 07:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by 32nkikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't plan it. I can't emphasize that enough. It seems like when you plan for a romantic evening and have everything mapped out, you also have expectations. When those expectations are not met, you feel sad and confused like you did something wrong. Let it happen, it will be just as wonderful if not better.
2007-05-30 07:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. After my divorce, I went without for almost 2 years as well. I dated a woman 2x before we had sex. She knew my situation and wanted to give it to me as badly as I wanted it. It was a great time. Just go 4 it!
2007-05-30 07:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by swissrmeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being sexless for so long I should hope you wouldnt want to give it up in a car. Plan something cool. Use the car later (smile)
2007-05-30 07:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The car is not the place. Back to his place is best. that way you can see how he lives. If he cooks you a romantic meal that is a plus. I only cook for those woman that show promise.
Bob
2007-05-30 13:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, forget the romance stuff. Make things happen, sweetie. Then jump on him and have some fun!
2007-05-30 12:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't go as far as doing the whole candle thing but i also wouldn't jump on him when he walks through the door....let it just happen (maybe have a little something ready to put on when you "have to go get something")
2007-05-30 07:55:31 · answer #11 · answered by sxyitlngrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋