This is just to clarify a bit.. I am new to this board so am not too familiar with how it all works yet... my husband does not have the girlfriend anymore ..he was the one calling her an alcoholic and whore etc etc... I used to actually chat with her and we got along fine.... but she did have some serious issues...
I have just called the kids family doctor and am awaiting a call back to see if I can get a referral for counselling for the kids and of course I will be there too... knowledge is power... will try to learn how to deal with this mess....
I have heard from his half sister that he goes to sleep when the kids are with him and or goes out to the coffee shop and takes quite awhile to return..leaving the kids with her ( when he lived there at the time ) and now that he is on his own he still goes to sleep and leaves the 10 yr old to watch the 9 and 4 year old until he wakes up...where is the supervision...
2007-05-30 06:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by Realistic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
didnt see your other question but from that last bit of info hes not watching them i think you need to sort out different access for them with him hes not responsible
2007-05-30 06:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I didnt see your other question but from what you say he shouldnt have the kids to stay at all if he is going to leave them to fend for them selves. What if one of them were sick and couldnt get up or call for help? Are the rest of the kids then responsable for what happnes next? Or like my friend's kids who nearly died in a house fire when she left the kids alone to nip to the shop?
Its not worth the risk. Full stop.
It is a very hard possition for you to be in, but Ive been throught the court system with a b******. Fighting agenst neglect and lack of care agenst my eldest when said B had visiting rights. So keep your kids close, get advice from everywhere, and act on it. Nothing is too much when its your child. Everything possitive you do will help you and your children become stronger.
I wish you the very best of luck in sorting this out.
2007-05-30 07:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your other questions, you need to find someone who will supervise the children while they are in his care if he is this depressed. I would not trust someone who threaten suicide. You hear so much of parents killing them selves and then taking the kids life also. Right now he is not capable of watching them for a long period of time. Let your lawyer know this so it can be addressed. Only you can protect your children, no one else will do it.
2007-05-30 08:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't prove to you that he can look after the children then refuse to let him have the children, but if he makes you let him have the children then get the police to check on him when they are in his care...
2007-05-31 10:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Granny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋