well how can a wife make sure that her husband wont cheat on her?in other words...how she should act to prevent her husband from cheating?is this possible?
2007-05-30 08:12:08 · 72 answers · asked by caramella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course not, no more then you can guarantee a wife won't cheat.
2007-05-30 08:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by spjp p 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are no guarantees.
I have known and know women that have been so called good wives. And still the husbands have cheated. The same thing has happened to some men. Right now I don't plan on cheating. But if something better then what I have shows up. I would. This is coming from a female.
2007-05-30 08:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't guarantee. But you can drive him away.
The secret to success in any relationship is to make sure it stays fun for both of you. This is where I'd insert the comment about lots of sex, but really it's the whole relationship. If you still go out and do things together, if you're supportive of each other's interests and hobbies, if you can laugh and joke, if you feel you make each other happy - then things will stay good.
Probably the first and best route to this is communication. Be able to tell each other if something bothers you, and if he tells you some things you do that bother him, then don't let it get you upset, work it out.
Secondly, don't let things get tired and boring. I think for everything - sex and other parts of the relationship - getting into a rut is going to make him want to look for something different and new (that he thinks is better).
But - it's a 2-way street. If he can't do the same for you, then he's a jerk and all bets are off.
2007-05-30 08:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of ways to act to prevent your husband from cheating. But first you had to have picked a good man in the first place, when women look for a man a lot of them do not know what qualities to look for, but if you take you time a pick well this will lower the chances because you haven't just gone with anyone.
BUT if you are already marride they are a few things I can suggest.
Give a man his space and not be the jealous type
Have trust in your man
In your mind you have to be the best you can be and if he does end up cheating on you, just know that it was on him and you are more deservent of a better man in your life. And plus anyone who cheats on your shows that the realtionship was not meant to be, so this helps you to find someone who will be the right one for you!
2007-05-30 08:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by massimocomparetto 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some cases a woman can cause a man to rethink his comittment - but a man cheats because he makes one compromise after another. Even if a woman is an absolute bag and treats him like junk - that is still no excuse for him to step outside the marriage. If his marriage is so bad a man should divorce and THEN see another woman. There isn't anything you can do to GUARANTEE he doesn't cheat - but make your marriage something he looks forward to being a part of. Other then that it's up to him to remain faithful.
2007-05-30 08:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it stinks, there's never a guarantee. Just the same way a man can't ever "guarantee" his wife won't cheat on him. Sure, there are plenty of people who DON'T cheat. And there's nothing you can do to prevent him from EVER cheating. You just have to trust him, he must trust you and both of you have to do your best to always keep one another happy, mentally, emotionally and physically. That's your best bet for staying faithful.
2007-05-30 08:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(1) love him and SHOW it in all the little things
(2) respect him, don't berate him even when you disagree. Don't embarass him in front of his peers or buddies.
(3) give the "marital due" as the scriptures call it. and do it for the pleasure of it not because it's something he wants. Learn to enjoy it if you don't already. and don't be stingy with it. make time for it and do it well.
(4) give him his space without distancing yourself from him.
(5) Trust him
(6) do not give him reason to distrust you
Even then, there is not GUARANTEE he won't stray. But those things are what I call "how to be a good wife" advice. The same kinds of things apply for a man to be a good husband too.
2007-05-30 08:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's important to ask trust worthy. You want to trust him right? You want him to be faithful and not cheat, right? So act accordingly. Act as if. As if you trust him, as if you don't expect or suspect he's cheating or will cheat. As if he's the best husband and you are the best wife in the world. Don't nag or accuse. Do investigate suspicious behaviors and don't play the fool, but don't confront him unless you have clandestine proof. Now, this is what I think will help, but I don't always do it myself. I'm learning, I'm trying to be more trusting and I'm trying to act as if. I think there is nothing you can do that will guarantee his fidelity - because you can't control him. But what you can do is control you and your outlook and your own actions. Good luck (to us all).
2007-05-30 08:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees in life (well, death and taxes). That's what trust is. If one party is going to cheat it's going to happen. It doesn't matter how pretty, attentive, and good you are. It happens. You can't control other people's thoughts and feelings. So, no it's not possible to keep someone from cheating on you. Worrying about it is lost energy. Deal with it if and when it happens.
2007-05-30 08:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by lesmodee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do to keep your husband from cheating on you. Even making sure he's 100% "satisfied" won't guarantee that he won't cheat. I've known some guys who want the best of both worlds....they were happily married, but still wanted "more."
2007-05-30 08:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by jel959801 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Act like herself he married her for a reason, she should stay true to the marriage. It is not possible to prevent a man from cheating without making yourself miserable, so be yourself and if he cheats it has to do with himself not the wife.
2007-05-30 08:22:41 · answer #11 · answered by Shylia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋