Marriage & Divorce - 30 May 2007

I resently got a phone call from an old friend. She said she was chatting on myspace and seen pictures of my children. My husband went threw the trouble to set up a seperate/secret e-mail address and logs onto myspace. I confronted him, he said he only goes onto that cite to talk to his old guy buddies. He said he didn't say anything to me about chatting with friends because he knows I over react. What should I take this as?I was upset because I feel he was hidding something from me. Also, I didn't care for my children's pics on myspace!

2007-05-30 15:32:33 · 21 answers · asked by kaylaandcam 2

My husband is a very very attractive man, women have flirted with him in front of my face, but I try not to show my jealousy.. I just laugh.. but, inside I am thinking of taking off there face with my fingernails.. anyways... my husband is very loveable to me and tells me that he adores me and that he would never cheat on me ...that he is complete with me and that he has everything he ever wanted.. my question is .. that since women flirt too much with him.. can he fall in temptation?? I mean.. women have gone up to him and told him.. you don't know what I'd do to you in bed.... that does not concern me cause I fill him in every aspect.. but, can he fall into temptation... what can I do so that this does not happen?

2007-05-30 15:25:37 · 36 answers · asked by ; ) 4

My husband is emotionally distant lately. I am 5 months pregnant with our first child together. He has 3 by a ex g/f i have one by ex b/f neither of which are in the picture. When we got married all was well, he and I got along great all the kids got along great. I know the love is there, even now I tell him and he tells me. I have no idea why he suddenly became distant from me. I take on everything at home since hes the working one. i left him once b/c drugs, he quit doing it when we got bk together. Now hes "stressed out" and I cant figure out why. He used to talk to me about anything, now i ask questions and I get "dont know what your talking about". Now I have left him for the second time b/c he doesnt tell me whats on his mind so i can help him get through it. His kids call me mom and my kid calls him dad. How do I get him to open up to me?

2007-05-30 15:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by pchristine84 1

He always go on line looked at other woman picture to see then he write them lellter. How he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them if they realy with him. He dosn't know that I have read all his mail also I found his pass word some where around the computer, so I go in and read everything.

2007-05-30 15:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by bobo 1

I have known and been friends with this man for 10 years I had no idea he would be violent, he's 46 never been married, no children. At first every thing was great we share loads of interests but one day I was gardening {his garden!} when he arrived home from work no meal was ready, this was only 5pm and he slapped me I was so shocked and upset I actually went and cooked dinner and thats how it's stayed I do all sorts to try to not upset him and I try to be good but seem to fail, he dosen't always hit me but he can make me feel useless and can sulk for days at a stretch, reading this makes me feel pathetic, why can't I just walk away? I have my own house so we dont live together, I feel worthless.

2007-05-30 14:54:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made a few mistakes and told my fience's family some concerns of mine. He took off to his moms, after I said these things, and has been there for a month. This is technically his apartment and he has not been home. I love him so much but do not know what to do. He will not return my phone calls and I am only allowed to call his mom's once a day and before six. What do I do? His family said that they would call the police if I stepped foot on there property. I have no idea what is going on. Can someone help me

2007-05-30 14:42:29 · 13 answers · asked by Elicia 1

2007-05-30 14:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by e_man909 1

I have been married almost 5yrs. I have a 13yr. old son from a previous marriage and now I have a 4yr old girl from my current marriage. I know the damage it did to my son and I don't want to get another divorce but there is no love in my marriage. My husband and son can't get along for 5min. and I am tired of being in the middle. I have tried counseling for myself but that isn't going to change their relationship. I made a mistake getting married but wouldnt give up my daughter for the world.

2007-05-30 14:29:56 · 16 answers · asked by tate64 1

2007-05-30 14:04:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

can guys be happy with what they have? my husband and i have a daughter,10 months old, but he always wants to leave me.he even filed for divorce once.he always seems to come back to me.any ideas on why he would do this?

2007-05-30 13:51:47 · 16 answers · asked by icyheart1411 3

my wife and i have been 2gether for 9 years and have 2 wonderful kids.we love eachother very much and our sex life is amazing.she decidedrecently she loves women and wants 2 b with a women.she feels that is what is missing 2 make her complete.we have had a 3some once before but i feel her feelings go deeper.my wife has had a very traumatic life growing up with men being sexually abused.my wife does not want to lose me she tells me i saved her life with the love i give her.she has moved out but we talk every day and she still loves me.we cry alot dont sleep and dont eat.this is tearing both of us apart and we are going to seek councelling.i dont know if our lifestyle has helped out much.we have lesbian friends and i talk alot about seeing her with another woman.she is talking to a girl about this who wants my wife and has told her she is a lesbian married 2 a man please give me some thoughts

2007-05-30 13:33:49 · 30 answers · asked by josh s 1

Okay going back to my 1st question. The guy is married! The one that stares at me. I know it doesn't matter if anybody is married cause their still going to look, but he not only stares, but flirts with me and Im scared that our boss will find out cause she is his wife. I don't know if I should quit my job or what? HELP

2007-05-30 13:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

bf has told me for 3yrs he is not the marring kind.. i have been marreid twice the first time is was because hiw mommy asksed us to the second was so i could have kids.. now i am starting to think it is not him that is not the marryihg kind ... but me.. what do u think

2007-05-30 12:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by vis 7

My ex-boyfriend only calls when he wants me to go somewhere with him or want me to do something for him.

2007-05-30 12:43:20 · 13 answers · asked by cute&wild 1

My wife feels that I am being immature. I had scheduled an appointment with the mechanic to have my car looked at in the morning. Later during the day my wife asked me if she could make an appointment with her doctor (who's office is exactly 11minutes by WALK) and that I would give her a ride in my car. She doesn't have a car yet. She got her appointment. The same evening I realized that I had forgotten the car appointment and just assumed that since the doc's office is only 11 minutes by walk, she won't mind walking. Since this is a new doctor, she doesn't really know where the office is. When I told her she has to walk as my car will be at the shop, she became upset. She started coming with reasons that she doesn't think the doctor is really 10-11 minutes by walk. I tried convincing her many times. I told her that she was being stubborn and that i know for a fact it is 10 minutes. To prove my point, I walked to the office right then. I was back home in less than 25 mintues.

2007-05-30 12:24:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before we met i was on drugs, and got myself a few gigs in porn movies, my hubby doesnt know about it, but he knows about my former drug use. he loves me so much, and I cant tell him, but sometimes i feel like i want to, just so i wodnt have any secrets.
Do you think every relationship has secrets, some secrets better never to be revealed or what? I wasnt myself when i did it, i know i wouldnt do it if i wasnt on drugs.

2007-05-30 12:11:33 · 36 answers · asked by just me 2

if my man gets 1400.00 a month and we end up breaking up and i put child support on him around how much would i receive for my 7 month old
and also would i get more as she gets older or less

2007-05-30 12:04:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

what happens to the car loan if one spouse dies

2007-05-30 12:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by jacklee 1

2007-05-30 11:59:53 · 24 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

I live in Houston TX. and would like to change my last name. Is there a specific place I have to go to do this? where?
or what is the process I need to take to do so?

2007-05-30 11:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by sweetness_n_passion 2

2007-05-30 11:44:50 · 10 answers · asked by maldonadoleny 1

getting married to woman with children

2007-05-30 11:44:25 · 34 answers · asked by truckstopkid 1

I have been dating this guy for about a year now, and wants to plan a future with me. Since we have been dating he made me aware that he smokes weed on occasion and I told him that was not something that I like and he told me that he would quit and express that he wants to quit smoking for himself because he knows that it is bad for him. Just recently he has confessed that he does it to relax after a hard day or he has a drink but I coming to see that this is happing more and more...I am concerned and expressed it to him how it makes me feel, he never does it in front of me but I can tell when he is high (sometimes) or he will confess to me that he did and I get so angry that we argue, I relized that this was not healthy and I made a desision to nt fighting, I do realize this is a choice he wants but since he has admitted that he has a problem with this and wants to change I don't know how to support him or what I can do without fighting about it. I love him & want this to work

2007-05-30 11:42:54 · 39 answers · asked by Mya 2

2007-05-30 11:33:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby & I havving married for almost 5 yrs.. Ever since we have had a good relationship in & out of bed too..we have 3 kids (6,2 & 4month baby) and we have enjoy our intimacy by playing games , spening time alone & much more but lately when we make love he says that I'm not in to it , cuz I am always tired .I told him that maybe is because so much stress that I have I wake up every day at 6:15 to clean the house while kids are sleeping then star 2 get ready 2 work @ 7:30(work full time M-F 9- 6 pm)after work I pick up the kids & get home spend time with them, dinner, shower, homework and by 91/2 they get have 2 be in bed, then I prepare lunch 4 next day & hubby arrives 4rm work(10pm)by 11:30 i'm in bed tired & with no desired ,that's why I think is stress besides I wake up in the middle of the nigth 2 feed my baby!!I do laundry only on Saturday's & Sunday I wake up at 8am.. Can this be the problem? What do you think? Any advices on what 2 do or not do?? THANKS:)

2007-05-30 11:32:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-30 11:31:46 · 12 answers · asked by zOe 1

most people blame 'the other woman', but in my opinion she is the least be blame, the most to be blamed is the wife and the husband, firstly, the wife and husband have problems which they can't resolve or don't want to resolve, secondly the husband should divorce the wife and then find another woman but he is too scared to change. what do you think?

2007-05-30 11:31:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 5 years been divorced for 1. It's been just me and my son till 6 months ago, and then I met a wonderful, loving, caring man. Who my son also adores! He’s wonderful with my son. My lease is coming up and we've talked about moving in together. I just hope it's not too soon and that we living together won't ruin our great relationship. I guess my past just has me spooked a little. I had no doubt in my mind till my cousin started with it’s to soon thing. But I know I've never felt this way in my life and I can say I’m truly in love with him and I know he loves me! Just want some opinions!

2007-05-30 11:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am on social assistance waiting for ODSP -PENSION but my worker is a HORRIBLE DOES NOT CARE YELLS AT ME SCREAMS IS IT POSSIBLE I CHANGE HER AND HOW ?

2007-05-30 11:28:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son got into a car accident at the age of 23. He had been married for 4 months. It's been 5 years and his wife wants to get a divorce. She says she can't stay married to him anymore because she found someone new. She says she can't continue to stay married to someone who will never be able to have a family with her. How can I stop this? I know in enough time my son will be better! He will be able to everyday things, but until then, we all must be united. If she divorces him.....it would ruin everything.

2007-05-30 11:17:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous