My friend and I were talking the other day about our husbands, and opened up a lot. She told me that her husband is really big into porn, which I knew. Then she told me that he gets himself off while fantasizing of these women. Not only that she told me every time they have sex he is thinking of a woman that he knows, a few times it has been me. She said that I shouldn't let my husband fool me all men are like this. I asked my husband about it and he said that he hasn't ever fantasized of another woman while we are having sex, is he lying or is her husband just a perv?
2007-05-30 08:26:46 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well her husband is wrong, not all guys are into porno and not all guys fantasize about other women, I know I do not and would not allow myself to do that. All that would do is tempt me to think of things that would cause or breed dissatisfaction with my wife and our love life. My wife is my dream girl and that is where I plan to keep her. Your husband could be telling you the truth and your friend may just be looking for company in her misery.
2007-05-30 08:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kel, my love only people who have been seduced by the devil think of someone else when they are making love ! All men or women are not like that ! Porn has no place in a marrige. The husband and wife should be best friends and exclusive lovers. Your friends husband is a hell bound perv ! Your husband sounds like a good man !
2007-05-30 08:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is telling the truth. I don't fantasize about other women while having sex. Your friend sounds like she's trying to make her husband look normal with that statement.
Not all men do that....
2007-05-30 08:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by joeysdudes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perv or not your friends hubby is honest.Your friends hubby atleast shares his fantasy openly with his wife . He maybe the devil but he is surely better than a deep sea-atleast u know what to expect of him. As for your husband, only u r the best judge.
2007-05-30 08:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by surendra s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her husband is just a perv. There are many types of men out there and I'd say hers is near the bottom. She's probably just trying to feel better by saying that your husband is that way also.
2007-05-30 08:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by SlamDUNK 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you sometimes fantasize about other men during sex? I think you already know the answer to the question.
2007-05-30 09:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ask for guys i see the women in denial piped in... Truth be known we men fantasize about many different women especially on our second nut... The truth hurts sorry but just a fact.. not all men here will admit to it.
2007-05-30 08:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by bluemist 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is wrong, which is typical of any blanket statement. I do not know why it is important to her that you believe that falsehood, but I suspect she is trying to rationalize it.
My first impression was that it was her way of introducing the topic of a threesome with her and her husband.
Edit: I enjoy porn but half the time I am thinking of my wife, not the woman pictured, and when I'm with my wife I am not fantasizing that she is someone else. Ever.
2007-05-30 09:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well as a guy myself i can honestly say i've never thought about another woman when making love to the girl i'm with
and its not neccesarily that he's a perv. he just may need that type of stimulation to have an orgasm , she should tell him to stop telling her what he's thinking about while with her, its rude and insulting to her he should be telling her about how much he likes being with her and how sexy she is, and beautiful
so i dont think hes a perv. just selfish and rude
B.
2007-05-30 08:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by ivan dog 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the question is do you believe him???? if you do then you wouldnt need to ask this question??? so i will take as you dont.....then you have a bigger issue then if he thinks about another woman during sex
all men are not the same though...if you feel comfortable enough that he doesnt need to think about another women then good, if you dont, then give him a reason not to think about anyone then the beautiful women that he has right in front of him
if you change up your sex life and make it something he looks foward to, not to just get off, but because he is anxious to see what you all are gonna do next, then he will think nothing us but you
2007-05-30 08:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by cardsuofl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋