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My husband is a very very attractive man, women have flirted with him in front of my face, but I try not to show my jealousy.. I just laugh.. but, inside I am thinking of taking off there face with my fingernails.. anyways... my husband is very loveable to me and tells me that he adores me and that he would never cheat on me ...that he is complete with me and that he has everything he ever wanted.. my question is .. that since women flirt too much with him.. can he fall in temptation?? I mean.. women have gone up to him and told him.. you don't know what I'd do to you in bed.... that does not concern me cause I fill him in every aspect.. but, can he fall into temptation... what can I do so that this does not happen?

Answer 1

You can keep that from happening as long as you continue to communicate and keep him happy.

Answer 2

There is nothing really you can do to stop your husband from cheating, if that is what he was going to do. The only thing that will stop him from cheating is the type of person he is. So you really have to put your trust in him, and believe that he loves you, and only you. That is a major part of being together right? You can't blame him for the behavior of these women, that is something that is out of his control. And if you start, it might put a wall up between you two, and then maybe he might think. "Hell, she already thinks I'm doing it, so why not do it". Don't drive yourself crazy over somthing that has not happened. If it does, It would not be because of something you had done. Which is an excusse that many men use as to why they cheat. Good luck

Answer 3

There is nothing you can do really.
Just never start nagging at him, it's not his fault. Don't create an unhappy situation.
If he ever falls for another girl, then that was bound to happen anyway. Whether he is popular or not.
Just ignore and make him happy.

The thing is, I'm in the same situation. I'm a ex model, 6.4, athletic, etc, etc... Girls flirt with me no matter who is standing beside me. Sometimes a bit awkward. Also gay men are always bothering me. I can have a **** night at a club or pub just because I can't look anywhere or some girl or gayguy is making eyes at me.

I am single nowadays. But I used to be with the 'love of my life' for many years, and then I was totally not interested in anybody else. In all those years I didn't even look at other girls. But she was jealous and accused me of doing so. It got so bad that we split up. She is still convinced that I had others, but I never did!!!!!

Just be happy......

Answer 4

At first was going to go on with a long explanation. But, deep down you know the answer. I get hit on all the time (as well as my husband) and always make sure that my guy realizes I am with him b/c he is the one I love and want to be with. I also cut the flirtation short by telling them that I have a significant other in my life. If I can, I introduce them to my better half. If a girl is saying this stuff to your husband in front of you, your husband needs to step up to bat and give you a sensuous kiss right then and there. Best of luck.

Answer 5

Does your husband flirt back? or does he tell them that he already has a loveable wife and that he is not interested in them? I think if he flirts back you should be concern. If he doesn't say anything to them and just smile, you should also be concern. A real man that truly loves his girl will tell those women that he is not interested because he has already have a loveable wife. Good Luck and best of wishes!

Answer 6

I had a similiar incident with my spouse. He too is very attractive to women. I have had women to flirt, or admire him in my presence. I felt a little jealous at first. But you know what? At the end of the day I realized he was coming home with me. I had to smile in relief. I would suggest you always stay attractive to your husband. You know what attracted him to you, and always remember that. If he expressed he is complete with you then let that be, don't read into the situation deeper just except that. I would also suggest that you check where your insecurities are coming from. Did he do something to make you feel insecure? If so express these things to him in a pleasant way. Remember one last thing: Your husband and yourself will always be attracted to someone other than you. Just think of your favorite celeb. And don't you sometimes just melt at the sight of them. If its someone that you think you might be attracted to other than your spouse, then express them to him. Even if its a celeb playfully express your feelings to your husband and believe me they get a kick out of it. My husband goes wild if I tell him I'm attracted to another man, or if I say hey honey, you know so-and-so is cute to me. My husband will then say: Oh really, well he ain't got nothin' on me. And I'll say you know what hon, your're right come over here and give me a kiss, and he'll go No Way! Go find that other guy you were just talking about, and I'll say Honey you know I don't want anybody else but you. And we will end the night just flirting away with one another. So to answer your question: Depending on how deep you and your husband's committment to one another is, he will not cheat. Whenever I find out that another women is attracted to my husband it actually draws me closer to him. It makes me love him deeper, and makes me 1000 times more attracted to him, because no matter how cute another women is, he still has me, as his wife.

Answer 7

NOTHING!...if he is the type to stray he will....you can't try being the perfect wife forever so stop it...that can be a bore for the both of you...oh and ugly people and averagel looking people stray too...you must talk to your husband a lot about your insecurities in order for him to have to tell all that stuff you just wrote about...it's cute an all but THAT can become a pain in the a** to deal with...stop acting so jealous and paranoid...that could start to wear on him too....a marriage is based on trust....and one would hope that whatever made either person fall in love with the other. and get married.stays true to that for life...unfortunately it doesn't always happen....however you cant' spend your whole life and marriage worrying about what could happen...I mean for Gods sake the world could end in 10 years...maybe...so are you going to waste the next 10 years worrying or nagging or being afraid to breathe because IT MAY HAPPEN....that is ridiculous...LIVE YOUR LIFE....and those women...where are you when that happens?..I mean that is nerve...those bitc***...is it at clubs or a social?..stay away for awhile..go away for a weekend just to feel alive again...and you know what..you can get your point across without looking like a nut or a jealous or desperate wife....when those women who have the nerve to do that in front of your face do it again...don't just laugh and take it...that's why they probably still do it....your acting like it's ok by doing that...if they are that ignorant to do it then you need to be that assertive (not agressive) and say something like "You know Alison that may have been cute maybe the first 20 times you've done that but you know what it's old now so games over..."....or how about.."You know what ALison...just last night when my husband and I were in bed...we had this very talk about why you and some other women do this....and for the life of us neither of us can understand why some women act so desperate and forward like that? I mean you can go to town on this ...have fun...I think I'd let my husband know ahead of time so he doesn't feel uncomfortable or mad he was the center of attention in a bad way..i mean maybe it helps him feel good about himself but you need to talk to him in private about how he needs to realize you have feeling about this and you want it to stop...how would he feel if it was you it was happening to?...oh strike that..most men get off on that!...but what it all comes down to is respect from everyone involved...tell him you are not going to stand aside of him anymore and take it like some doormat....if a woman says its again you could also say "Honey I stroke his Ivories just fine so don't you worry you don't have to"....and you can smile and walk away...go get a drink or something...just don't make him run to you like a puppet...take a timeout after that...practice...

Answer 8

So long as you and your husband are in love and committed to the marriage, there isn't anything these "whores" can say to him that will tempt him. And he probably recognizes how cheap and classless they are.

Unless you can stop every woman from flirting with your husband, there isn't much you can do to take temptation out of his way. However, you can continue loving him and treating him well, and reminding him that you want to make him happy and please him, and that you would never tolerate any cheating in the marriage.

Answer 9

No matter how satisfied you keep him, no matter how many good meals you make, if a man wants to cheat he will, there are times when we as woman may send a man out there to cheat with nagging ways, and holding out because of whatever but remember, you are the lady that he chose to marry and make the covenant vowel to, not them, know that he's human just as you. But when a man knows he has a pleasant home to come home to and a supporting wife grateful wife inside of it, why would he even want to go window shopping let alone shopping

Answer 10

You already know the answer because you answered it with your on words.:) the biggest thing is that you trust him because if you start to punish him for what they do then he will feel hopeless. Of course you can fall into temptation anyone can. But think about this if he indulges and falls outside that line than you don't want a guy like that in your life because obviously your faithful to him and that is something you cherish. Anything outside that line and you don't deserve them. But if you don't trust now then you'll blame yourself later. You fullfill him cherish and meditate on that. Hope this helps.

Answer 11

He has chosen to love you. All the other women are green with envy and it doesnt matter what they say, if he trully loves you then he will never be tempted. Although, if a woman came up to my man and blatently said something suggestive to him in front of me, I would be telling her where to go....thats just plain rude.

When I was younger I was a very attractive and desirable young woman. Men would always be flirting with me...always wanted to date me. It was my choice who I wanted to date and my choice who I fell in love with. Unfortunately good looks can have a real downside because while you genuinely love the guy, the guy is seeing the attentions other men give you and that can be very offputting for someone who has insecurities. I have been accused of cheating, flirting, you name it when none of that was true. I cant help the way I was born. I cant help being attractive and I am certainly not going to make myself ugly just so I can please an insecure man. I know who I love and I need to be trusted. I dont care how many men find me attractive or who make sexual suggestions to me....it will always be my choice if I find that person attractive. I am currently in a committed relationship. My man is always telling me how attractive I am and I could have any man I wanted. I am getting sick of hearing it...no joke. I just want to love my man without him thinking I am going to leave him for someone else. I am the same as anyone else....I can love deeply.....I am a one-man woman.....I have never cheated in my life. I was a wonderful wife to my ex-husband, but the things he was accusing me of was based entirely on his insecurities.

What I am trying to say is that just because your man is very handsome and women find him attractive, doesnt mean he cant be in a committed relationship. I am a freindly person, and I am attractive to boot....that doesnt mean I am going to run off with the first person who shows interest. I know how to love a man and I have never been tempted by the admiring glances or attention from other men....its good for my ego...buts thats it. I need to be trusted......I dont want my man to feel jealous or insecure, as Im sure your man doesnt want you to feel. He loves you....trust in that fact.