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Okay going back to my 1st question. The guy is married! The one that stares at me. I know it doesn't matter if anybody is married cause their still going to look, but he not only stares, but flirts with me and Im scared that our boss will find out cause she is his wife. I don't know if I should quit my job or what? HELP

2007-05-30 13:27:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

18 answers

Quit.
Leave,...asap.
Here's why,.....
If you don't do him he will get you fired.
If you do him he will get you fired.
No do, he gets pissy.
Do do, he gets nervous and gets the ol'e lady to fire your ***. He'll contrive a reason to get you out and you'll never know about it til it is too late. Then what do you do,...tell her you have been banging her husband?
THAT will get your job back for sure right?
Get away from him.
Never do married men.
They cannot afford to leave and probably don't want to.
Get another job asap.
Then go find a boyfriend who is great big and wants only you.

2007-05-30 15:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Marriage is like a hard job that pays well. If you put a lot into it, it goes well and it is fun. If you goof off, people get angry with you - and you risk getting fired. You are RIGHT about the sex part being hard. However after 20 years I like sex with my wife as much as ever. We just do it a little less often than in the beginning. The first ten years we average maybe 5 times a week. Now 2 times a week. But each time is good to great. I think for her also - I sure try to make it that way. Never cheated. Hopefully :) :) never will. 1. Marry someone you are attracted to or sex will be something you avoid and you will both be miserable. 2. Stay in shape/stay in shape/etc. Or find a guy who doesn't mind overweight women. And there are many guys like that. However - sorry for this but it is true - most better educated/higher income guys do not like heavy women. Don't know why that is just the way it is. 3. Marry someone who is adventurous and fun and ideally funny. Lets face it those factors are part of the bedroom experience. 4. Marry someone who makes an effort to bring you to cl***x every time. Some people end up in sexless marriages - if that happened to me I would either have open affairs - I would not hide affairs if my wife would not sleep with me - or get divorce. How some men live without sex is a mystery to me.

2016-05-17 08:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Dont let anybody else determine what you do with your job / life. If SHE is your boss, and HE is not, then tell him to get a life, wake up and stop flirting with you. He cant fire you.

It might be best to even approach his wife (the boss) and mention this so after you give him what for, he doesnt go running to her and tell her a story that'll get you fired.

If nothing has eventuated other than flirting, perhaps you should just turn the other way, forget it and let it go.
Either way you've gotten yourself into a tricky situation, good luck with it!

2007-05-30 14:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just do your job and ignore this guy you don't have to look back and if he's flirting just ignore him. Yes this can cause you problems cause he may try to get you introuble with the boss but you need to record his flirting you could be sitting pretty after a sexual harrasment charge against him if they try to fire you.

2007-05-30 13:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0 0

Remember you could get a sexual disease, like herpes.

Beware, some one else could know of your silent admirer.

If I were you, I would NOTE everything that has happened, and IF there were witnesses to back you up.

Am just thinking that this might be a dam good job, and that you don't want to leave it.Plus, remember this, a new job might not have insurance(benifits).
In other words, you can sue for sexual harassment.

Be safe. Don't take chances.

2007-05-30 13:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Leather 5 · 0 0

Don't quit. Then you won't be able to collect unemployment. Get fired instead. If the flirting really bothers you then complain to someone. Maybe your bosses' boss. You might have a decent sexual harassment/retaliation lawsuit if they fire you.

2007-05-30 13:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by YBMEUBU 3 · 0 0

Start looking for another job immediately and take whatever comes so you can quit that one. Sounds like a ridiculous situation and a no win one at that.

2007-05-30 13:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Irish 7 · 2 0

actually why don't you just take it up a notch and let his wife know that you love your job, but he is staring and flirting and it is making you feel very uncomfortable. I know if it were me that you came to i would make damn sure that you could do your job in peace and i would seriously have a very long conversation with my husband about sexual harrassment, and divorce.

2007-05-30 13:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0 1

This gentlemans actions are totally inappropriate, you are not doing anything wrong, but he is and he is aware that he is doing it. If it continues, then I would look for another job as I feel he knows what he is doing and that it is bothering you. Yes, I would quit my job and find another.

2007-05-30 13:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by angel 3 · 2 0

You have had is so go up to him when the wife is there and ask him what he wants as you saw him staring at you.

2007-05-30 13:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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