He always go on line looked at other woman picture to see then he write them lellter. How he wanted to spend the rest of his life with them if they realy with him. He dosn't know that I have read all his mail also I found his pass word some where around the computer, so I go in and read everything.
2007-05-30 15:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by bobo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to ask him about it.
2007-05-30 15:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I feel u I'm going to the same thing right now. What u need to do is ask him, if he denied everything is because he know he are doing something wrong then if u want let him know that u know his password, believe me he will be very surprise and is all in u if u want to trust him again. Another thing is to ask him if he e-mail any woman if he said no then wait for a very nasty massage in then let him know. Good Luck!
2007-05-30 15:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get copies of these letters printed off and then get them stored away, or give them to a friend for safe-keeping. Then confront him with what you know, perhaps show him a second copy of the stuff. If he quits, and works on earning your trust again, wonderful. If he continues, then you at least have some proof of his bad behavior if you choose to pursue a divorce.
2007-05-30 16:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by I39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie first of all your husband is playing head games to those girls that he sees on line, he have this low self esteem that if he doesn't brag it makes him feel low or down. Why don't you talk to him, and tell him that one of your girlfriend met him on line,see what he will say. Or you can just tell him that you know what his been doing behind your back. Say say all the things that you need to tell him before he move to the second base to one of those girls........your husband can and might do the worst thing that us wives is been going through..affair!!
2007-05-30 15:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me myself would think he,s totally in sane. Kind of like a stalker . But hey to each there own .People do some insane sh*t on on line things they would not normally do in real life .
Well good luck.
2007-05-30 15:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a cheater on your hands. Whether it's just emotional infidelity or he has followed up on any of his invites or not will need to be investigated. I would print them our or forward them to a email address for permanent storage. You may have a divorce case on your hands. Good luck.
2007-05-30 15:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by c r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends.
If you respect yourself a TINY bit you will do something about it...like going to therapy and finding out why you are tolerating this behavior.
If you don't respect yourself, you will continue to read his mail and know that he is an idiot.
Your choice.
2007-05-30 15:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... sounds like your husband wants out of the relationship. I'm not sure if this is just a sign of him wanting out... or a strong desire/fantasy of his that he just wants. internet is an avenue for people to act out their fetishes and fantasies... doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you or anything. It could be just the adreneline rush and the attention that makes him do it.
I think y'all should seek conselling... just to figure out what the situation is.
If it is he does not want the marraige... then I'm afraid there's not much you can do
2007-05-30 15:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should be ashamed for snooping in his stuff. Second, get away from him -- he's leading a double life, and you should get out while you can. Let him find 'love,' if that's what he's looking for -- and YOU find it too, for real this time. Good luck!
2007-05-30 15:18:56 · answer #9 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I strongly suggest marriage counseling.
2007-05-30 15:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by coolmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on...he may be one of those men who have wives or women all over...
2007-05-30 15:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by Brenda E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋