bf has told me for 3yrs he is not the marring kind.. i have been marreid twice the first time is was because hiw mommy asksed us to the second was so i could have kids.. now i am starting to think it is not him that is not the marryihg kind ... but me.. what do u think
2007-05-30 12:56:47 · 11 answers · asked by vis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am drinking so i worded it wrong...my first hubby mom ask us to so we did and within the yr we split.. the second time around i did it because i wanted kids...
2007-05-30 13:08:39 · update #1
good point dad just wondering what everyone else take in things are
2007-05-30 13:10:05 · update #2
btw for the one that said i will get knock up so he can marry me.. i am fixed.. and more fincally stanble then he is.. yeah i spelll badly
2007-05-30 13:11:37 · update #3
i just wonder if i am the kind .. drinking dose that to me.. makes me start thinking that maybe i should steer clear of such thing. and yeah bf drinks more than i do at time
2007-05-30 13:14:35 · update #4
and saint there was no cash involved .. my ex walked away with it all expect for the child.. which he gladly gave up for the home..
2007-05-30 13:16:14 · update #5
good point june bug
2007-05-30 13:17:08 · update #6
big mouth ... we both stay that way.. tank. maybe that is why we are the way we are.. r think the way we do..lol
2007-05-30 13:29:07 · update #7
and no big mouth i am on sure on that.. somes times yes sometimes no
2007-05-30 13:30:39 · update #8
uhm.....okay. put down the liquor, sister. you make no frickin' sense...
maybe you are looking in the wrong places.
who says you have to be married to be happy anyway?
are you convinced that this is the guy that you want to spend the REST OF ETERNITY with?
think long and hard about your decisions.
and stop trying to make them while you are tanked. it never works out.
2007-05-30 13:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes people are in such a hurry to love and be love they get in relationships with out knowing the other person very well. For lots of different reasons and leave just as suddenly as it started. It doesnt make you the not marring kind its just something that happens and you just need to slow down and wait for the right one.
2007-05-30 20:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was married twice to so i have been there and did that just like you . Whats the point of marring if your happy with the way things are now . Why spoil a good thing that's all the last marriages did.
2007-05-30 20:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't bother getting married, you are doing it for all the wrong reasons!
The only reason to get married is for LOVE! You may as well just live with them and then when you are tired of them you can move on.
No wonder our divorce rate is so high.
2007-05-30 20:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it so easy for you to decide on divorce what the hell is the point in getting married are you doing it for cash or do you hang the certificates like some kind of qualification
2007-05-30 20:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by saint_of_sinners_1967 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just another woman that will get knocked up so your bf will marry you.
Uh hello he TOLD YOU he does not want to marry!!!!!!!
Did you say you married because someone's mom told you to?
2007-05-30 20:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think once you come back to your natural state,
and leave the liquor alone, you will be able to think
straight. Therefore I'll hold my thoughts until then.
2007-05-30 22:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy!
Be number one!
You don't need a headache to tell you your beautiful.
2007-05-30 20:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if neither of you is the marrying kind, then it doesn't matter, does it ?
2007-05-30 20:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Tweety 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AA give it a shot.
2007-05-30 22:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋